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So here goes the story. Just before I started back at Uni, I found a facebook group for anyone that was starting or going back that year. Joined and got a fair few people adding me, and vice versa.

I found one who was really nice and chilled out, I thought she was about 17 - 19. I then found out this week that she was 21, which was a bit of a surprise. After I told her how old I was she went off me a bit, but after some talking got all flirty again. We went out for lunch on Wednesday which was cool, and she seemed really nice. She's a good laugh and very good looking. The thing is, I sent her a text saying I liked her, and that I would understand if she didn't like me. After sending that she's not been on MSN, she's also not replied to my facebook comments or my text. Think I've put her off, any ideas on what I could say to her?

On the other hand;

There's a really smart, beautiful, tallented vocalists in my group on Live Performance. She is model beautiful, and has a really mature voice. I really like her, but after this other girl, I don't know what I could say that wouldn't put her right off me.

Help? :(

dont say anything, (well obviously talk, but dont go "oh but i fancy you, i understand if you dont fancy me" like some little whino), man up a bit. go out to lunch or whatever you generally do these days, then leave it a couple of days, then just ask her if she wants to come round to watch a film or something, she doesnt need to read into that at all. if she does, and likes you, your in, is she reads into it that you fancy her, but she dont like you, then you havent lost anything, (and havent put her off by sounding like a loser trying to get into her pants), if she thinks your inviting her round just as mates, well technically youve still got a second date, which is double the amount you got with your 21 year old.

oh yea, and dont tell her you want her to come to a party in your pants via text again, your not 12 no more.

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I have the same sort of problem as Hendrix but to a different extent. I really like this girl and I've been out with her and some other friends a few times but I don't have the balls to tell her I like her. Anyone got any tactful less embarrassing methods than "I like you, sex now please?"

Tam

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Anyone got any tactful less embarrassing methods than "I like you, sex now please?"

If you're after a 'dumbed down' version of that comment then I doubt you'll be in luck with her at all...

However, if you have her number just drop her a text and ask if she wants to go out for lunch sometime (nothing over the top! Not some fancy italian just yet; just a trip to somewhere a little less obvioius...starbucks or something). See how things map out from there. Don't be all over her or advance yourself too much and cock up the whole situation - you'll both feel rather bloody awkward and you'll be lucky to see her again.

Keep it subtle, fun and above all, relaxed!

Slow and steady wins the race!

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Thank you, thank you.

Tonight, i will be performing several acts, and first off, i'll be throwing knives through balloons without touching them!

Ailsbury, it's the funny way to tell her eyes look beautiful and she smells nice tonight.

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Thank you, thank you.

Tonight, i will be performing several acts, and first off, i'll be throwing knives through balloons without touching them!

Ailsbury, it's the funny way to tell her eyes look beautiful and she smells nice tonight.

you see, theres a reason your not gettin any, and youve only ever got laid once, despite wanting too for ages....

its that youve got impeccably high standards.

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well i met my gf at work (mcdonalds) but i no longer work there. apparently when she's there shes constantly flirting (hugging/kissing) a couple of the other blokes there (i get reports from my mates there who are looking out for me). i told her last time that if i got reports of it happening again it would be over... guess what, apparently she got caught with one of the guys there again last night :( dont know what to do! i really love her but she's f**king my head up!

Ben

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