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his 17 year old sister has just got preggers from a 32 year old african, an mr.african is apparently going mental at jardos little sister cos shes lookin at abortion. heavy shit.

That is pretty deep imo i say her body her choice if i were ether to get my gf pregnat dispite me bein ready for it or not id leave it up to her what's best for her but that might just be me.

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his 17 year old sister has just got preggers from a 32 year old african, an mr.african is apparently going mental at jardos little sister cos shes lookin at abortion. heavy shit.

If thats true... keep a camera on you all the time and make a documentry... i would pay to watch that shit

not even eastenders writers think of anything as classic as that...

on the upside you could make a f**king fortune

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It's up to the girl. If she didn't plan to have a baby, she should be perfectly allowed to have an abortion. If there's one thing I hate, it's possessive guys.

Unrelated... FAT PANTS PAY ATTENTION: Whatever you do, use a RUBBER. You can use one BEFORE you go in, but it's useless worrying about pregnancy, STIs, etc, afterwards because then it's TOO LATE. You have to do it BEFORE you go in. I repeat, BEFORE.

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THe Ex rang me up this morning just for a gernaral chat. She was windin me up, just messin. and she said something about me trying to get into Rach's pant, So I said jokingly "how do you known that?" as her and Rach use to be mates before she became a stuck up cow. its wrong for me to even like her.. Let alone have sex with her. SO she gets all upset. I ring her back and she says sumat about not caring, But she abviously does, and she's havin a mini breakdown.

How can I tell her to let go of me once and for all. she says shes over me. But when told her about Rach she wasnt happy.

(her and rach havent spoken in about 2-3years. thats how good mates they are)!

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THe Ex rang me up this morning just for a gernaral chat. She was windin me up, just messin. and she said something about me trying to get into Rach's pant, So I said jokingly "how do you known that?" as her and Rach use to be mates before she became a stuck up cow. its wrong for me to even like her.. Let alone have sex with her. SO she gets all upset. I ring her back and she says sumat about not caring, But she abviously does, and she's havin a mini breakdown.

How can I tell her to let go of me once and for all. she says shes over me. But when told her about Rach she wasnt happy.

(her and rach havent spoken in about 2-3years. thats how good mates they are)!

Keep the drama as low as possible. Tell her to be honest and ask her how she feels. She is going to be the one who decides that she should let go of you. Give her space and some time.

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right first of all lets make 1 thing straight. ive been with this girl for 2 months. shes beautifull, sexy, and we get on really well together, whenever i see her she really does make my heart skip a beat, without sounding like a total poof. but she puts her family first the whole time. i mean ive been understanding and let her palm me off a few times but its really getting silly.

2 examples

- we agree to meet and spend an evening together. she turns me down because she says she has to do housework with her mum... im totally like wtf... but go along with it pretend not to care, because i know how family based she is. she texts me later saying her sisters there having a take away and shes staying the night with her... yea so much for this so called housework

- tonight we agree to meet, then she texts me when im still at work saying her sisters passed her driving test so shes going to her nans with her. it wouldnt have bothered me its just becuase we had made plans and she just totally palmed me

not like its the only 2 times either, really gets me down... but i love her to bits. am i being too nice. i throw in the odd comment about how much it annoys me but cos' i like her so much i can't follow it through in case i annoy her. i was drunk last night and sending some stupid texts and she said something like, 'sorry if i push you away sometimes its just becuase im scared of getting close incase i lose you' so i said oh yea im here for time not a in out job, and she agreed, then does this to me ffs....

i like this girl wayy too much

and before some tart says it shes not cheating on me at all, shes totally not like that an i trust her 100 percent

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Perhaps instead of pretending your fine just seem a tad annoyed and she might realise.

I'm too nice..... i think, sometime i just think f**k you i don't need this shit... but then i think of her

edit: turns out her sister picked her up from work tonight unexpectedly... which makes me feel a bit better

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Right,

I went out with this girl for 2 1/2 years about 2 years ago...all a bit complicated but we're still very good mates today. Anyway, she recently broke up with her other half and she started to see a lot of me but only as mates...occasionally she stopped over but nothing happened other than cuddling up, which I saw as pretty normal.

Shes gone on holiday now and she asked me to borrow a couple of hundred quid for spending money as all her wages had cocked up, so I did, which I don't have a problem with. So yea, shes not back until next week - but I'm not sure how things will progress after that because then she goes back to uni.

The problem has occured now that she went on holiday with a friend of hers when she was still with me a couple of years ago; a lad (whom I am very good friends with now, but didn't know him then) also went away with them. I found out about a month ago that he got off with her on holiday and thats all fair enough...pissed up or whatever and I didn't really care. But last night he explained more detail on it that they did pretty much everything else but he insists they didn't have sex.

So yea, although it was a long time ago, it's still a bit of a shock, especially in the situation I'm in now. So, do get over it and pretend like it never happened (but that still in the back of my head that she cheated on me), call it a day with her and stop speaking to her...or just raise the issue with her and see what happens.

I know its really petty; but I don't want to get with someone if they'd bullshitted me in the past.

Of couse with regards to the guy; I told him I wasn't bothered (white lie) but I'm not going to fall out with him over something like this - especially how he didn't exactly know me back then.

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Get your money back before you tip her out your boat.

Once a cheater always a cheater. If not you'll be in this thread a while down the line wondering why you were such a mug. However if you really think you can get over it in your head an trust her... game on

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If you like her enough get over it. What's done is done and she might feel very differant now.

Im not even going to get started on my problems, absolute head f**k.

Mainly cos she reads this forum no?

Anyway anzo if your debating wether you should be getting back with herm id say it generally means you shouldnt. If you need us to tell you to go for it then maybe you shouldnt?

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She's scared she likes me to much an I'm going in the RAF in 2 weeks an she knows she can't do the whole 'long distance, weeks away' thing, so after a long phone call I said I didn't want her to txt me when I'm having a hard week an tell me she doesn't want to keep what we have going cos I'll find that really hard, so its better to cut it off now an just be friends. I wish I met her earlier.

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