Davetrials Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Meh, sex isn't all that... You may have gathered that she's not too hard to get into bed if you're a boyfriend/someone she likesa lot so i don't think it would mean that much to her either.u were putting in her front bum wernt you, and not her ear... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Yeah an sorting out your relationship over MSN isn't really the greatest way to go about it.Face to face is so much easier an counts for more I think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 oh my god that is f**king hilarious fatty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Yeah an sorting out your relationship over MSN isn't really the greatest way to go about it.Face to face is so much easier an counts for more I think.Yea thats true, but she lives in an other city and I'm too busy with school to pay a visit.And I really don't want to walk with this feeling on my mind much longer, I will bring it up again if I see her face to face again. Thanks for the advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 oh my god that is f**king hilarious fattyIt's not hilarious when every single time your on MSN, you get him saying 'errr... i dont know what to do... shud i wank before sex... shud i trim my pubes to a perfect 3mm length... shud i write in blue or black ink... shud i wipe my bum with 2 or 3 sheets of paper.' It's so painful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basher Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 (edited) Towards you, just talk to her there will be a reason, may be shes doesnt feel ready and pushed int what ever you did, not sure on how old you are. But yeah just talk to her and i ust to find i couldnt do talking face to face with my girlfriend as its how i am but you have to and makes your relationship a whole lot better. So try not to talk over msn about things like this unless you have to or cant wait ect. And if you cant do it face to face do it by phone if you cant do that then do msn.I might be the soft sensitive guy here, but I can't believe what some people here are saying...The girl is not just sort of lifeless toy you can practise on, don't be so self centered and consider other people's feelings aswell. Glen knows what it feels to be toyed with aswell, and now he is going down the same road.And kissing/sex and all that other stuff should not be for pure pleasure, but because you care about someone..I really couldn't imagine kissing someone else than a girl that is my gf.Meh, feel free to make fun of my complaining, feeling a bit down atm so i'm extra sensitive Edit: Saw your reply Dan, thanks.I will really have a word with her because I am feeling really f**ked up atm about it all, she really IS worth is, so i'm very scared of losing her..Just scared that I didn't keep enough attention on what she wanted, because I kinda rushed things with her...She has every right to be upset/angry about it.Will post here how the conversation went.I share that view aswell, but if she is a slag like it seems with what people are saying then i dont think she'll mind and won't take the relationship to seriously unless there together for a while. And theres no harm i would say in letting the realtionship run a little longer so you can get some experience as long as it doesnt run to long as then youll start to be messing with serious feeling towards each other Edited April 14, 2008 by basher Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani. Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 It's not hilarious when every single time your on MSN, you get him saying 'errr... i dont know what to do... shud i wank before sex... shud i trim my pubes to a perfect 3mm length... shud i write in blue or black ink... shud i wipe my bum with 2 or 3 sheets of paper.' It's so painful.Lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Just tried to call my gf, she doesn't pick up the phone..Sight..even more insecure about it all now.Feel absolutely shit right now, shaking and dizzy and everything...sigh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Man the f**k up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Man the f**k up.I will not even go into thisHer mom just called me, and she was too upset to be able to speak with me, she has had alot of stress with school, and with her mother, like she said herself. I already knew this was the case so I understand...Her mom also said that my gf was scared that her friends told me she was going to break up, so now I know she already had idea's of breaking up with me.My gf will call me about everything tomorromMeh hate this so much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dave85 Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Go do something useful, cut up firewood, go running, make something, fix your car, clean your bike, anything. Sitting about pondering on it aint going to improve matters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted April 14, 2008 Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 Go do something useful, cut up firewood, go running, make something, fix your car, clean your bike, anything. Sitting about pondering on it aint going to improve matters.Yea I already called some friends to have a chat to get things of my mind.Then my gf's mom called again She told met how she [the mom herself] ha suffered a serious case of annorexia, and that she was never really there as a mother for my gf, so my gf never learnt how to deal with certain situations, so she never talks about her feelings and just flee's from them..Was quite an emotion conversation really, her mom is quite an amazing person [no, not in that way ]Anyway, I'm certain to have a nice talk with my gf now because I have a better idea of whats on her mind now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom_ Posted April 15, 2008 Report Share Posted April 15, 2008 I posted before about casual girl.It all started at a party, got drunk got with her etc. she started to like me alot, I wasnt that into her but saw it as abit of action so went with it. Anyway after a while, I started to like her alot. So yea I really like her, then there was all this shit about her wanting to slag it up etc. And theoretically that should have put me off, it didnt. I really like her but shes not into me atall anymore, its basically over. She was asking me if there was any point in us n shit on msn then signed out.Its pretty much over, and Im seriously f**ked off/sad.f**k. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Winton. Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 (edited) Tom_ said: I posted before about casual girl. It all started at a party, got drunk got with her etc. she started to like me alot, I wasnt that into her but saw it as abit of action so went with it. Anyway after a while, I started to like her alot. So yea I really like her, then there was all this shit about her wanting to slag it up etc. And theoretically that should have put me off, it didnt. I really like her but shes not into me atall anymore, its basically over. She was asking me if there was any point in us n shit on msn then signed out. Its pretty much over, and Im seriously f**ked off/sad. f**k. ah mann sounds gash. Edited May 11, 2020 by Mike Winton. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 ah mann sounds gash.basicly i feel like my girlfriend loves her ex and ive asked her about it and shes just like yeah but not in that way, but after the myspace message i posted up a few pages before this.... it kinda shows otherwise.im confused as foook and i love her but i dont know what to do :\Still haven't talked about it with her yet then..I think you should just bring it up, honesty is a very important thing in love..I phoned my gf today, after 5 times she still didn't pick up so I called her mother, she gave the phone to her and we finally had a word.She really didn't want to say alot, I asked her if she still liked me and she said yes, but I can feel that that really isn't the truth..She told me that she was just confused because she had a lot of problems with herself.Already spoke to her best friend, and my gf told her she wants to break up.I'm completly broken by the whole situation, I was so badly in love with her She made me feel happy for the first time in months, and whenever I was with her life just felt great.Don't know what to do now, I'm just feeling shit and panicing the whole day =/Probably better for her to end it if she feels this way, but i'm still very gutted by it all Can't write anymore about it because it will mess me up, hope I will get a nice night of sleep...probably not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 basicly i feel like my girlfriend loves her ex and ive asked her about it and shes just like yeah but not in that way, but after the myspace message i posted up a few pages before this.... it kinda shows otherwise.i've been through something similar. The girls ex is a bit of a stalker weirdo now however.. she seems to just lap it up saying she doesnt care about him yet still keeps the contact. As a guy its hard for me to understand that she still wants to be his friend even after he treated her like shit when they were together and also how he gets in rnadom moods with her now and has a go at her about being with me etc.. i ve accused her before of still wanting him but have been assured its not like that. meh.. who knows.. u just have to try and trust them and hope nothing comes of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Winton. Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 i've been through something similar. The girls ex is a bit of a stalker weirdo now however.. she seems to just lap it up saying she doesnt care about him yet still keeps the contact. As a guy its hard for me to understand that she still wants to be his friend even after he treated her like shit when they were together and also how he gets in rnadom moods with her now and has a go at her about being with me etc.. i ve accused her before of still wanting him but have been assured its not like that. meh.. who knows.. u just have to try and trust them and hope nothing comes of it.Yeah its pretty much exactly that situation, not nice omgnoseat- gutted for you dont really know how you can do anything better than you are though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 Yeah its pretty much exactly that situation, not nice omgnoseat- gutted for you dont really know how you can do anything better than you are though girls love the attention its a fact.They have a history but you gotta remember they arent together now, for a reason. Just be yourself and see what happens if she leaves you for him so what? i know the whole theres other fish in the sea thing is bollocks when you are on your own however the thrill of the chase when u know uve found a girl u potentialy could get with is pretty awesome. So why worrry.. theres plenty more years of life left just be yourself its why she showed interest in you in the first place so dont change who you are just to try and "keep" her from going back to him.Their loss at end of the day is how i look at it just make sure you dont turn in to one of those guys that women look back on as being "that dick head" who went all sour and bitter through jealousy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 God i really do owe my endurance to alcohol. Was quite quick today, had to keep going then fake it when i had to leave for work. Do i say 'sorry about earlier, i was so shit, was just worried about being late for work' or similar? Or do i not mention it? Bah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James-M Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 (edited) Couldn't understand too well what you're trying to say, but anyway I would leave it. Make her understand that's the way it is, and make her understand that's the way you are... She will get used to it. If you say 'Sorry I was shit', next time the same could happen and she would think you're always shit, or think 'I wonder when it will be good...'. Edited April 16, 2008 by James-M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 Lol, well basically, we were having sex, and i came pretty quickly (about 5 mins i think). I just dunno how to act about it. I felt kinda selfish 'cos i didn't finish her but i dunno... Yeah, and we basically had to fake it, then get dressed, flatten my hair down and then rush off to work, she seemed pretty quiet n stuff on the bus to work, and now she's a bit offish on msn... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 Because you're shit in bed, can't handle yourself unless you're off your tits? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 Pretty much, yeah.Only 2nd time though... Gimme some leeway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 No leeway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James-M Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 Lol, well basically, we were having sex, and i came pretty quickly (about 5 mins i think). I just dunno how to act about it. I felt kinda selfish 'cos i didn't finish her but i dunno... Yeah, and we basically had to fake it, then get dressed, flatten my hair down and then rush off to work, she seemed pretty quiet n stuff on the bus to work, and now she's a bit offish on msn...Will take time and you'll get there don't worry Beating off about 20 times a day will probably help aswell...If she was pissed off, I would have a word, either just ask what's wrong, or ask her if it was to do with that. It's not really on if she's annoyed about the sex because it's what's expected and just the way it is sometimes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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