Simon Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Sounds better than being caught up in an emotional shit-storm to be fair.Yup.Read up to what i posted, might of been a page before. I was in almost the same situation except we wasn't engaged and wasn't living together. I just didn't feel for her anymore and in the end decided to end it.I felt like shit and it ended shittly too in a big storm of anger and hate, but she's calmed down and is just happy i told her how i felt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa Manual Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 I know full well why she suggested I stayed. Because she want's me to get back with her, so obviously if I stayed with her, then eventually I'd decide to get back with her. Though I knew what she was thinking when she said that. But now she seems to have it in her head that things are gonna happen between us. I just feel abit guilty, as she has 1 friend from work and that's it. Another reason why I think she doesn't want t loose me.Purely based on what you are saying; if you got back with her then you'd soon feel exactly the same as you did. Also, as cruel as it sounds, you cannot base your actions on any sympathy you feel for her because as well as it not being fair on you, it isn't fair on her either as you wouldn't be with her for the right reasons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick Manning Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Yup.Read up to what i posted, might of been a page before. I was in almost the same situation except we wasn't engaged and wasn't living together. I just didn't feel for her anymore and in the end decided to end it.I felt like shit and it ended shittly too in a big storm of anger and hate, but she's calmed down and is just happy i told her how i felt. I had a read through your problem, that's how I feel, like a complete unt and selfish. That's why I've stayed with her for so long. I've like this for sometime, we went to a wedding fayre back in Feb/March, not long after I started feeling like this.Purely based on what you are saying; if you got back with her then you'd soon feel exactly the same as you did. Also, as cruel as it sounds, you cannot base your actions on any sympathy you feel for her because as well as it not being fair on you, it isn't fair on her as you aren't with her for the right reasons.Like you say you seems so cruel, but it's unfair on both of us if I stay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Also, as cruel as it sounds, you cannot base your actions on any sympathy you feel for her because as well as it not being fair on you, it isn't fair on her either as you wouldn't be with her for the right reasons.Agreed. I felt like such a dick when i eventually picked my bollocks up of the floor and told her it was over, but after the initial campaign of hate which even involved her mum getting involved, she's now supremely sorry for what happened and the way she ended up, but can also side my decision and is thankful i didn't keep up our relationship based on sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick Manning Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Agreed. I felt like such a dick when i eventually picked my bollocks up of the floor and told her it was over, but after the initial campaign of hate which even involved her mum getting involved, she's now supremely sorry for what happened and the way she ended up, but can also side my decision and is thankful i didn't keep up our relationship based on sympathy.Thats a slight concern of mine. As I live with her parent's and her step dad is retired and mum was made redundant, there both currently home and will be at 6:30pm when Sian get's home from work. I get on with them both really well, but her mum does annoy the hell out of me at time's, and I've seen this in Sian. Think she's slowly turning into her mum, attitude wise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 How do you resist the urge to rail female friends?I have a really good friend, we would never work in a relationship and I enjoy her as a friend, couldn't imagine and wouldn't want anything more. I just get the urge to ram it in her every now and again..ahh this is a good one. and i like to get round this problem by ramming her. this is the best way to get a f**k buddy. no stress, she wont want more, you definately dont want more, but it allows lots of easy sex all the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
froggy Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 ahh this is a good one. and i like to get round this problem by ramming her. this is the best way to get a f**k buddy. no stress, she wont want more, you definately dont want more, but it allows lots of easy sex all the time You can't just ask for casual sex? What if they say no and go all weird? Like I said, don't want to mess up the friendship. We're going camping next week, just us two and myyyyy god I get the feeling she's asking for a fanny slamming every now and again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Yoshi Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 You can't just ask for casual sex? What if they say no and go all weird? Like I said, don't want to mess up the friendship. We're going camping next week, just us two and myyyyy god I get the feeling she's asking for a fanny slamming every now and again.Simple answer here.Just do her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krisboats Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 You can't just ask for casual sex? What if they say no and go all weird? Like I said, don't want to mess up the friendship. We're going camping next week, just us two and myyyyy god I get the feeling she's asking for a fanny slamming every now and again.On average girls are far more comfortable talking about sex in general and theoretical scenarios, it's also usually us guys that end up getting emotionally attached too fast and to things we shouldn't. She'll be fine with discussing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 You can't just ask for casual sex? What if they say no and go all weird? Like I said, don't want to mess up the friendship. We're going camping next week, just us two and myyyyy god I get the feeling she's asking for a fanny slamming every now and again.what krisboats said is true. but i didnt mean talk to her. get a few drinks in the two of you, let nature take its course to the bedroom. after the first one, it will basically be expected from you. which is good, if you enjoy your shags Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
froggy Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 I get what your saying Krisboats, I do care for her as a friend and as a friend only and I know that the feeling is mutual. We talk about sex thoughly and it's never awkward or weirdperhaps I'm just thinking with my dick?She's going to uni in September anyway, I should stop talking until something (if anything) happens. I'm goin to Liverpool with her tommorow to see a mates band then sleeping at her sisters empty house in Liverpool as there all on holiday.We'll see.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Shagged sum bird, now she thinks i love her.help Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted August 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Tell her?"Look, im not looking for a relationship right now. Fancy a f**k?"Timing is everything Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshlyd1 Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 HA u really think she will take that down ok loldo it in a quiet library Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 f**ks sake shes a nut case, she told her mate i said i loved her.thank f**k she doesnt know were i live. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshlyd1 Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Me thinks she is going to stalk you untill you f**ker so hard that she cant stand up after and gets to sit in a wheelchair for the rest of her life then she wont catch you hahahaaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Me thinks she is going to stalk you untill you f**ker so hard that she cant stand up after and gets to sit in a wheelchair for the rest of her life then she wont catch you hahahaaaThe f**k?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 The f**k?!+1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshlyd1 Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Its how the pros do it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 (edited) Hahaha Edited August 7, 2009 by MadManMike Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Its how the pros do itVirgin? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshlyd1 Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Noo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onzatrip Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Noosure...... i think noone believes you!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshlyd1 Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Have you met me well exactly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adamtrials Posted August 7, 2009 Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Have you met me well exactlyPictures of the go kart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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