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emma came round tonight,, feels just talked, feels like I know her better, but were still on the break, she dunno what she wants, I dunno what to do to make her feel like she did.

she says she's torn in two, but i dnty wana be strung along to have it fall apart!

aw well, only time will tell eh.....

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If you've been together only 3 months and it's like this already, end it.

Hate to be pessimistic but if it's like that already it's a bad sign.

After nearly two years me and Hayley haven't argued badly (The odd 5 minute disagreement but nothing worse than that...)

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:lol: how old are we talking?

Some wench has been claiming I tried to assault her with a carving knife :S

1/10 for thinking things through bitch, why would I try to rape you if you were known to have been handing it to me on a plate ;) Her brother laughed at her and called me, her mom thinks I'm a psycho and won't let me near the house. Good times!

Perhaps she'll try to overdose then call an ambulance again now...

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41 on Tuesday. :unsure:

And seeing at work today wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be.

That's probably because she used you for sex and seeing as she's a lot older she's emotionally competent enough to not worry about it or let it affect her professionally.

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41 on Tuesday. :unsure:

And seeing at work today wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be.

My g/f is 40 this year :)

I'm 25 next month...

Older women for the win!

I'm 18, my girl is 29. She's f*cking hot and I love her to bits. Win!

EDIT: We also work together :)

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I honestly don't think I could date a guy more than a year younger than me...

Things change when you get older.

If you were Hayley's age, you'd realise most blokes her age can't keep up - under 30's have more stamina :P

Age gaps mean less as you get older, if a 30 year old man is with a 20 year old nobody says anything, but if an 18 year old was with a 14 year old it's wrong...

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I honestly don't think I could date a guy more than a year younger than me...

To be fair you are 16, so it would be illegal haha. But age gaps are nowt as you get older (I realise I am only two years older than you but I'm talking in terms of my missus, not me). If you're happy don't let things like numbers get in your way :)

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long time since i needed to post in here.

Me and emma, have been going out for the last 3 month, all going great, until the last few days/week. we aint been talking at all, like we still see each other, but I juts go to hers, and we watch TV, the only time i talk to her is when she asks me for a drink. So friday we went out for a meal to talk. then into town with mates. all was good, talked about loads. got kinda back on track. went into town, both were very drunk, I was sitting talking to her, and a guy pulls her up and starts dancin with her, so i went over and she pushed me away, I then walked out and got some fresh air. came back in and asked her what that was all bout.

ANYWAYS fast forward to today, I went to hers to see her, and sort things out once again. we agreed to not talk / text for a week and see if that will sort it out. but i dnt thikn it will. i really love her, and i really have no one else to get an opinion from.

just keep my distance? text her during the week tell her how i feel.

Ok matt....i think this girl dont want you in all fairness.......i think she is just saying this because she does not have the gutts to tell you its over...because she knows u really really like her.....

sorry dude

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Ok matt....i think this girl dont want you in all fairness.......i think she is just saying this because she does not have the gutts to tell you its over...because she knows u really really like her.....

sorry dude

Someone's on the ball. I think it's pretty clear she doesn't feel the same way mate, no offence but you go to hers and you don't even talk to her? What's that all about? I'd say she's got absolutely no attraction for you any more because of your general wussy behaviour. It's not interesting being mr nice guy and girls go off it quick as a very fast thing indeed. Now the attraction is gone it's going to be very hard to win it back, usually impossible. Best bet now is to cut your losses and move on i'm afraid. There's plenty of girls out there, you're young and given the right approach you can have any girl of your fancy.

You're not the only guy who's heard those painful words "I need to find myself" and "It's not you, it's me". Yeah, right.

If your genuinely serious about liking this girl so much your going to have to give her time away like she suggested. Don't call her, don't text her just get out with some friends and do something interesting. Anything to keep your mind off her. When (i really would cut my losses personally) you do next see her you're going to have to act completely different and i mean COMPLETELY different. If you see yourself doing something a wussy would do stop and slap yourself in the face. You're going to have to be interesting and try to re-create the attraction that's missing. The best way for you to do this is stop f**king idolising her and coming across as a little bitch. This might sound harsh but believe me i'm saying it with the best of intentions. Now what you want to do is a bit of homework. Go check out "The Maltese Falcon" with Humphrey Bogart and pay close attention to the way he interacts with women. That's the sort of behaviour that is attractive to a girl, not being a little wussy. Unfortunately the problem you're having is entirely with you, but luckily you CAN change it ;)

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werd. kris is totally right, treat her like shit and she will love you for it. if someones talking and she wants your attention ignore that bitch. accidently stick it in her bumhole 'by mistake', go out with your friends unless you have a free house. dont snub your mates for this girl, promise you, the fanny tactic never fails. just dont cheat on her and the love will come flyin back (Y)

at the end of the day. shes just a girl, im sure you are plenty capible of gettin her back if thats what you really want. just have a laugh while you do it :)

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