munkee Posted December 10, 2008 Report Share Posted December 10, 2008 My next input........Give some other women attention, not too much that she thinks you're cheating, but enough to let her know you have other options, she'll either ditch you if you take it too far or will come sniffing for the attention herself. (I think it might work that way, you can be my guinea Pig if you like as most of my advice will be untested).For the record Quigley is currently single, so take this with a pinch of salt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted December 10, 2008 Report Share Posted December 10, 2008 I got lost trying to read all that. Please use punctuation! For the sake of my eyes!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted December 10, 2008 Report Share Posted December 10, 2008 (edited) For the record Quigley is currently single, so take this with a pinch of salt.Which I highlighted in my first post, thanks anyway Chris, you know my advice is gold. Oh and if you bring up Sam and how I treated her I'll cry. Edited December 10, 2008 by James Quigley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted December 10, 2008 Report Share Posted December 10, 2008 I got lost trying to read all that. Please use punctuation! For the sake of my eyes!? Werd.Could read the start, but by the time I got to the end it was just black shapes and white shapes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun H Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 Couple of nights ago I was in a mate's room chatting when the gf rang, sort of started talking to her and that but was paying more attention to the conversation in hand since it wasn't yet finished and she hung up on me. I finished, went to my room tried to ring back once, she didn't pick up so thought f**k her I'm not groveling over that crap.Not heard from her since. Whoops... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 If shes trying to hide something she must have something to hide... my gf lets me fiddle with her phone, so i dont feel the need to ever go in anything personal of hers, but if she wouldn't let me within 2 metres of her phone when i would be questioning why not... whats she hiding? Cos its not like shes going out her way to hide nothingYea i kinda agree with this, but i never let any girl(or really anyone) start going through my messages, without looking through them first, just to make sure there is nothing incriminating on their(not just in the playing round sense). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 Yeah, I hate people going through my phone. Even though I have nothing to hide on there, I just don't like it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted December 11, 2008 Author Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 No cos i love her to peices! and if i can just convincer her other wise everything will be perfect Incorrect.Yeah, I hate people going through my phone. Even though I have nothing to hide on there, I just don't like it?Yeah im the same.That guy who has been posting alot needs to shift his girlfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I'd hit the roof if I found out my girlfriend, mates, family or anyone was reading though my texts on my phone...Its not a matter of 'trust' its a matter of privacy and principle - exactly what right do they have to keep checks on me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hendrix Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I'd hit the roof if I found out my girlfriend, mates, family or anyone was reading though my texts on my phone...Its not a matter of 'trust' its a matter of privacy and principle - exactly what right do they have to keep checks on me?Exactly. My girlfriend has tried reading texts on my phone for ages, and was succeeding until I put a lock to get past the menu. She probably thinks I've done that 'because I'm cheating on her'.Just say you have some important work related details on there that you would advise she wouldn't read, unless she wanted to die... or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 It's got nothing to do with checking up on you.I go on my g/f's phone, purely to look at pics and stuff - she'd only stop me if she had messages to hide. Likewise she uses mine... it's not like I have anything to hide. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doopdoopbedoop Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 It's got nothing to do with checking up on you.I go on my g/f's phone, purely to look at pics and stuff - she'd only stop me if she had messages to hide. Likewise she uses mine... it's not like I have anything to hide.I personally think that in every relationship there has to be some private space, and in mine that is my phone. Not because there's anything I don't want seen - it's just a matter of principle. I want a private space, I've chosen it's my phone, if she doesn't like it she can f**k off for not trusting me. I can see where you're coming from Mike, so I think it's all just swings and roundabouts depending on the relationship people have at the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I just don't see why... If you feel she shouldn't look at it, there must be something you're hiding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyoyo Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I let mine look at my phone all the time, but then again pretty much all the texts are from her anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I just don't see why... If you feel she shouldn't look at it, there must be something you're hiding.Yea exactly how i see it, when i started going out with my gf i had a few pics of other girls who had sent me "revealing" pictures, but after i deleted them I didn't mind her going near my phone...Just to say i know my gf's laptop password, myspace password (i think), always got her phone, and never checked her messages once... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 Yeh i don't really see a problem either. Always look through my girlfriends phone and have her facebook etc password if i really wanted to use it. not that i dont trust her im just nosy. shes always looking through my phone aswell its not really a big deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robwalker Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I broke up with my ex for specifically this reason. Well and a few others. I think its just one of them things where some people think one thing, and others think another. If your relationship means that much then try and take a step back and think is it really worth arguing over. Half of breaking up is making up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bol Maaaaaaing Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Right, So heres the deal,I like this chick (Still trying to get the balls to ask her out).And my mate broke up with his girlfriend yesterday and I think shes been hitting on me.They broke up because they don't spend enough time together but he says that he might get back together with her next year.So I'm focusing on trying to get a girl, and another one is hitting on me!Argh! Girls are annoying! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 I just don't see why... If you feel she shouldn't look at it, there must be something you're hiding.Well yes, if you value your privacy it means there are things you'd rather keep private, like for instance what's on your phone. There's nothing wrong with that. I hate people going through my phone, even if it's just checking it's functions. Same with the laptop, you don't want people going through everything you've got on it, do you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny Metcalfe Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 If you've got nothing to hide let her lookThen when she sees that there is nothing there she'll realise what an arse she's acting, and tell her that you don't keep anything from her, as she has seen, but you would respect privacy, tell her you'r mates having a few problems and he asked me not to tell aynone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doopdoopbedoop Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Just a tip from the past for anyone wanting to do it the other way... If you have something to hide just tell them confidently they can look. Look them in the eye and tell them to have a look, they wont. Works every time*.*I cannot be held responsible for this not working in anyone else's particular situation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Winton. Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 It's got nothing to do with checking up on you.I go on my g/f's phone, purely to look at pics and stuff - she'd only stop me if she had messages to hide. Likewise she uses mine... it's not like I have anything to hide.Seems pretty much bang on to me, and as for people saying that some things need to be kept private really you should be close enough to the person to share things like that atleast Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaffacakes Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Cheatings such a strong word... but if your cheating just remember to deleate your fucking texts, then you have no worries Im not a big fan of girls reading through my phone, I hated it a little while ago. But what is it with girls looking through your phone, as soon as you tern a blind eye!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Well yes, if you value your privacy it means there are things you'd rather keep private, like for instance what's on your phone. There's nothing wrong with that. I hate people going through my phone, even if it's just checking it's functions. Same with the laptop, you don't want people going through everything you've got on it, do you?I think we should agree to disagree on this occasion... I leave my Hayley alone in my house and she can use anything - phone, pc etc...Anything I consider to be private I keep in my head (Memories etc...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun H Posted December 16, 2008 Report Share Posted December 16, 2008 "Have a nice birthday! We'll talk when you get back in the week."Following an arguement over text.It's my birthday tomorrow. Gunna be my first one away from home, and now my girlfriend isn't coming either.I've not had this feeling in my stomach since I was retarded enough to think she might be cheating years ago... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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