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LOL - you sound like the biggest kunt haha - Your life revolves around a f**king pub, your not George Clooney.

Hahaha! That made my Friday.

Seriously though, at what point in your life do you get so many women wanting you that you have to tell them lies to avoid getting in any relationship?

Do you not want to achieve anything in life??

The Majority of people would like kids..but do you not want to live your own life 1st?? Your 22..start thinking about kids when your 30.

Joe speaks the truth. Although, its personal preference really.

I agree with Joe, but that's because I never want kids - I don't want to be 'tied down' with such a thing. I like the whole bang on the door "Come on, lets to to Vegas" kinda lifestyle where I don't have to worry about anything, or anyone else.

I feel shit when I commit to a phone contact for 18 months, let alone a child for 18 years.

If I remember rightly, you said you were having trouble with your missus? If thats the case, having a kid and make or break it...but everyone I know who had a kid to try and 'save' the relationship ended up breaking up anyway.

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Oh yeah !

Just got home :rolleyes:

Went to the fireworks last night, it was hard but I didn't text her to say I was going or anything. I found her but I hung back and stood on my own for a min' or two, she came over to me and gave me a cuddle, asked me how things were and stuff and then I went and hung out with her and her parents.

Went back to the pub and played with the land lords daughter and some sparklers which was nice, then about half 11 we packed up and went back to hers.

Cuddled up in bed and had a chat, the verdict was that we should keep on as we were and not rush anything. She promised me I was the only guy on the cards and that she doesn't see anybody else past a friends level and doesn't have sex with any of the guys she knows because they are just friends. I told her how I feel about her, and she told me not to say anymore and that she already knew.

Then I f**ked her senseless and she gave me a lift home this morning after some breakfast :)

I'm a happy bunny because now I know where I stand, we had a go at some of the basic issues (like age gap, and me being a retard) and none of them are a problem any more.

(Y)

I can see what Anzo is saying about the trust thing because it is/should be stating the obvious but i'd not read too much into it. Something like that could eat your brain and is probably nothing other than being open, honest and straight down the line with you after a slightly confusing and mixed up start to the relationship, if you know what i mean.

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Joe speaks the truth. Although, its personal preference really.

I agree with Joe, but that's because I never want kids - I don't want to be 'tied down' with such a thing. I like the whole bang on the door "Come on, lets to to Vegas" kinda lifestyle where I don't have to worry about anything, or anyone else.

I feel shit when I commit to a phone contact for 18 months, let alone a child for 18 years.

If I remember rightly, you said you were having trouble with your missus? If thats the case, having a kid and make or break it...but everyone I know who had a kid to try and 'save' the relationship ended up breaking up anyway.

You're right, total personal preference.

I did say I was having some trouble with the missus, but it turned out to be something ridiculously menial so long term isn't a problem. We know what we want, and we know it'll happen, it's just a case of when.

I personally can't deal with the "Come on, lets to (sic) to Vegas" lifestyle, I need stability and a plan. Horses for courses and all that.

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I think it's great if JD wants a kid and being 22 shouldn't matter as long as you have a baby for the right reasons. best of luck mate.

I personally don't want a kid and i can't see me changing my mind anytime soon and i'm sure the women feels the same. Whenever me and the women have been "unsafe" we have both been worried and rushed to the chemist at the speed of the light the next morning because that's just not for us at the moment - we enjoy our relationship with out that responsibility and love the make it up as we go along lifestyle. I like the idea of being a dad but i can't take care of myself and i am way too irresponsible to look after a kid and i don't really want to be restricted like that just yet. One day maybe though.

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You're right, total personal preference.

I did say I was having some trouble with the missus, but it turned out to be something ridiculously menial so long term isn't a problem. We know what we want, and we know it'll happen, it's just a case of when.

I personally can't deal with the "Come on, lets to (sic) to Vegas" lifestyle, I need stability and a plan. Horses for courses and all that.

Cool :) All the best with it, I'm sure you'll make a great dad.

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Cool :) All the best with it, I'm sure you'll make a great dad.

I doubt it's uber close anyway - it was probably one of those conversations that then gets put off for years haha. Thanks though :) It might get me off this place a bit more when it happens!

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LOL - you sound like the biggest kunt haha - Your life revolves around a f**king pub, your not George Clooney.

Do you not want to achieve anything in life??

The Majority of people would like kids..but do you not want to live your own life 1st?? Your 22..start thinking about kids when your 30.

listen to this guy !

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LOL - you sound like the biggest kunt haha - Your life revolves around a f**king pub, your not George Clooney.

Do you not want to achieve anything in life??

The Majority of people would like kids..but do you not want to live your own life 1st?? Your 22..start thinking about kids when your 30.

Think hes 18 but said he was 20 odd a while ago.

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Cheers Luke (Y)

Joe -

I don't like women, hence the normally saying I'm in a relationship or whatever. I find them a f**king pain in the ass and generally unnecessary, which is why I was so unsure about whats going on at the moment. It's not as though I'm trying to say I'm a sex god and have to turn them down for that sort of reason, I just generally don't get on with them and they don't seem to get on with me.

Anzo/whatever your name is and Winnie -

The reason that came up was because earlier in the evening she spoke to my friend Katie, and Katie basically told her that I was afraid of her getting with another guy and me playing second fiddle to somebody else. I thought telling Katie this was private but it appears she thought it would make her think twice about me. She knew it was something I had in the back of my mind and I guess she wanted to put it to rest.

Anyway (and more importantly) I'm really happy, I feel as though I've achieved something. So f**k the piss takers, and thanks to all the people who offered advice because you've been great (Y)

Going round to hers tonight, going to get a take away curry from town on the way and watch some shitty TV and chill out :)

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Bitchey..Yes!

Truthful..Yes!

Twat...Yes!

Nahhh, I don't care Joe you can say what you like, I'm happy now. :)

I've got the result I wanted so who cares how I got there, I've got myself in with a cracking woman who would seem to an outsider like yourself to be miles out of my league.

Job done, now the hard work starts ;)

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To be fair a picture or ANY girl would be miles out of Jarrods league...

You guys are such rapists, and I know I'll get raped if I don't post a picture and I know I'll get raped if I do...

On the left, f**k knows who the one with gang green on her teeth on the right is...

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What simps said..

Btw i havnt actually read anything posted...but does she work in the pub?? Or is she just an alcoholic who lives in the pub?

You guys are such rapists, and I know I'll get raped if I don't post a picture and I know I'll get raped if I do...

On the left :rolleyes: (f**k knows who the one with gang green on her teeth on the right is...)

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P.s Shes all yours buddy (Y)

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What simps said..

Btw i havnt actually read anything posted...but does she work in the pub?? Or is she just an alcoholic who lives in the pub?

P.s Shes all yours buddy (Y)

She works at a local school as a teacher, but she works a couple of evening in the pub.

And anyway, I'm the resident alcoholic !

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