Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[Walleee]

Been roughly 2 months since my gf broke up with me and matters are just getting worse. She's completely blocked any contact with me (6 weeks since we last spoke) and we can't meet for another month because she's away (not that she'll bother to let me know she's back). And with every day I just get more depressed about what has happened. I'm longing to talk to somebody just like I did with her, my family being totally f**ked up just results in me having nobody I can talk to from heart to heart. Treated my gf like my real family, not the one I've got. And all I get is one email explaining she's fed up with me. It was partly my fault and that's why I now feel like shit, it's the moments one went out to ride or sat bored at home which I regret most, after all I could meet up with her but didn't. Every single thing reminds me of her, I keep dreaming about finally meeting her, and her forgiving me all the mistakes I made - and it's always the same f**king dream, the same surrounding, the same people, the same interaction. And the sad thing is that this dream will never become reality.

Obviously we know only what you've told us, but to be honest it seems like your better off without her. It's a harsh reality which I know isn't easy to come to terms with, but it'll have to be done at some point. I went with a girl for 2 and a half years or so, things were just dying basically, the relationship had lost it's spark. We decided to go on a break for a few weeks, this was a year ago, since then I've seen her once.

We had allways said that no matter what, we would allways be friends, I even have letters from her stating this in writing.....

My relationship taught me loads, but most importantly, that girls are not worth the hassle they create, and most lie through their teeth to get whatever they want. ha! im now actually rather f**ked off!

[anzo]

15 year old girl - 'hahaha anzo has a willy bigger that my entire arm, hahahaha'

If she actually called me 'anzo' I'd probably be laughing to much to even consider sex...who dares me to legally change my name?

that girls are not worth the hassle they create, and most lie through their teeth to get whatever they want.

Gotta say that, obviously, all girls aren't the time. I have a few female friends I'd love to be with and would be happy with...but its just not going to happen.

I don't think anyone fully gets over an ex, I mean, you went out with the person for the obvious reasons, reasons you can't turn off at the flick of a switch. I saw my ex again tonight and my god did she look f**king gorgeous...

But...thats over with no, nothing on earth would get us back together and we both realise that...however being friends is one of those things couples say because neither of them want to say 'have a nice life, see you'. I, nore anyone I know, has broken up with a girl and remained good friends.

[Greetings]

I went with a girl for 2 and a half years or so, things were just dying basically, the relationship had lost it's spark. We decided to go on a break for a few weeks, this was a year ago, since then I've seen her once.

That's exactly what happened this end, I got ever so slightly bored with the relationship and it started to fall apart (this is what I mean writing it was my fault, we just didn't meet that often). All I needed was to fall in love again, which I did the day after she broke up. A shock always works best... If she was alone, didn't have a boyfriend all would be well but I just hate the thought that in 3 hours she'll be in bed with a total dickhead. And when we were still together we rarely had the chance to sleep together because of how far away she lives.

Well, the good thing is that I got her a stock bike while in the UK because she wanted to ride with me. It was green as she wanted. But as we broke up, I rode it... purely out of interest. Now I know that I was born to ride stock . No girlfriend but much more fun from riding. She can always ride the 221Gaybike if she wants, but that will never happen because we might not meet again.

I just don't know if I should meet up with her once she's back or just chat to her over the phone. Meeting with her would remind me of when we were still together = not good.

[Joe_Elding]

Ahhh im stuck for choice at the mo

1) the girl im going out with at the mo is averagely fit, but her parents always go out of the country like ever week or so so i can just go round her house and just have wild dirty sex with her for the whole weekend. BUT she has THE most annoying voice in the world, ever.

2) Then theres this other girl who isincredibly fit, easily the best looking girl ever(that i know), and she told loads of her mates that she fancies me, BUT she doesnt give it up all that easily so id have to be going out with her for atleast 2 months before she lets me dick her. she is pretty cool though.

3) Then theres this other girl who tries it on with me at every party, she'd let me f**k her fanny whenever, wherever, but shes not quite as good looking as number 1, BUt doesnt have and annoying voice, and she pretty cool to generally hand around with,

Which one do i go with

Edited September 3, 2006 by Joe_Elding

[Walleee]

That's exactly what happened this end, I got ever so slightly bored with the relationship and it started to fall apart (this is what I mean writing it was my fault, we just didn't meet that often). All I needed was to fall in love again, which I did the day after she broke up. A shock always works best... If she was alone, didn't have a boyfriend all would be well but I just hate the thought that in 3 hours she'll be in bed with a total dickhead. And when we were still together we rarely had the chance to sleep together because of how far away she lives.

Well, the good thing is that I got her a stock bike while in the UK because she wanted to ride with me. It was green as she wanted. But as we broke up, I rode it... purely out of interest. Now I know that I was born to ride stock . No girlfriend but much more fun from riding. She can always ride the 221Gaybike if she wants, but that will never happen because we might not meet again.

I just don't know if I should meet up with her once she's back or just chat to her over the phone. Meeting with her would remind me of when we were still together = not good.

I wouldn't even bother giving her the time of day. It's just not worth it. She's obviously given you a shite time, with moving and all, and making up the story about being with someone else (didn't her brother confirm this was BS?)

You wont achieve anything by meeting her again, other than perhaps wanting her even more, unless you have a huge arguement, and end up hating her, which you probobly don't want either.

Ahhh im stuck for choice at the mo

1) the girl im going out with at the mo is averagely fit, but her parents always go out of the country like ever week or so so i can just go round her house and just have wild dirty sex with her for the whole weekend. BUT she has THE most annoying voice in the world, ever.

2) Then theres this other girl who isincredibly fit, easily the best looking girl ever(that i know), and she told loads of her mates that she fancies me, BUT she doesnt give it up all that easily so id have to be going out with her for atleast 2 months before she lets me dick her. she is pretty cool though.

3) Then theres this other girl who tries it on with me at every party, she'd let me f**k her fanny whenever, wherever, but shes not quite as good looking as number 1, BUt doesnt have and annoying voice, and she pretty cool to generally hand around with,

Which one do i go with

2 obviously, unless you want your dick to fall off.

[Greetings]

I wouldn't even bother giving her the time of day. It's just not worth it. She's obviously given you a shite time, with moving and all, and making up the story about being with someone else (didn't her brother confirm this was BS?)

You wont achieve anything by meeting her again, other than perhaps wanting her even more, unless you have a huge arguement, and end up hating her, which you probobly don't want either.

Yep, he did say it was bullshit but after 3 months of living together with that guy she can only:

-Love him to bits

-Hate him and kill him, and then commit suicide which would make her no.1 on Emo Most Favoured People List. And then all the Emos would commit suicide or cut themselves and die. Either way you'd have heard about it on BangorTV.

I think Joe should go for all 3 girls. Meet one at 4pm, the other at 6pm and the one you like most (being #2) at 8pm which will give you a chance to attack her with what has been hard all day since 4pm.

[Lawnmowerman]

Do you only care about sex?

[the_soon_to_be]

hmm, normally i don't post in here seriously because if i ever have problems then i turn to katy and she always has the time/answers for me..

i have been going out with georgie for over 2 months now, and owing to m previous relationships that is quite respectable for me, but she seems to make no time for actually seeing me, all she does is call and text.. i'm not the sort of guy who obsesses about sex, although its a bonus..

but she lets me down all the time, the week before i went on holiday to blackpool we were mean't to meet up, and she let me down everytime, so when i got back i wanted to see her, she text me in the morning and said "i'll let you know when i'm in town" bearing in mind its a 20min train journey and 20min walk for me, so off i went to get all ready (shit, shower, shave) waiting all eagly in my house for her text, 8pm comes around i get a text "sorry completely forgot all about you"

BITCH !!!

alittle background about me and katy :

we both started the same motorbike stunt team 8 years ago, when i was a wee nipper at 9 years old.. and we pretty much struck it off straight away, and within a year we did everything together.. and as the years went on our friendship got stronger and stronger.. and eventually we ended going out when i was 13 years old, and this was for about 6 months.. we later broke up, and our friendship had a deadspot of 2-3months, but luckly for us my mum and her mum had become best friends also, so then soon has us sorted out and back to normal..

i'm now just turned 17, and katy is still my best friend, as has been for the entir 8 years, she is a main factor in my life for who i have turned out to be.. even as my best friend i would do anything for her, and have gone to the limits for her already (fighting to prtect her, spending all my savings on her when she had a low spot, going on holiday to america/mexico with her and lots more)

we went to blackpool last week on a small camping holiday for alittle over a week, and on this holiday EVERYTHING became so cler to me

she expressed her true feeling towards me, and they made me feel so special/wanted that i welled up inside.. and through the time we have been back i have been doing some bad ass thinking about the matter, and i have realised that my feelings to her aren't just as friends, i have become aware of the fact that i love katy..

i say i love georgie, but thats just words... when i say "i love you" to katy it is a feeling that i have had inside of me for the majority of the 8 years we have know each other, and its the little things, with everygirl i said that too, all i ever say it "love you" but with katy i add in the "i" and i never realised..

she treats me the way i deserve to be treated, and she isn't afraid to tell about her feelings to me, and neither am i with her.. so i have been thinking, and thought i would turn to my mum for help (my mum is effectively katys 2nd mum, they get on that well)

so i told my mum that it wasn't right with george as she could tell, but the first thing she said to me is "you love katy don't you" so i was gobsmacked, and it appears that everyone knows it, and they have been talking about it behind our back, her parents, my parents, friends

they all know, and eveysingle one of them say we just work..

only problem being that katy has a bf called ollie, and i could quite easly smash his face off.. he hasen't treaded her the best in the past and i have had many late night phone calls from her in ears from that toss pot.. katy already wants to break up with him, and her mum thinks it is the best ida as well, it seem that everyone agree's that me and her should get together..

so i am going to talk to my mum further tonight, and katy with gina (her mum) so we shall see what happens,

katy and i have been talking everynight and we both feel exactly the same, when we are together we just "fit"

so effectively, what i am saying is "i am going to ask katy out" and "i love her"

she sys the most romantic things to me and its exactly how i feel about her, she said "i have captured her heart" and she has mine as well..

the only problem being though, that i am 17 and she is 15.. although i don't act or look 17 and she is very mature, but when we are together we just forget about the age, our parents don't mind either as we have know each other so long and they can see its love

what do you think trials forum, feels so good to finally say the whole story

[poopipe]

i think you answered your own question there really didnt you?

normally I'd accuse you of being a dirty nonce for even entertaining the idea of a 15 year old but this is obviously a special case and you should at least tell her - it's not like it'll wreck 10 years of friendship even if she's not into the idea.

oh, and ditch the other one, she's a cow

[Mr Plod]

I say go for it. Its obvious from that post that you really want it to happen and have realised that the Georgie thing isn't working out too well. If it makes you happy and you know deep down you want it to happen then yeah go for it and have a fooking brill time together.

[JonCongreve]

Definately go for it!!!

Sounds like you and Katy are meant to be together, and being as you said you both have the same feelings for one another....

She's at a mature age, and the age gap really isn't alot.

[the_soon_to_be]

cheers guys,

to be honest i care for her that much (and i know she does, she told me) that i would do it either way, just wondered what you guys thought.. Katy is far to special/beautiful/amazing for me to let pass me by

you bestfriend and your girlfriend,

there are other things i haven't said, things hat we have both seen as a push in the right direction happening to get us together, its really strange

or maybe we both want it so badly that we are looking for excuses to be together, and "poopipe" purely because i am 17 it doesn't make me a raving sex beast.. i am much more of a romantic, as katy said "what happens, hppens"

just gota talk to my mum tonight, and we shall see what the future hold for us

[george_seamons]

That actually made me well up! That is soooo sweet. You'd be a fool not to go for it.

Normally I'd say not to go out with your close friends, but by the sounds of it, you're practically going out anyway, and if you've been like this for 8 years, I think its safe to say you're a good match!

At the end of the day, its 2 years. Its not like you're an adult anyway, age shouldn't be an issue. I was 18, going out with a 15 year (she was about 3 months away from being 16 when we first started seeing each other) I got a bit of stick at work to begin with, the odd remark about being a kiddy fiddler and stuff...but none of it was ever actually meant.

I went out with her for almost a year, and I can honestly say it was the best year of my life. She wasn't your typical 15 year old though, she acted alot older than me 95% of the time, and because of that, I forgot that she was nearly 3 years younger than me. And to be honest, I wasn't bothered about it at all.

It's good that your mum and her mum are so close too, because that will really help things. Family support is problem the most important thing in a situation like this.

You hear of older people being together all the time. I bet your parents have an age gap of more than 2 years! Girls tend to mature a lot sooner than us lads too, so at your age, I really don't see it being that much of an issue.

Good luck, whatever happens!

[Dan Clark]

I got together with my best friend of a year, still together nearly 18 months later.

[Si-man]

Girl I was on about a page or so back, really like her an going to ask her out but shes always going on about this lad called Jay she used to be with (not sure if she went out with him or not)

He's the same age as me.

I really don't know if I should try it or not.

Stressed out to hell an all I can think about is bloody her.

Is it worth giving it ago or not?? (she really likes me btw, well she said so yesterday and a few days ago anyway. Gonna have a chat with her mate about it aswell )

[anzo]

just gota talk to my mum tonight, and we shall see what the future hold for us

Why, is she physic or something?

[the_soon_to_be]

no, but shes a parent..

surely they automaticly hold the answer (take note poopipe)

[anzo]

*shudders*...talking to my parents about relationships...jesus. It's like asking on what sexual position was I conceived with.

But yeah, if you can talk to your folks about shit like that you're braver than I.

[the_soon_to_be]

ha, you shudder at that... i spent 2 hours talking to katy's dad about him and her mums sexual adventures,

2 words...

"German Stylee"

[poopipe]

i can see why you like her

[anzo]

i can see why you like her

Wait til you're telling him about sex with his daughter, soon wipe the smile of his f**king German Stylee face.

(ps, thats not aimed AT poopipe, although, it would be a funny state of affairs)

Edited September 5, 2006 by anzo

[the_soon_to_be]

oh well, atleast i can talk freely to her dad, he's a big b*****d

who owns a tattoo shop, so pierced and tattoo'd like f**k, scary shit..

meh, he's funny

[Onza Kieron]

Ok finished with my Gf afew days ago, went to a mates for a get together, she went, she took one of her best friends who is canny fit, my mate tried it and got to know her basically.

I want her and I challenged my mate to who gets in first, but what I wnt to know is, is this nasty towards my girlfriend, I say it is yet my other mate thinks not.

I have more questions but 1 at a time.

[Davetrials]

Girl I was on about a page or so back, really like her an going to ask her out but shes always going on about this lad called Jay she used to be with (not sure if she went out with him or not)

He's the same age as me.

I really don't know if I should try it or not.

Stressed out to hell an all I can think about is bloody her.

Is it worth giving it ago or not?? (she really likes me btw, well she said so yesterday and a few days ago anyway. Gonna have a chat with her mate about it aswell )

bet its your jay.

[Caleb]

yeah especially if its her mate and in front of her