Davetrials Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 im just finding it hard to grasp that ur botherd about a GIRL you split up with 2 years ago when ur now gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa Manual Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 When you're with someone you share experiences, become close, tell each other stuff etc. It's not just whether they've got a cock or not. You're missing the point, and if you can't see what I'm saying by now then there's no point in furthering this conversation as we're obviously talking at cross purposes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 I think its just the principle of it rather than having any 'strong' attached feelings about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Scarlet Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Girls are confusing, and just way to much time and effort involved.Basically known this girl through a friend a while ago, and just started speaking to each other again over the past few months, seen her a couple of times (but she is really hesitant to meet up with me).I was out with her yesterday, lazed around in a park, holding each other, having good enjoyable conversation, making her laugh, then when I left she proper got off with me (bit of a surprise to me, for once she showed no hesitation).But when it comes to arranging going out, she'll always say something like; "Oh I think I'm doing something", then when I ask her how her day went, she's like "Oh I stayed in today".I just really can't tell what she thinks of me, from what I can tell she isn't about with any other boys, so I just don't know.Is it worth the hassle? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Some people are a bit emotionally selfish if that's a good way to put it. It looks like she will only meet you if she really wants to and there's not much you can do to change her mind. If you try, you'll probably just make things worse.To put it simple - she's confused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 (edited) Think to be fair, if you have been giving her a lot of attention lately stop giving it. During the "chase" women get really bored of guys that are always there when they want and can pick up whenever they feel like it. Much more fun for them if you are a bit hard to get and look like you have other things to do, afterall its working for her doing it that way isnt it? In my opinion, you have to give what you get. Mirror how people treat you and within a real short time you find out who are worth keeping and who arent worth anything. Edited September 27, 2008 by munkee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Scarlet Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Think to be fair, if you have been giving her a lot of attention lately stop giving it. During the "chase" women get really bored of guys that are always there when they want and can pick up whenever they feel like it. Much more fun for them if you are a bit hard to get and look like you have other things to do, afterall its working for her doing it that way isnt it? In my opinion, you have to give what you get. Mirror how people treat you and within a real short time you find out who are worth keeping and who arent worth anything.Sounds like a good thing to go by, cheers man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 There's a proper fit girl on the checkouts.Wanna ask her out.lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 u need ALOt of shopping so u get more than ten seconds with her.or man upand ask her out straight awayCONFIDENCE GETS U SEX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 u need ALOt of shopping so u get more than ten seconds with her.or man upand ask her out straight awayCONFIDENCE GETS U SEXThing about the first thing is - I work on the checkouts too.haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 pfffffft staff roomor get the check out next to hersuve got no excuse now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 pfffffft staff roomor get the check out next to hersuve got no excuse now.=/ don't think her breaks match minebut the till next to hers, that could work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Mmmmmm be a naughty boy and have a break with her...request one? or just strike up a convo, i dont have ne trouble chatting to girls i just chat bollocks like normally so i dunno if its ne hearded for u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 There's a proper fit girl on the checkouts.Wanna ask her out.lolI met my current gf on checkouts at sainsburys *love at 1st sight across the tills*I played it cool, chatted to her, (im kinda a dosser so take lots of breaks and do a lot of wondering) Was natural and cheeky with her, she added me to myspace, got her e-mail and asked her out on a date. The rest was history as they sayrequest one?Or just tell all customers your going home and to go away then just wonder after her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Scarlet Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 (edited) I met my current gf on checkouts at sainsburys *love at 1st sight across the tills*You should never refer to you partner as your "current" girlfriend, it suggests you are looking for a upgrade. Edited September 27, 2008 by Albino Slig Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 (edited) i dunno if its ne hearded for utake it you mean, harder, so,I've not managed it so far=/Lol at me! Edited September 27, 2008 by Revolver Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 There's a proper fit girl on the checkouts.Wanna ask her out.lolTease her with a pic of your 126p. If it works, she's yours forever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Tease her with a pic of your 126p. If it works, she's yours forever that made me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 oh my god i was reading this last night... was it last night? Yea i think so the missis was round and she was like"whos that?""Whos who?""That on your screen, something about a girl on checkouts""Oh urm" *panics* *pushes her and shuts laptop quickly*hahaha i love her really been the most amazing 2 nights ever. wish my parents would f**k off an stay away lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 HahaReckon I'll just chat to her next time she's in and I'm in, see how that goes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 Although i do need some serious Hugh Hefner advise on a woman trouble so to speak.Accept my MSN bitch, something about pissing on fences Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 consider you added boy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 I'm single !!! YEYYYYY !!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onzatrip Posted September 29, 2008 Report Share Posted September 29, 2008 I'm single !!! YEYYYYY !!!!sexless nights for you YAY !!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted September 29, 2008 Report Share Posted September 29, 2008 Arghhhh, ended up shagging my ex over the weekend when she stayed at mine; now we're a bit stuck and she doesn't like the idea of being together due to the distance (shes in Sheffield uni). I explained it wouldn't really be a problem but how to you convince her without sounding like a tit - end of the day its only about a 45 minute drive, if that!Grrrrr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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