JD™ Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 got a bit weak last nite had a bit of a tiff, started texting her and ringing hger begging for her backshe just ignored me:(ouchah sheeet dave. sorry to hear that, but depending on how late it was, perhaps she was just sleeping or something? The other option, which I did in a previous break up, is that she was just being strong following an emotional time... if she's going to come around and want you back then she will, if not then she wont... i know that sounds silly and obvious, but i think i just mean that there's not a lot you can do. realising that makes it easier...chin up boy!on the subject of my break, em was texting me last night about the fact that this time last year we were flying out to South Africa to spend valentines day over there, and how were we going to cope on this one? Very difficult because right now I'm really trying to come to terms with it and decide to give it at least a couple of months before i decide to get back with her... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 Arrrrrrghh, saw a girl i like who likes me getting off with a guy and promptly disappearing,Truth comes out when your drunk eh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyoyo Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 Truth comes out when your drunk eh Busted. Still gutted though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 seeing the wife tmoz to sort things out.hope all works out well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James-M Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 One thing that always gets me, and I suppose the answer is experience? I don't know. But anway, say you like a girl, it's so hard to know between when they like the attention you're giving them, or you're being clingy. I mean, I might like a girl (who might like me) and i'd be texting her/leaving comments or whatever, possibly showing her i'm interested (not tooooo much so it's obvious it's clingy) but I don't know if she might be thinking, 'Just f**k off for a bit and leave me alone.' So I figure the best idea would be to play it safe and not do it too much, but then she might think I don't like her or can't be arsed.I'm not looking for a 'just tell her you like her' or whatever answer 'cus that's not what I want to do, I just want to know when I would be crossing the line. I suppose it's hard to know unless you're actually them, knowing what they're thinking...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 Gaaaah, f**king Jon Mack, leading me on like this. I thought we had something but the lying b*****d was just leading me on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 it's pretty much impossible to know without, as you say, experience. and experience only lets you get it right 50% of the time anyway... it's all about body language, or just the language being used i.e. how it varies from a normal, relaxed conversation with the same person. It's a juggling act that i generally am shit at. hmn.that doesnt help at all, but hopefully it gives you some insight and something that someone else can add to...in other news, my ex missus is an absolute plonker. and i 100% don't want to go into any more detail right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basher Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 One thing that always gets me, and I suppose the answer is experience? I don't know. But anway, say you like a girl, it's so hard to know between when they like the attention you're giving them, or you're being clingy. I mean, I might like a girl (who might like me) and i'd be texting her/leaving comments or whatever, possibly showing her i'm interested (not tooooo much so it's obvious it's clingy) but I don't know if she might be thinking, 'Just f**k off for a bit and leave me alone.' So I figure the best idea would be to play it safe and not do it too much, but then she might think I don't like her or can't be arsed.I'm not looking for a 'just tell her you like her' or whatever answer 'cus that's not what I want to do, I just want to know when I would be crossing the line. I suppose it's hard to know unless you're actually them, knowing what they're thinking...?Act yourself is what i would say, usely people who are clingly its because how they are its there personality and how they want there gf to be. Dont think so much about how your being and just be yourself, and dont try to hard. If shes right for you and likes you then things will happen. If your being yourself and she thinks your being clingy then you would have to change how you are and eventually down the line it wouldnt work.not right good advice but hope it helped Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbra Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Act yourself is what i would say, usely people who are clingly its because how they are its there personality and how they want there gf to be. Dont think so much about how your being and just be yourself, and dont try to hard. If shes right for you and likes you then things will happen. If your being yourself and she thinks your being clingy then you would have to change how you are and eventually down the line it wouldnt work.not right good advice but hope it helpedGood advice.But i'd just say tell her you like her and stop being a fanny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 f**k sake. So i text her earlier as she has a day off, see if shes any better as she wasn't feeling to good and what she was doing today on her day off, nothing.Fair enough, i wouldn't of cared in the slightest until my mate comes online and is like "you spoken to her? she wants to do something or she going out with mates".Er, no, as i've not spoken to her all day, and thought now getting told what she is doing from a mate was just a bit wierd...Now she saying she doesn't have to tell me every second what she is doing, and i don't at all expect that, i just don't expect to be told what she is doing and what she wants to be doing from a mate when i haven't spoken to her all day.Why do women always twist stuff? f**ks me right off so i've just given up talking to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Why do women always twist stuff? f**ks me right off so i've just given up talking to her.Ah dont be like that. Just accept that girls are mentally retarded an they do things arse about face. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamAllen Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Is 16 and 14 that bad? Or is it just me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 depends, year 11 -> year 10 = ok year 12 -> year 10 = not ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haz Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Half your age + 7 = acceptable So (16/2)+8=15Not acceptable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Campbell Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 (edited) Half your age + 7 = acceptable So (16/2)+8=15Not acceptable.(16/2)+7 = 15 Edited February 6, 2008 by Dan Campbell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamAllen Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 (edited) depends, year 11 -> year 10 = ok year 12 -> year 10 = not ok Yeah i'dbe fine with that, that was like me and my ex, However said girl is one of the oldest in year 9. Aposed to a young year 10. Edited February 6, 2008 by econtrol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Half your age + 7 = acceptable So (16/2)+8=15Not acceptable.cant weight till im 70. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 (edited) World cup rule.4 years, unless they're over 16, then it doesn't matter.Edit: You're year 11 and she's year 9?Sounds good to me mate, thats how it was when I got with my first gf. Edited February 6, 2008 by JonMack Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haz Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 (16/2)+7 = 15One step ahead of myself, I know what I'm talking about. cant weight till im 70.You'll need some serious game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 World cup rule.4 years, unless they're over 16, then it doesn't matter.Edit: You're year 11 and she's year 9?Sounds good to me mate, thats how it was when I got with my first gf.nooooooooooooooooooooooo.1 year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 1 year?! Get real! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom_ Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 to be honest I think it kinda depends on the maturity of the girl, I have a mate who is in year 12 his GFs the older side of year 10, shes very mature and gets on with his mates etc. I would sy 12-10 is a little iffy but if shes mature for her age its passable, 11-9 is ok I guess, again if shes mature then its finneeeee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 yeh but you cant be mature in year 9! year 9 = losing your virginity,getting drunk in parks year 11 = trying to get into clubs and pubs, having sex with randoms at parties Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamAllen Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 She is really mature thats the thing. More mature than my ex that is older than her thats why I really like her, trouble is I always said I'd never get with a year 9 when im in year 11 as i thought it was a little wrong... She really is more mature than my ex and all her mates. Meh.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 year 9 = losing your virginity,getting drunk in parkswish somebody had told me that, i waited till year 10. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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