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Don't know if this counts but hey...... I don't have any girl troubles..... Thats the trouble :( Don't know what to do about it...... I have been single for way to long and just can't find anyone........ My ex f**ked me up so much :angry: (everyone else around me seems to be happily paired and i just get stuck..... well riding on my own) Grrrrr life can be so complicated..... and my f**king comp is up the spout and i need to finish this assignment!!

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HELP!

i need some advise chaps,

ive fell for this girl at work... and i mean fell for her.

got to the stage where i even dream about her, once....

she was dying and needed some chips!

i went to get her some, but they were so heavy i couldnt carry them,

i had to push them and they even marked the floor as i pushed!

but i got them to her as she was fine again....hurray!!

the thing is, i dont no how she feels about me,

and im scared of losing her as i friend if i tell her how i feel.

what should i do?

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How do I subtley hint to the new girlfriend that blow jobs are NOT optional in a relationship, and cannot be substituted with sex?

I'm scared she'll say she doesn't do them, in which case I'll have a massive dilema on my hands...

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Well for a start don't tell her how you feel. That's one of the biggest mistakes you can make :P

And maybe just ask her out a couple of times, get to know her better?

ive tryed that....

we go out (everyone from work) on payday weekend.

well meet up, then go to a club,

but i nevevr get in,

because i look like a thug (skin head, tats and piercings)

so i never get to talk to her appart from when im at work.

we get along realy realy well.

but i never find the right time to do anything

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How do I subtley hint to the new girlfriend that blow jobs are NOT optional in a relationship, and cannot be substituted with sex?

I'm scared she'll say she doesn't do them, in which case I'll have a massive dilema on my hands...

My ex thought they werent needed.... I disagreed. Just say lets try this (move head). See what happens..

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How do I subtley hint to the new girlfriend that blow jobs are NOT optional in a relationship, and cannot be substituted with sex?

I'm scared she'll say she doesn't do them, in which case I'll have a massive dilema on my hands...

Keep dropping into conversations......" blow jobs are awesome, sometimes better than sex."

Doesn't have to be true but she'll either get the hint or tell you flat out that she doesn't do that, in which case you need to get her drunk and more open to experimenting.

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My ex thought they werent needed.... I disagreed. Just say lets try this (move head). See what happens..

Keep dropping into conversations......" blow jobs are awesome, sometimes better than sex."

Doesn't have to be true but she'll either get the hint or tell you flat out that she doesn't do that, in which case you need to get her drunk and more open to experimenting.

I'll try these things, or I may just use the classic: "Suck me, beautiful."

Wish me luck, for a nice suck.

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Was trying to avoid asking about stuff like this on a forum but here goes. In short:

Met an amazing girl just over a year ago, fell for her instantly. Tried to get to know her better but we didn't seem to get on too well. Since we were in the same class at uni I thought I'd give it another try next year, when we'd be changing groups. Bumped into her a few months ago and we started dating, got on with each other really well and 2 months later we were a pair. She broke up with me about a week ago because she said she couldn't really get into it. The reasoning is quite complicated - basically, she's never had a proper boyfriend, she'd like to retain her independence, doesn't have much time etc. which is all true, no matter how ridiculous it may sound.

Ever since, we've exchanged quite a few very long emails. The upshot of them is that although she didn't get into being with me, it was her most serious relationship to date, she'd love to keep in touch and to my question about giving it another go later this year, she replied "i'm not saying no".

So, should I give it another go in say two months?

Something to consider - I'll be bumping into her for the next 3 years until I finish my masters course and I know that I'll fall for her every time.

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HELP!

i need some advise chaps,

ive fell for this girl at work... and i mean fell for her.

got to the stage where i even dream about her, once....

she was dying and needed some chips!

i went to get her some, but they were so heavy i couldnt carry them,

i had to push them and they even marked the floor as i pushed!

but i got them to her as she was fine again....hurray!!

the thing is, i dont no how she feels about me,

and im scared of losing her as i friend if i tell her how i feel.

what should i do?

i'd say take her out in the daytime and the evening, and be friendly with you, and she may just fall for you. She already goes on the dates with you...

Was trying to avoid asking about stuff like this on a forum but here goes. In short:

Met an amazing girl just over a year ago, fell for her instantly. Tried to get to know her better but we didn't seem to get on too well. Since we were in the same class at uni I thought I'd give it another try next year, when we'd be changing groups. Bumped into her a few months ago and we started dating, got on with each other really well and 2 months later we were a pair. She broke up with me about a week ago because she said she couldn't really get into it. The reasoning is quite complicated - basically, she's never had a proper boyfriend, she'd like to retain her independence, doesn't have much time etc. which is all true, no matter how ridiculous it may sound.

Ever since, we've exchanged quite a few very long emails. The upshot of them is that although she didn't get into being with me, it was her most serious relationship to date, she'd love to keep in touch and to my question about giving it another go later this year, she replied "i'm not saying no".

So, should I give it another go in say two months?

Something to consider - I'll be bumping into her for the next 3 years until I finish my masters course and I know that I'll fall for her every time.

yep

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Some girl I work next door to 'fancies' me, she wont stop texting me and ringing me. I do give her hints that I don't like her AT ALL, and that I can't stand her talking to me constantly, but she seems so caught up in her own head to notice! Grr. I know I should just say 'f**k off, but obviously it's not that easy as we were mates for a bit.

On the other hand, there is a girl I really like who i'm getting on really well with, unbelievably well. It's awesome. Last night whilst other mates were chillin' down the beach, she came out and we just lay there talking for hours. Really nice to be able to talk to someone without stopping at all! She also just texted me saying, "Soo, like anyone at the moment then..?" Hint hint?

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i'd say take her out in the daytime and the evening, and be friendly with you, and she may just fall for you. She already goes on the dates with you...

i might try that mate....

oh yeah, u work there to,

i aint gonna tell u who she is though,

ud only rub it in

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