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Comming up to a month scince i broke up with my gf and if im honnest im really starting to miss her she still wants to get back with me and keeps sayin how much she loves me ect but i keep refusing because i have simply had enough but im starting to doubt myself a little. One one side of things im goin to collage early sept and theres goin to be LOADS of hot girls and ill meet hunderds of new people but on the flip side she is simply amazing its the little stupid things that i miss, silly i know. Shes yet to go near any other boy like AT ALL in order to prove to me that she has changed i know for a fact many boys have asked her to come out and asked her to get with them ect and she refusses and acctully gets very shity with them for asking were as befor she would have been like oh no sorry and maybe flirted abit or gone along with it a little but not acctully met them im a little confussed as to weather bein with her is what i really want or not i dont wana drop myself back into somthing thats very long and painful thats very hard to break out from again but i dont wana miss out on all the good times i could be having with her. :( Girls suck i duno what i want :(

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Comming up to a month scince i broke up with my gf and if im honnest im really starting to miss her she still wants to get back with me and keeps sayin how much she loves me ect but i keep refusing because i have simply had enough but im starting to doubt myself a little. One one side of things im goin to collage early sept and theres goin to be LOADS of hot girls and ill meet hunderds of new people but on the flip side she is simply amazing its the little stupid things that i miss, silly i know. Shes yet to go near any other boy like AT ALL in order to prove to me that she has changed i know for a fact many boys have asked her to come out and asked her to get with them ect and she refusses and acctully gets very shity with them for asking were as befor she would have been like oh no sorry and maybe flirted abit or gone along with it a little but not acctully met them im a little confussed as to weather bein with her is what i really want or not i dont wana drop myself back into somthing thats very long and painful thats very hard to break out from again but i dont wana miss out on all the good times i could be having with her. :( Girls suck i duno what i want :(

well if you miss her that much and she wants you back then why not just give it another go.

whats the worst that could happen

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Comming up to a month scince i broke up with my gf and if im honnest im really starting to miss her she still wants to get back with me and keeps sayin how much she loves me ect but i keep refusing because i have simply had enough but im starting to doubt myself a little. One one side of things im goin to collage early sept and theres goin to be LOADS of hot girls and ill meet hunderds of new people but on the flip side she is simply amazing its the little stupid things that i miss, silly i know. Shes yet to go near any other boy like AT ALL in order to prove to me that she has changed i know for a fact many boys have asked her to come out and asked her to get with them ect and she refusses and acctully gets very shity with them for asking were as befor she would have been like oh no sorry and maybe flirted abit or gone along with it a little but not acctully met them im a little confussed as to weather bein with her is what i really want or not i dont wana drop myself back into somthing thats very long and painful thats very hard to break out from again but i dont wana miss out on all the good times i could be having with her. :( Girls suck i duno what i want :(

If you think shes changed, and you really like her that much, one last try cant hurt that much mate...

You really have nothing to lose.

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Thats the thing though id feel like a mug iv taken her back so so many times and i feel like it'd be really taking the piss almost like im incapable of getin away wich clearly as im proving i am :( I told my slef this would be the last time but i do still miss her and i feel like ill only be waiting for the next time she slips up as bad as that sounds.....

Thanks for the nippy replys guys :)(Y)

Edit: hannahs lurking again here we go relationship guru is back :P

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Thats the thing though id feel like a mug iv taken her back so so many times and i feel like it'd be really taking the piss almost like im incapable of getin away wich clearly as im proving i am :( I told my slef this would be the last time but i do still miss her and i feel like ill only be waiting for the next time she slips up as bad as that sounds.....

Thanks for the nippy replys guys :)(Y)

Edit: hannahs lurking again here we go relationship guru is back :P

blahh, think I could do with some help of my own, but this is a girl trouble thread, not a guy trouble thread, so i'm refraining myself...

Jackkkk, you know my opinions, and now you know the opinions of many others, i've literally just woken up so i'm not writing essays aha, all i've got to say is this:

honest to god, do you feel it could work? can you see yourselves together in the future? do you still love her? :/

i think you know what to do, you know what's right, x

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I think im 16 nearly 17 and don't really know what love is how ever i do belive if i thought love was anything this would be it im not sure if it could work there were times were it would be AMAZING and it felt like no one else could possably have what we had but then other times i was the worst time of my like were it couldn't get much worse im not sure if theres too much history there or not. hmmmm,

P.S imo girl trouble can be taken to ways... your a 'girl' and you seem to have 'trouble' so i don't see why you can't post thats just my veiw im sure a good 80% of this forum wouldn't have a prob with helping you but then you do get some fussy people but i don't see why you can't post up..... :)

EDIT: basterds beat me to it :(lol

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I think im 16 nearly 17 and don't really know what love is how ever i do belive if i thought love was anything this would be it im not sure if it could work there were times were it would be AMAZING and it felt like no one else could possably have what we had but then other times i was the worst time of my like were it couldn't get much worse im not sure if theres too much history there or not. hmmmm,

P.S imo girl trouble can be taken to ways... your a 'girl' and you seem to have 'trouble' so i don't see why you can't post thats just my veiw im sure a good 80% of this forum wouldn't have a prob with helping you but then you do get some fussy people but i don't see why you can't post up..... :)

if theres doubt then you'd be wasting her time if you got with her....

well thats my opinion

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But thats just it i duno if i would be or not theres been great and bad times and im really strugling to balence it out....

post up a picture of her and im sure the forum will tell you whether you should bother or not :P

dont really think theres any advice for you.... you need to decide if its worth it to try again, or not..

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post up a picture of her and im sure the forum will tell you whether you should bother or not :P

Haha im sure a few riders on here that are local to me can vouch that she is a very attracive girl but its more the hole 'relationship thing' I duno what i want to be honnest she's still sendin me mass long emails sayin how much she loves me ect and she will do anything and stuff but i duno this leads me to think would i be doing it in her best intrest. If im honnest i have no idea what im doin :)

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Can we not sum this thread up with either; 'you're young', 'you're a twat' and 'do what the f**k you want'?

Its funny, as I don't really consider my self to be old (20), yet when I read problems from people its soooooo petty. Don't get me wrong, I know people the same age who all act like they're 13 when it comes to girls/lads.

All I can say, from experience, is that if it was meant to last, or it was meant to happen...you wouldn't be f**king posting in here now, would you?

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I think im 16 nearly 17 and don't really know what love is how ever i do belive if i thought love was anything this would be it im not sure if it could work there were times were it would be AMAZING and it felt like no one else could possably have what we had but then other times i was the worst time of my like were it couldn't get much worse im not sure if theres too much history there or not. hmmmm,

P.S imo girl trouble can be taken to ways... your a 'girl' and you seem to have 'trouble' so i don't see why you can't post thats just my veiw im sure a good 80% of this forum wouldn't have a prob with helping you but then you do get some fussy people but i don't see why you can't post up..... :)

EDIT: basterds beat me to it :(lol

If you were in love, you would have felt it.

:/

I dated a guy for a year and a half, i was 13 when it started and ended when i was 14, i thought i was in love with him, and then i met the guy who's only just broken up with me, and i realise now that i never was in love with the guy i was with for a year and so forth, but i did fall in love with the guy who i'm still cut up over, and the only way i know i was/still am in love was the way he made me feel. still makes me feel.

:$

If you've got enough guts to post on this thread, knowing that she could see it (i did aha.) then it kinda proves that you are really cut up over what to do. (after reading that sentence i realise it now only makes sense to me.)

I think, now, the only person who can prove what's right to do and what isn't, is you, because you can either take the leap and fall, or take the leap and reach the other side...

Edited by Hannah Shucksmith (:
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Can we not sum this thread up with either; 'you're young', 'you're a twat' and 'do what the f**k you want'?

Its funny, as I don't really consider my self to be old (20), yet when I read problems from people its soooooo petty. Don't get me wrong, I know people the same age who all act like they're 13 when it comes to girls/lads.

All I can say, from experience, is that if it was meant to last, or it was meant to happen...you wouldn't be f**king posting in here now, would you?

Is there any way of posting this automatically after every post?

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