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It is, I can't make up my mind. And it's f**king me off. I've done the dirty with both, was good with both, better with the one that tells me she wants me. But she isn't suitable GF material... Well I don't think she is.

I want to get with the other girl because she's well fun to be around, well they both are but I like the other one more. I think. Meh, I don't know.

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It is, I can't make up my mind. And it's f**king me off. I've done the dirty with both, was good with both, better with the one that tells me she wants me. But she isn't suitable GF material... Well I don't think she is.

I want to get with the other girl because she's well fun to be around, well they both are but I like the other one more. I think. Meh, I don't know.

f**k the non GF one then go running to the GF one f**k her and stick it....

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Wheyyy spent the day with new girl today. She is hottttt :D Didn't f**k her or anythin like that we just watched films and chilled :) was awesome.

Seeing old girl tomorrow at a gig. Nightmare.

recon you can get away with just mates with old girl? Or is it gunna be one of those akward situations?

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jon, she's an old girl for a reason.

I don't know what that reason is, but move on, I can honestly say I think that's the best way to play it. I've been arsing around with an ex (from like 6 years ago, the one I now live with) and can assure you it's absolute balls.

Perhaps im having a dose of independance now that im drunk, (or just being honest with myself for a change??) but old birds are not the way forward.

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yay girls

they're liek good for looking at and stuff, but bad for talking to because they chat shit

they do the whole 'do as i say and not as i do' thing, for e.g, they dislike immature guys, but bitch, gossip and f**k with our minds like we're toys

they're difficult

they're shallow, even if they say they're not (do as i say... etc)

they're deceptive

they're only worth laughing at (hahahahahahahahahaha women)

*sigh*

last time i liked a girl was last year, maybe around october, she was well pretty and seemed like someone i'd genuinely like to spend time with. I had enough stuff to talk to her about, was pretty sure i'd be able to open my mouth and make words come out, u know, but the fates intervened, and there was never an opportunity.

lolol

being shot down isn;t a good feeling, i know all the dudes on here will know that. But after having faced that so many times, and success so few (0) i'm getting immune to it, but also it makes me rather bitter about the whole thing.

heh

i know my flaws, but i'm not always aware of them, certainly not in time...

hell, my mates have often told me that one in my situation is actually lucky, to not have to go through all this faffing around

lolol

you know, i'm going to say the millenium's greatest truth

GIRLS ARE EFFORT, MORE THAN THEY ARE WORTH

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Ok. I've know this girl since High school. Back when we were in school, we were well good mates, when all of us used to go to "the local field" back in the drinking days, there used to be about 100 of us, some of her best girl mates used to be there but she just spent all the time with me. We used to go with each other pritty much every friday night but nothing ever actually come of us because of something happend to my mate and i didn't have anytime.

So anyways, time goes on, she gets a boyfriend, she was with him 6 months. Bare in mind we've left school now and havn't kept in contact at all.

So we meet up on myspace again after 6 months or so. Get talking, now i've been going round her house the past 3 nights in a row now. Lying in her bed, cuddling and kissing watching dvd's.

Now her ex boyfriend, i happen to know him. He's a complete wanker, a control freak, she couldn't go ANYWHRE without his say so, he also give her hell in the relationship towards the end. I will be having serious words (she only told me tonight).

So, things got abit more serious tonight, we kissed abit more, had a laugh and a takeaway. Then abotu 20 mins before i went home. I asked her out....She told me, she loves spending time with me, she loves kissing and cuddling with me, but it all feels wierd, she tells me she did actually love her ex untill he started been a wanker, and she doesn't want to get hurt again.

I explained we can take it slowly if she wishe's, don't go all serious at once. She then starts crying on me and tells me she wants be with me but is scared. At this point im just like f**k sake, nothings ever simple.

Now she tells me she's gonna' let me know tomorrow when i go see her, I'm extremly nervous, cause all i wanna do is be with this girl, i just don't wanna her the word No.

Life's been pritty wank the past 4-6 months of my life. This could be my perfect chance to make things right and happy again.

She just makes me smile everytime i think of her and everytime i see her.

I just don't know what to expect tomorrow or how im going handle it if she say's no.

Guys....Help :(

Many thanks for taking the time to read this.

Danny.

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All I can say Danny is Well Done.

A lot of guys debate whether or not to tell the girl how you feel. You've dealt with that early which is good in my eyes, just play the waiting game BUT if she does say no still stay in contact with her because it sounds like she would come around to her senses.

My trouble is I am now single again, have no interest in getting another gf at the minute but my first day back at uni today and I couldn't stop flirting with everyone, even with the girls I know like me but I have absolutely no interest in. Guess I was just happy to be back.

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if you really want to get with her

i'd say

don't pressure her into giving you an answer

say something like

don't give me an answer now

we've only recently been spending time together and i want to get to know you and become a good friend before we get into anything

she'll realise that you don't just want to use her

and once you're friends she'll feel more comfortable around you and may develop feelings!

then when you feel like you are really getting along well, ask her what she would say if you asked her out,

then if she says no, at least you won't have asked her out yet,

and if she says yes,

go for it!

HOPE THIS WAS HELPFUL MATE

:D

Ben

x:)

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