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That was my theory, and i guess it was my mates judging by his reaction to not receiving a phone call, but this lass was 25 and still on pay as you go! :lol:

On the phone to her now :)

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Right, just got off the phone. I didn't say the things I want to say to her (Grrrrr) but she's coming to the Bonfire at the pub tomorrow night so I will have a chat with her then. It's much better to say stuff like that face to face, and I chickened out at the last min'.

However, she did phone me back so it can't be all bad ! :ermm:

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On the phone to her now :)

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Right, just got off the phone. I didn't say the things I want to say to her (Grrrrr) but she's coming to the Bonfire at the pub tomorrow night so I will have a chat with her then. It's much better to say stuff like that face to face, and I chickened out at the last min'.

However, she did phone me back so it can't be all bad ! :ermm:

Well done mate, like you say stuff like that is best said in person.

If i were you i'd just look forward to having a good night tomorrow and save the proper relationship stuff till a convenient time - have a cracking time with her first! You will come to the deep stuff at some point in the night but there's no rush.

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Her mum and dad will be there tomorrow, which will be fun sapping but it will give me a chance to show that I can be family orientated aswell which will be cool.

And I find it really cool being with her parents strangely enough, they are really cool people and are very down to earth.

I'm going to the pub now, cheers and catch you later !

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Her mum and dad will be there tomorrow, which will be fun sapping but it will give me a chance to show that I can be family orientated aswell which will be cool.

And I find it really cool being with her parents strangely enough, they are really cool people and are very down to earth.

I'm going to the pub now, cheers and catch you later !

My girlfriends parents are top notch. I fortunately get on with them very well and they are both a lot of fun. I often go for beers with them, on holiday etc. Sometimes i think i get on with them better than her! ;)

Enjoy!

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Going back to the PAYG thing, I had contracts and got scammed by o2 so I'm back on PAYG.

Costs me £10 a month, rather than £40-60.

I've had bad experiences with O2 myself. They basically kept billing me for made up calls and charges. I've had to reclaims £100's back off them over the last couple of years. I'm still on a contract like just because when i'm not being billed "accidentally" it works out a fair bit cheaper for me and i get a new phone every year. Saying that, i'm not really that bothered about the phones themselves as long as they work and do what i want them to do.

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Going back to the PAYG thing, I had contracts and got scammed by o2 so I'm back on PAYG.

Costs me £10 a month, rather than £40-60.

Thats because 02 are shit, I've got a sim only Vodafone with unlimited calls, texts and internet/pic messages for £10 a month.

Bought a Sony Ericssson from SAinsburys for about £100 and I'm sorted :)

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Thats because 02 are shit, I've got a sim only Vodafone with unlimited calls, texts and internet/pic messages for £10 a month.

Bought a Sony Ericssson from SAinsburys for about £100 and I'm sorted :)

what?! seriously? get me a link! i want that sim card!

cheers mate.

p.s- you probably dont care, but reading how you act in the girl situations, reminds me of myself alot! lol. oh well, over thinking is surely good sometimes?! ...i hope.

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what?! seriously? get me a link! i want that sim card!

cheers mate.

p.s- you probably dont care, but reading how you act in the girl situations, reminds me of myself alot! lol. oh well, over thinking is surely good sometimes?! ...i hope.

You have to be referred by a customer and you also have to be an existing customer, I've referred my sister so I can't refer anybody else unfortunatly :(

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It's bad all the time. I do it, it f**ks my head up and makes me a grumpy fanny.

i missed out on a girl ive dribbled over for aaaaaages because i kept making up excuses in my head not to take the plunge and ask her out as i over thought everything. I kept thinking 'oh she wont like me, why would she?' rather than just asking her myself. I also didnt want to ask her because if she did say no it would be a confidence knock.

instead of just getting on with stuff, i just think it all through stupidly loads, talk myself out of stuff and then fanny it.....and get all grumpy when it dont go my way..AND ITS ALL MY FAULT!?!

worse thing is.....i spoke to her on facebook with our usual chit chat and got onto the stuff about us because i drunkenly text her etc...turns out she wanted me to ask her out for ages, she would have said yes but she is now seeing someone else and theres pics of them kissing on facebook etc now. GREAT!

life tip for everyone......JUST GET THE f**k ON WITH IT! in whatever you do, in any situation your unsure of and questioning your confidence etc...JUST GET THE f**k ON AND DO IT! before you have a chance to analyse it and talk yourself out of it. f**ks up? least you tried!.

sorry to go on lol.

going to be kicking myself for ages though.....only myself to blame

You have to be referred by a customer and you also have to be an existing customer, I've referred my sister so I can't refer anybody else unfortunatly :(

no worries mate, least i know now.

think my bro might be on vodafone.

cheers

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Hmmm, thing thing to do is just do it. But when the time is right !

I can't take this any more, for the last 3 or 4 days I've been really beating myself up about this.

I've never felt attached to women, usually I hate them because of their over complicated nature and all that sort of stuff.

But for some reason I just can't get her out of my mind, and it's not as though she's the only woman I've been with for a while. In fact usually I turn them down or tell them I've got a girlfriend/am gay. But I just want her so badly, I'm not sure what I'll feel if she says no, which is making me want to bottle things up even more :(

Oh f**k, i'm f**ked :

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Hmmm, thing thing to do is just do it. But when the time is right !

I can't take this any more, for the last 3 or 4 days I've been really beating myself up about this.

I've never felt attached to women, usually I hate them because of their over complicated nature and all that sort of stuff.

But for some reason I just can't get her out of my mind, and it's not as though she's the only woman I've been with for a while. In fact usually I turn them down or tell them I've got a girlfriend/am gay. But I just want her so badly, I'm not sure what I'll feel if she says no, which is making me want to bottle things up even more :(

Oh f**k, i'm f**ked :

ye, i seem to prefer to wonder forever what they would say, rather than asking and risk a massive confidence bash if they say no. Because atleast if i never know then it could have been a yes, so it wont be as bad. But then after a while and you realise you have missed your chance its hurts also! (like what has just happened to me) Because it could have been a yes!

reading that.....im such a fanny haha.

note to self: GROW SOME BALLS YOU FAGWASH!

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God im having a baby :blink:

Shit scattor :P

Naaaaaaaaaa its cooollll......

jades calming down now as she hits her second trimester....she aint so sik and bitchy anymore whooooreyyyy!

she still crys and stuff though for no reason and bitches .its so annoying (hormones) OHHHHHHHHH JOY!.......some times i just want to gag her and put her in the cupboard and play COD w.a.w for a few hrs ! :D

so hows peoples doing?

I love you Dave :lol:

LOLZ :D:D:D:D

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And women complain about the lack of caring and understanding men out there. This is an example of just how wrong they are.

Dave Anscombe, we salute you.

In other news, my relationship is going great the past couple of days, which probably means she'll dump me tomorrow. In the couple of days though, we've talked about maybe having a kid. That's like literally everything I want in life, so it makes me pretty damn happy. The downside is I don't know how long she'll feel the same. So do I just go with it and plant one in her now and hope for the best, or wait it out a bit?! haha.

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Oh yeah !

Just got home :rolleyes:

Went to the fireworks last night, it was hard but I didn't text her to say I was going or anything. I found her but I hung back and stood on my own for a min' or two, she came over to me and gave me a cuddle, asked me how things were and stuff and then I went and hung out with her and her parents.

Went back to the pub and played with the land lords daughter and some sparklers which was nice, then about half 11 we packed up and went back to hers.

Cuddled up in bed and had a chat, the verdict was that we should keep on as we were and not rush anything. She promised me I was the only guy on the cards and that she doesn't see anybody else past a friends level and doesn't have sex with any of the guys she knows because they are just friends. I told her how I feel about her, and she told me not to say anymore and that she already knew.

Then I f**ked her senseless and she gave me a lift home this morning after some breakfast :)

I'm a happy bunny because now I know where I stand, we had a go at some of the basic issues (like age gap, and me being a retard) and none of them are a problem any more.

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She promised me I was the only guy on the cards and that she doesn't see anybody else past a friends level and doesn't have sex with any of the guys she knows because they are just friends. I told her how I feel about her, and she told me not to say anymore and that she already knew.

I've never once had a girl say this to me. If she did say it, it would sound like (to me) that she's trying to emphasize a trust which would already be there...so it should kinda go without saying.

For her to promise such a thing seems pretty ridiculous - she shouldn't have to promise it, sounds like she's in denile about something. Either that or shes made some mistake and realises you're the best choice for her...which is all well and good.

Who knows, probably reading too much into that.

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In fact usually I turn them down or tell them I've got a girlfriend/am gay.

LOL - you sound like the biggest kunt haha - Your life revolves around a f**king pub, your not George Clooney.

In the couple of days though, we've talked about maybe having a kid. That's like literally everything I want in life, so it makes me pretty damn happy.

Do you not want to achieve anything in life??

The Majority of people would like kids..but do you not want to live your own life 1st?? Your 22..start thinking about kids when your 30.

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Do you not want to achieve anything in life??

The Majority of people would like kids..but do you not want to live your own life 1st?? Your 22..start thinking about kids when your 30.

To me, personally, that's the biggest achievement that there is. To bring someone into the world and teach them right and wrong and how to always be right (:P) is the biggest responsibility there is and I want it. I also want to still be in touch when my kids are my age, like my rents are with me. I'm never gonna achieve anything anyway so might as well do it now!

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