Dave Anscombe Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Found out my feelings for my gf have changed .dont really want them to but they have .i know people are going to say ohh dave stick with her she is gawjus bla bla bla...but i dont think i can if my feelings are not what they used to be...just feel a bit strange and have no one to talk to at the mo about it:(dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!laycky! Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 just feel a bit strange and have no one to talk to at the mo about it:(daveyou know you can always talk to this lot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Found out my feelings for my gf have changed .dont really want them to but they have .i know people are going to say ohh dave stick with her she is gawjus bla bla bla...but i dont think i can if my feelings are not what they used to be...just feel a bit strange and have no one to talk to at the mo about it:(davechanged how?bored? shag someone else - nothing like a little guilt to spice things up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Be careful, you'll probably end up dumping her and then release you've made a massive mistake.That...or ditch the T-Pro idea for a bit and take her on holiday or something...or even a night in a travel inn can be a lot of fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 lol i just feel like i dont feel love anymore..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 lol i just feel like i dont feel love anymore.....go in the backdoor - if thats not love I don't know what is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoo Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 (8) and I know that I'm a man whore,but I love entering her back dooor,if that ain't love then I don't know what love is (8)or maybe not. I agree with anzo though in all seriousness,you'll probably dump her then beat yourself up over how much you regret doing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James-M Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 (edited) Everything's gone totally shit pants, basically. I went out with a girl for over a year, it just seemed to die down, didn't want to be with her anymore and it ended in May. Had a great time being single in the summer, didn't miss her too much, but then sometimes you do wish you had a girlfriend, someone definate to talk to or to see whenever. Then in September, started going out with another girl I liked through half of the summer, felt pretty good and right, but then it got to about two weeks back. U just didn't seem to have the enthusiasm in the relationship I used to, I don't seem too happy to see her, would rather go out with mates than her. I think maybe it would be better for me being single at this age and time in life, going by what sort of person I am. The hard part is, she really loves me (she's almost 16, i'm 17) is that makes any difference to the love situation, but she's saying now how she needs me, i'm her world and all that, and she's crying. I'm sure if I ended it she would be so upset for so long afterwards, and obviously I would be and miss her, but I feel like it should be done. I've not really been thinking about me, but about her and how she feels, pretending i'm all fine with our relationship so far. I really don't know what to do. EDIT: Now she has just said "james i love you so much & i no u myt not feel the same way bt remember when we first got together all those memories, we can start over again together"I t makes me feel so bad, but if I stayed with her if would be for her sake, not to make her upset. I've also got a pretty strong (I would imagind you'd call it) consience, I really understand how other people feel and don't want to make anyone else fell bad, left etc. Edited January 8, 2008 by James-M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Why stop with someone to make them happy? It'll just make things worse in the long run...afterall, you're not happy now so you won't be in a few weeks or months time. I'm guessing this is her first 'real' relationship, so she will be a bit clingy. But hey, we all got like that once and we all got dumped; and we all learnt a harsh lesson...shit happens.You're going to break up with her at some point, better to do it now than in a few weeks when she thinks everything is ok again, when really its not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James-M Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 (edited) Yeh fair enough I agree. It is her first proper relationship I think, and she is awfully clingy, just got too much really. Edited January 9, 2008 by James-M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Saw the old girl last night, just chatted to her and all was good. Sorted.Met another new girl, shes not into me but she is hotttt. She's mates with some of my mates and she wore one of my tees and my boxers to bed and looked so good. was gonna sleep in my bed but didnt haha it's all good. She smokes though, denied haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Well, shes obviously used to putting small white things in her mouth....get in there Jon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Fully cut it with the ex.. talked to her tonight and i dunno i just felt shit.. we cant speak to eachother like we used to its so awkward and its like she proper pushed the friend card on me all the time cant even slightly hint at flirting or anything. I kno it sounds stupid but yea just feels shit after 6 months feeling like she didnt even care. Said to her shes handling it a lot better than i am cos of all the f**ked relationships shes had and she basically said yea it is easier for me but it still sucks.. so i just said f**k it i cant take this im gonna have to leave. Said the byes etc and she said ok if its what i think is best etc.. so thats that. Time to attempt to move on .. exams begin in less than 2 weeks and going up to uni on saturday to a empty house.. how f**king shite... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Get back out on the bike (if you ride)And get your ass out to some good nights out, you'll soon realise you don't need her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!laycky! Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Well, shes obviously used to putting small white things in her mouth....get in there Jon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Well, shes obviously used to putting small white things in her mouth....get in there Jon!Hahhahhahah classic! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomR Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Quick one for you pros! Girl at work seems to like me and just asked me if i want to go for a drink, how do i say no without sounding like an arsehole? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 tell her your missus wouldn't approve of you going out for drinks with another woman? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomR Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 She knows im single! Already said its probably not the best idea, now shes texted back trying to talk me into it Take the hint woman! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Just go there, get so bezzing off your tits, like turn up inapropriatly drunk. Will turn her right off hahaha depends how much time your have to waste. If shes nice just go out with her! no harm in a lil drink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Say you've got a headache. Or really strict 'rents.LMAO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomR Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 (edited) Just go there, get so bezzing off your tits, like turn up inapropriatly drunk. Will turn her right off hahaha depends how much time your have to waste. If shes nice just go out with her! no harm in a lil drink If i was innapropriately drunk i'd just do the business and be armed with drunkenness as a backup excuse if needs be! Shes not bad, itsjust awkward as she split up with her bf the day after our works xmas party (he works upstairs) which is kinda half my fault.And strict rents im 21! Edited January 10, 2008 by TomR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Say you've got to go out with mates? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomR Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Shed just suggest another time. Managed to fend her off but she ain't giving up, got to credit her for that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Tell her she sounds desperate, in a joking way, but should hint at the point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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