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Get the f**k outta Dodge! I wasted 8 months in practically the same situation. :turned:

Yea thats what i thinking.... Its just no fun doing the whole... Planned sex lift home kinda thing....

If i loved her then it would be an awsome set up, but just feel really rather dull?

Pah just want her to be ok and that as well though, shes still a nice girl

Just hard becuase shes asking for it, and its so hard to so no...

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Gf for 3 months.... or 6 weeks'ish?

Been sleeping with her for over 2 months now

She keeps getting really freeky, like texting me saying she loves me etc. when shes drunk and genrally a bit of a psyco... sex aint brill either

scarper or stay?

is it who i think it is? (georgina?)

EDIT: gtfo of there dude lol

Edited by Joe Sheehan!
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Yea thats what i thinking.... Its just no fun doing the whole... Planned sex lift home kinda thing....

If i loved her then it would be an awsome set up, but just feel really rather dull?

Pah just want her to be ok and that as well though, shes still a nice girl

Just hard becuase shes asking for it, and its so hard to so no...

Meh I wish i had such problems. How can you be with a girl and not love her? I know it's often the case, can't imagine it though.

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I have always been a slut simps...i just needed to see you in action to perfect how to do it for myself :P

You have learnt well young grasshopper :P

EDIT: You better have not stolen my dance moves.... Ive got a patent pending on those bad boys

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My gf, well now my ex, decided while i was dealing with my nan dying of cancer she would go f**k someone else because i wernt paying enough attention to her! all women are sluts!

Sorry to hear that mate.

Is it too soon for jokes or can I make a potentially friendship ending comment?

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I'm a dick!

Well i was mates with my ex for ages, and got a bit drunk and said some things to her. and In my drunkeness, i pushed her in a pub. I wud have Never done a think tipsey or sober, as she has AS and could have flared it up. But who to I say that i'm sorry? I want to talk but she doesnt want anything at all to do with me.. I just want to know that we are okay. I can't talk to anyone else like I can (well could) talk to her. Just feels like my arm has been removed from me, I can't call her she doesnt pick up, Can't call her house as her mam or dad will pick up, texts are NEVER replied to.

Should I just give her some space? and let things calm over?

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He's the problem.

When I'm taken, usually, all the one's I have liked come out of the woodwork.

But for once, I'm single, and they're all out.

There must be 7 I like that like me back. I know I sound a right tart.

But I like them all equally, and I don't know what to do. >_<

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I'm a dick!

Well i was mates with my ex for ages, and got a bit drunk and said some things to her. and In my drunkeness, i pushed her in a pub. I wud have Never done a think tipsey or sober, as she has AS and could have flared it up. But who to I say that i'm sorry? I want to talk but she doesnt want anything at all to do with me.. I just want to know that we are okay. I can't talk to anyone else like I can (well could) talk to her. Just feels like my arm has been removed from me, I can't call her she doesnt pick up, Can't call her house as her mam or dad will pick up, texts are NEVER replied to.

Should I just give her some space? and let things calm over?

Sounds like you need to forget about her as your hanging round hopeing youll get another chance as you still have feelings.

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My ex's birthday is in 2 weeks. I still have huge hope we'll get back together in the future so I want to get her something. Thinking about sending her 21 roses and getting her an iPod but I'm not exactly sure that's a good idea since we're only friends now. What do you guys think? The expense doesn't worry me in the least, it's how she might react to something like that.

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My ex's birthday is in 2 weeks. I still have huge hope we'll get back together in the future so I want to get her something. Thinking about sending her 21 roses and getting her an iPod but I'm not exactly sure that's a good idea since we're only friends now. What do you guys think? The expense doesn't worry me in the least, it's how she might react to something like that.

As friends i think she would appreciate something of less value, she might feel that youre trying to "buy" her back? What sort of stuff does she like?

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My ex's birthday is in 2 weeks. I still have huge hope we'll get back together in the future so I want to get her something. Thinking about sending her 21 roses and getting her an iPod but I'm not exactly sure that's a good idea since we're only friends now. What do you guys think? The expense doesn't worry me in the least, it's how she might react to something like that.

Better to go with something cheap and thoughtful.

There is no way that she is going to say, 'THIS IS NOT EXPENSIVE ENOUGH TO WARRANT ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU', so that way if it doesn't work you can save the money to buy yourself and ipod and use it as a lethal, but ironic, weapon. An ipod to the face is the last thing she will be expecting.

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As friends i think she would appreciate something of less value, she might feel that youre trying to "buy" her back? What sort of stuff does she like?

Yeah, exactly my concern. You're probably right guys.

She was always going on about not having an mp3 player and having to use her phone so I thought it would be rather a practical gift. I'm sure she'll appreciate the flowers and a hand made card as well. As for her interests, I'm really stuck. Can't get her a book about corporate social responsibility or dietetics - as much as I'm interested in logistics, I'd never read a book about it and wouldn't appreciate getting one. She also likes watching movies and reading thrillers but since I'm not into books and hate films, I'll have no idea what I should buy. We went to a book store some time ago and she couldn't find anything interesting there so there's no chance I'll find her something alone. Same applies to her music taste <_<

Having written that, I'm not that surprised we broke up :lol:

Are there any universal gifts that aren't too personal? I hate getting people impractical stuff.

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Are there any universal gifts that aren't too personal? I hate getting people impractical stuff.

*sigh* Right to answer your question, i had a really good gift for my ex on valentines last year....... She liked boys boxers so i got her some and put her name on them :D Silly sappy things like that?? Does she like hot choclate?? Mug with her name on it.... and marsh mallows in it. Seriously if you feel you should get back with her do it....... WHATEVER IT TAKES>

Now for me....... 7 months on no GF no love life, failed one night stands....... and i STILL LOVE HER :angry: How can it go away? FFS starting to actually affect my life.... i have no drive or ambition besides riding now....

Not good :(

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*sigh* Right to answer your question, i had a really good gift for my ex on valentines last year....... She liked boys boxers so i got her some and put her name on them :D Silly sappy things like that?? Does she like hot choclate?? Mug with her name on it.... and marsh mallows in it. Seriously if you feel you should get back with her do it....... WHATEVER IT TAKES>

Now for me....... 7 months on no GF no love life, failed one night stands....... and i STILL LOVE HER :angry: How can it go away? FFS starting to actually affect my life.... i have no drive or ambition besides riding now....

Not good :(

I feel for you man. If you're still in love after 7 months, it's not going to be easy. The only method I found remotely helpful was to spend a lot of time with other girls and force oneself to find them interesting and attractive. It's pretty hard and tedious, didn't work too well for me but i know a few mates who tried really hard and actually found new girlfriends who they didn't like at first. Now they're in love with each other.

Thanks for the ideas, like them a lot. Simple and enjoyable :)

I have no idea where this is going, but we've just got to get back together. The problem is that we're running out of time. She's going off to Cyprus for 3 months in June. I've got so many ideas to make things better but I just don't know if I'll be given the chance. Now that the weather is better, I'll be able to take her for a spin in my dad's MGA, I'm sure she'll love that. Could have a nice one day outing but she'll probably say she doesn't have time :(

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Mate sounds like it might be a loss end..... I know i said before that if you really do love her to get her no matter what and i still say that but maybe weigh it up that the reason your not together is this greece thing and this is justt me speculating and i don't know how old you are but maybe this Cyprus thing is a "life experience" she wants to enjoy, this is kinda the reason my ex split with me..... she wanted to do drugs (weed) and drink all the time, i had done that way before and think it is utterly stupid so me being me put my foot down and she flew out of my life slowly, i think today it is not the person it is the situation.

:D i am sorry for your loss though trust me i know how it feels...... chin up though ha ha we have to!! ("were gonna celebrate" MOS Album ***) :D

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