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yeahhh tell me about it im 17 and finding it hard! was serious with a girl for nearly 2 years when i was 15 , at that point now where every girlfriend i have they never compare to the one i was really serious with and now girlfriends never last because they dont meet her standards. If you lot get what i mean :Slol

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its instantly harder when you leave school

in school there's a decent amount of decent lasses, and you know they're going to be there so you can chat to them and shit

Yep! all i got now is f""king msn! haha and most of the girls have bf's now. Just got to wait until im 18 and then i can go chat em up in a bar or somthing haha.

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Yep! all i got now is f""king msn! haha and most of the girls have bf's now. Just got to wait until im 18 and then i can go chat em up in a bar or somthing haha.

hmm, but my mate, older than me, says that meeting girls in clubs and bars and shit is all good if you want summat short, such as, sex and nowt else, but to find a decent lass you have to look further out.

there's a lass i like, thankfully she comes in to the shop fairly often, so now that i've finally made my mind up to, i'm gna ask her if she wants to get a coffee or something. But i'd never be able to ask that to a girl i've just met

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hmm, but my mate, older than me, says that meeting girls in clubs and bars and shit is all good if you want summat short, such as, sex and nowt else, but to find a decent lass you have to look further out.

there's a lass i like, thankfully she comes in to the shop fairly often, so now that i've finally made my mind up to, i'm gna ask her if she wants to get a coffee or something. But i'd never be able to ask that to a girl i've just met

thats not true mate.

when u go to a club or bar in town,

u can get summet short, like sex, if u want....

but if u want summet long term,

jus buy her a drink, have a little dance and conversation,

and if all goes well get her number and arrange another day to meet up for a coffee or what not ;)

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hmm, but my mate, older than me, says that meeting girls in clubs and bars and shit is all good if you want summat short, such as, sex and nowt else, but to find a decent lass you have to look further out.

there's a lass i like, thankfully she comes in to the shop fairly often, so now that i've finally made my mind up to, i'm gna ask her if she wants to get a coffee or something. But i'd never be able to ask that to a girl i've just met

Yeah i know what he means about the bars my mate said the same, speaking to this girl at the moment but slowly running out of things to say haha

oh and about the girl mate, just go for it!! :) ask her u got nothing to loose.

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girls are so hard to understand

that is all...

too right ive had a headache now for 2 weeks and still dunno where i stand. Its her bday today sent her a lame card which i drew on to make it look awesome lol got a txt from her sayin she loved it and thats about it. Just dunno where i stand and the next 6 weeks are busy so looks like this shit with new girl is all going to drift away.. damn well liked her aswell.

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Exactly the same problem for me ! sucks when you run out of things to say :(

Happened quite frequently with a girl who broke up with me recently. It depends on the character, but she was fascinated with trials in general so every now and then when it got quiet, I just chatted about natural and urban riding, competitions, trials scene, frame geometry, how chris king hubs and hydro brakes work etc. She actually found it really fun to listen to and my monologue more often than not ended up with a discussion. Although this might be a very boring topic to discuss with a fellow rider, I've noticed that some girls love to hear about our passion.

So... there's something for you to talk about :)

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Happened quite frequently with a girl who broke up with me recently. It depends on the character, but she was fascinated with trials in general so every now and then when it got quiet, I just chatted about natural and urban riding, competitions, trials scene, frame geometry, how chris king hubs and hydro brakes work etc. She actually found it really fun to listen to and my monologue more often than not ended up with a discussion. Although this might be a very boring topic to discuss with a fellow rider, I've noticed that some girls love to hear about our passion.

So... there's something for you to talk about :)

unless she's not interested in trials

in which case...

...

*tumbleweed*

...

so... nice weather isn't it?

ehehe

..

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unless she's not interested in trials

in which case...

*tumbleweed*

so... nice weather isn't it?

Haha yeah ^_^

Probably depends on how close you are. If you're just looking for a sex friend, you'll be better off talking about your dong and how good you are at using it.

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Right.

I've got such a problem.

I've recently split up with my long term bird. And i'm trying to sort myself out and cut off all the string and starnt having fun.

But a really good friend of mine has just gone into hospital and i havn't been able to see her for a few days :(

I always knew that i spent alot of time with her, and she's always been there when i've been feeling down. But now that i can't see her my lifes been gay and i've been really unhappy :( And she rung me up today to say i can come and see her on monday, and straight away i felt really happy and everything started to work and go back to normal.

And to be honest with you, i think i've fallen in love again.

But...And it's a big but.

She is DOG ugly ! And i know if i bring her home my mum (and boss) will rip the piss out of me :(

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When you run out of things have you already met up with them?

Yep, already met with her, had a freaking long conversations the first time. But now it's getting a little bit more diffcult to find stuff to talk about !

but still, it's getting to something :)

Happened quite frequently with a girl who broke up with me recently. It depends on the character, but she was fascinated with trials in general so every now and then when it got quiet, I just chatted about natural and urban riding, competitions, trials scene, frame geometry, how chris king hubs and hydro brakes work etc. She actually found it really fun to listen to and my monologue more often than not ended up with a discussion. Although this might be a very boring topic to discuss with a fellow rider, I've noticed that some girls love to hear about our passion.

So... there's something for you to talk about :)

Hmm, might be quite a good idea !, will try that next time we see each other ! :D

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Yep, already met with her, had a freaking long conversations the first time. But now it's getting a little bit more diffcult to find stuff to talk about !

but still, it's getting to something :)

you my friend, need to learn the art of the bullsh*tter. talk about pure Codshit, just to keep the conversation flowing, shopping, her top, the bar, what you did last weekend, favourite songs, clubs in town, where you grew up, where she grew up, the time of day.

hopefully within a couple of minutes, shell either find something your talking about interesting, and shell latch on, and turn it into a conversation, or shell get bored, and start talking about something which interests her, at which point, you instantly become interested in that.

i spent an hour one night talking to a girl about her poetry module for uni, i dont know bugger all about poetry, and i dont really know what the point of it was, but i ended up meeting her 3 more times.

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split with mine for good this time :(

im alrite till im on my own then i get all these memories running around my head and it kills me

had to get all her shit out of my room and throw it all in a box before then burrie(SP?) it in my wardobe

ill be fine when im at college, but now the thort of her sleeping with sum random guy or even kissing one makes me want to punch though steel.

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Ok, so this girl i fancie has just dropped the "I want a BF" in a Text. So i did the right thing and said she'll find a decent bloke one day and made her feel good about herself.

But then she carried on talking about blokes. And i said "I want a decent bird too, there so hard to find in blazingsmoke :("

now she's not talking to me :(

What do i do ????

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Ok, so this girl i fancie has just dropped the "I want a BF" in a Text. So i did the right thing and said she'll find a decent bloke one day and made her feel good about herself.

But then she carried on talking about blokes. And i said "I want a decent bird too, there so hard to find in blazingsmoke :("

now she's not talking to me :(

What do i do ????

say

you're decent, you know

:^^

(:^^ in my msn is a sly smily with eyebrows that go up and down)

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