JonMack Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 How about this...With a girl, been with her since just before halloween. Broke up with her the day before her birthday but then got back together. Now wanna break up with her again, but obvs. it's v-day Thursday.She's supposed to be coming down tonight but I dunno if she is...To make matters worse, I fancy one of her mates, and would get with her if I had the chance.Fun times fun times, fun times fun times fun times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 Don't stay with someone for the sake of the f**king Love Taxation day If you want to be really selfish, get together on V Day and do your thing, then dump her afterwards.If you doubt being with someone, then you shouldn't be with them at all...its hardly fair on either of you. Personally I'd call it a chapter and move on...that includes seeing her mate. But...who knows, flings are fun (except for your missus - but oh well).I doubt you're the first person to dump this girl and I doubt you'll be the last. (Christ, that sounds like I'm calling her a slut...I'm not, just saying she'll get over it, eventually...probably). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 Here's a good bit...We're best friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UrbanPoet Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 VD DayThat's what it should be! And what's with all the best friend nailing on TF, I'm currently in that f**ked up situation and it's gonna end badly, depite how hot it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 She's supposed to be coming down tonight but I dont think it's a good idea. But I'm too scared to tell her on msn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 I did it... via myspace. But I was very polite about it so I guess thats okay...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 Bahhh valentince day is such a scam puting me out of pocket she was like ohh its ok you don't have to get me anything that means "if you dont get me anything ill make your life not worth living so make it good" haha it's nice to be nice when you feel like it not a day set aside were everything has to be perfect and romanitc and all that shiz surely if you want that you just do it anyway? bah behoned me then its her birthday early march happy days girls are almost as expensive as bikes. (for now) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 ive decided ill get with a certain someone after VD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 ive decided ill get with a certain someone after VDstay on the anti-biotics and that shouldn't be too far away Ash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 Don't worry Ash, it was just a poor Ghonorea joke. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 oh.speaking of which, we had chlamydia people in college today, doing tests, giving out jonnys and if you brought 4 people you got a t-shirt, naturally, being the wierdo i am, i made my mates get me a shirt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basher Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 oh.speaking of which, we had chlamydia people in college today, doing tests, giving out jonnys and if you brought 4 people you got a t-shirt, naturally, being the wierdo i am, i made my mates get me a shirt.they came to our college we got free goodie bags for having one with glow in dark condoms and lube and stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenLeacock™ Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 this month im gona be the fatty of this thread, i can tell now! f**k SAKE ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 well i'm back with the missus... shows how good my restraint is....one day at a time jason, one day at a time... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 yer me to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 seriously have no idea how women think or what they think. Its like the simplest of things they can turn in to the most complicated shit ever. Why do they insist on mind games and thrill of the chance and all this shite. Urgh...... its come to the point where im sat in bed thinking.. why am i even bothering tryin to put in effort anymore roll on friday.. i need alcohol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun H Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Told her I'd ring her when I got back in from shopping earlier (bout 11ish) however I completely forgot cos I got rushed about to watch Jarhead.I'm in trouble. (A) Ah well, gotta send off V-day letter tomorrow, she's got a lecture on Friday so can't come up til then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 my valentines plans are over with... now i need somethin to do on thursday.. epic f**kin fail as usual Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Something like 10months down the pan as of lastnight she still wants to be 'mates' and wants to come round today and tommow (vday) taking the piss or just trying to make and effort?hmmmm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Something like 10months down the pan as of lastnight she still wants to be 'mates' and wants to come round today and tommow (vday) taking the piss or just trying to make and effort?hmmmm. Seriously, you're a fool if you let her come round. Tell her she can't have it both ways...either with you or not at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Seriously, you're a fool if you let her come round. Tell her she can't have it both ways...either with you or not at all.Think she is but last night she was like hugin me n kissin me n stuff and still inplying she wants to meet up and act as a couple kinda thing in that scence but she wants freedom kinda thing like when ever she go's to partys ect all her mates havent got a care in the world and she feels almost traped cus even if someone chats her up it pisses me off with i think is understandable but she worry all the time about cheating so this way she cant but she still wants the rest kinda thing would be a shame to waist it all but duno if it the right thing to do to be abit on the side kinda thing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Scarlet Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 My problem is sorted, its half term and she wanted to see me, so I just told her that I'm busy on a lot of it, but she can ring me on whatever day.Then she gave me a text saying that its not exactly going to work out.=P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Think she is but last night she was like hugin me n kissin me n stuff and still inplying she wants to meet up and act as a couple kinda thing in that scence but she wants freedom kinda thing like when ever she go's to partys ect all her mates havent got a care in the world and she feels almost traped cus even if someone chats her up it pisses me off with i think is understandable but she worry all the time about cheating so this way she cant but she still wants the rest kinda thing would be a shame to waist it all but duno if it the right thing to do to be abit on the side kinda thing?no offence but dont be so stupid.. sorryits the only word i can use that describes the situation. Shes either with you or she isnt and from reading that and being in a similar shite situation get rid OR at the very least leave the ultimatum as anzo said. She cant have it both ways.. she cant go off.. and potentially get off with blokes.. then if it fails come running back to you as her "back up plan". You are being used and its becoming quite obvious. Get your bike and organise a ride for valentines day, dont be there for her to manipulate your feelings and just take the day off. If she calls/txt's ignore it and take the day as your own you need to break the hold she has over you.. because honestly if you are even questioning the "a bit on the side kinda thing"... you need to think about what type of person she really is. Does a respectable woman have a bit on the side whilst she goes off having her form of fun? she isnt who you think, or atleast her feelings have changed so much that she is willing to hurt you and be ok with it in herself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Thanks mate think its pretty clear what needs to be done she is/was a lovely girl but it seems like im being taken for abit of a run thanks for the relplys shall organise a ride. Cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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