Sam-Addy A3 Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 right, a girl just told me she really likes me and I do really like her, but I dnt think I'm ready for a relationship ATM. I told her that, and she seems to be ok, but I really like her, just for some reason dnt want a relationship, what should I do?Sam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 Dude im always like that..........i hate relationships and commitment......what do you do...?u dont want a relationships with her.......just be her friend simple as Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 u dont want a relationships with her.......just be her SPECIAL friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caleb Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 right, a girl just told me she really likes me and I do really like her, but I dnt think I'm ready for a relationship ATM. I told her that, and she seems to be ok, but I really like her, just for some reason dnt want a relationship, what should I do?SamCould always tell her you don't think you'd be such a good boyfriend but give it a try anyway?Nothing to lose really and pretty much guaranteed a shag Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-Addy A3 Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 (edited) I could, but i don't want a commitment, at all lol.And i don't wanna just use her to get a shag, cos i actually care about her you know? Edited April 7, 2009 by Sam-Addy A3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 Bit of a funny one here.Been out with this woman Anna a fair few times now, and she's lovely. She's a 24 year old Dutch woman who I met at work, and got chatting with and ended up showing her a few local pubs and going out cycling with her and stuff.I've "avoided" the how old are you question pretty well, but I don't want her to know how old I am for the simple fact that she probably won't want to go out to pubs and beaches and stuff with me because of how young I am. She has a great time while she's out with me and is always texting my the second she gets back to arrange another "date". I've been out with her tonight and just got back in, she invited me into her flat but I declined because she's had 6 glasses of wine....I don't know wether I should just wait until she asks me how old I am and then tell her, or if I should just try my hardest to avoid the question. She probably won't want to know me if she knew how old I was because she's very "proper" and would see me as a "kid". She's already said in conversation she'd see the idea of going out with a younger man disgusting, so f**k going out with someone almost ten years younger than her ! By going out I don't mean as partners, I just mean going out for shits and giggles together...I'm a bit late on this, but just wait until you're balls-deep and then tell her. She's unlikely to push you off in that situation.Winner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr_malcolm Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 +1 to mikes idea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich J Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 Took the trek to see the misses today got into town to get this message: "Babe im really really sorry, ill be hours. I genuinely am the most sorry I have ever been. I will call you later sorry I cant really tell you love you x x x have to turn my phone off" Hung around for ages got nothing, sent messages, tried to call, nothing. Can think of loads of shit reasons why but I dont want to think about those. Someone give me a good reason for this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_soon_to_be Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 getting nailed by someone else or you could stop being so paranoid, stop thinking into it so deeply, garantee its some trivial reason.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich J Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 Well wasn't quite what I expected.... Just spoke to her. Dick'ed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_soon_to_be Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 and it was ???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich J Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 She got arrested. Tit. Her mate was taking stuff from a shop, apparently a £130 quid jacket and well her mate got caught and cos she was there she was an accomplice. Im going for the not being able to see her for a while thing right now.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_soon_to_be Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 ha, maybe not as trivial as i thought it would be.. still, be funny to look back on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich J Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 That was never something that crossed my mind.... Fortunately. Apparently it happened just before I got there too, which is good, I'm a good boy dont wanna be arrested Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 Ex is talking to me and were"friends" atm, i got a bit weak last nite and started saying i want her back and stuff but she stood her ground which is good i guess.gonna take some getting used to.at least were kool i guess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Ward Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 hmmmm, leave me a text for when i get home from dropping you off telling me it me who your with me and your happy with and the person that seems obsessed with you is nothing to worry about otherwise you wouldnt be with me. then dont text me back when i say yeahh its koool blah blah blah, especially when i know he's there at the party your at.way to make a bloke feel shit when he's not even sure he wants to be in a relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted April 11, 2009 Report Share Posted April 11, 2009 hmmmm, leave me a text for when i get home from dropping you off telling me it me who your with me and your happy with and the person that seems obsessed with you is nothing to worry about otherwise you wouldnt be with me. then dont text me back when i say yeahh its koool blah blah blah, especially when i know he's there at the party your at.way to make a bloke feel shit when he's not even sure he wants to be in a relationshipSay WHAT?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted April 15, 2009 Report Share Posted April 15, 2009 Dont go out with ur ex and her mates a week after splitting up.it was awful, imgine being so close to some one, they have them act like your a stranger around you, ive never felt worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caleb Posted April 15, 2009 Report Share Posted April 15, 2009 How did you think it was gonna turn out? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted April 15, 2009 Report Share Posted April 15, 2009 How did you think it was gonna turn out?didnt think, got to excited at the thort of seeing her again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Shucksmith Posted April 15, 2009 Report Share Posted April 15, 2009 didnt think, got to excited at the thort of seeing her again.Try telling her that then?She must still mean something if you were honestly that excited about seeing her again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synergy Posted April 16, 2009 Report Share Posted April 16, 2009 oh my forking god.i was going out with a polish girl for about a month. HOW MUCH HASSLE ARE THEY!!!shes still good friends with her x bf so i go to the cinema last night with my friend and shes sitting at the front with her x!pisses me right of that does.grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted April 16, 2009 Report Share Posted April 16, 2009 oh my forking god.i was going out with a polish girl for about a month. HOW MUCH HASSLE ARE THEY!!!shes still good friends with her x bf so i go to the cinema last night with my friend and shes sitting at the front with her x!pisses me right of that does.grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrwas she called eva? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted April 17, 2009 Report Share Posted April 17, 2009 I cant bear the thort of my ex being near another guy, and i know if i see her with one im gonna smash his face in, and the poor guy wont have a clue whats going on. but ill still do it.not good.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Shucksmith Posted April 17, 2009 Report Share Posted April 17, 2009 I cant bear the thort of my ex being near another guy, and i know if i see her with one im gonna smash his face in, and the poor guy wont have a clue whats going on. but ill still do it.not good..TELL HER YOU LOVE HERRRRARE YOU A FOOL?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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