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All because of you licking a ginger girl?? or was that just an excuse for her to provoke an argument?

what he said.

I dont tell her stuff, i cheated on her in summer, we split with got back togetherc cos of that. now she doesnt belive a word i say, ever, like it got stupid what she wouldnt belive.

dont get with somebody on your course at college. ive gotta go in monday tuesday weds and get really f**king upset cos all ill be able to do is look at her.

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I've bought her up before on here; kind of an odd situation really.

Again, I've known this girl for 7 years, seriously good mates but then I started to like her too much. We've had a 'bit' of a history (if you can call it that) when I visited her in uni once and we ended up kissing and cuddling up, but it never really went futher than that.

She had a boyfriend at the time but then she broke up with him, I left it about a month or so and told her what I thought about her and she didn't exactly return the comment, but she took it in her stride I guess. As time went on it seemed she started to like me too.

I asked her out a long time ago and she said yes, but not until May because she wanted to wait until she finished uni so she didn't have such a long distance relationship - something I guess I wouldn't like either so we left it as that and nothing more was said. About 4 weeks ago she was coming home for a bit, so we made a few plans and I took a couple of days off work to see her; but something came up every single day of those 4 days so she couldn't see me.

On the last day (Tuesday) I text her and asked her what was happening and what the plan was, she replied 'I'm out with my brother tonight', a little (very much so) annoyed I replied 'Well I guess I wont be seeing you today either'...apparently she knew nothing of these plans.

I was pissed off but not for long and then we were ok again soon after that. I asked her out again a week ago and she said yes, but I have to ask her in person which was good as she was coming home on the valentines weekend so I could see her then. But she never did, again, something happened each time.

I had a feeling all was not well and I asked if she was with her ex boyfriend, she replied in the morning and completely freaked out at me and insisted he wasn't there (to which I later discovered that he was) - but I never told her that I found out the truth as there wasn't much point, it'd only cause greif for me.

So last night I asked her what changed over the weekend from us being together and then suddenly not; she explained she was still in love with her ex. Her ex is a complete fanny, and I'm not saying that becuase im jealous, but he pushes her around (even physically), cheats on her, lies to her and all that.

Ok, so shes still in love with her ex, I can kind of handle that but I what she told me about being together didnt come randomly out of the blue so there must be some truth element in all that, right?

But last night she said 'Do you want to know the truth? Everything I didn't tell you because I didn't want to hurt you?' I said no, if its kept from me its kept from me for a reason and I can do without all that playing on my mind. Shes now told me to 'forget about her' and all that shit but I don't really know what to do.

Can't help but feel like I've been dropped from a f**king big height and I'd never have expected her to do anything like that to me, not after 7 years of a good friendship. I don't really know what to do, I don't want to lose her completely as a friend or even more than a friend - so I dont know. I'm not really looking for advice on this, just wanted to vent out a little.

Ah well, all good things must come to an end I guess, it's just a right f**king kick in the balls. We were supposed to be together for my birthday next week - fat f**king chance of that now.

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Ah well, all good things must come to an end I guess, it's just a right f**king kick in the balls. We were supposed to be together for my birthday next week - fat f**king chance of that now.

From the sound of it it doesn't appear that you were ever 'together' in the first place!

I don't have time to read the previous 300 pages of the topic but I hope I'm not the first person to come in here and order you lot to "MAN THE f**k UP!!!"

You don't cry when you masturbate do you?

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I hope I'm not the first person to come in here and order you lot to "MAN THE f**k UP!!!"

LOLZ!!!1

No, sorry to disappoint, but you're infact probably about the 30th person to say something a long those lines within the past 5 pages so unfortunately you won't be breaking those boundaries of humour today.

Dirty Dancing on DVD, a bottle of chilled Pinot Grigio, get in our pyjamas and talk

if anything sounds gay its that ^^ lol

Cuz it won't a joke innit.

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