Skoze Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Don't worry mate, it can only get better!I had the same problem, met a really nice girl, she was absolutely amazing! then she decided to go and start wrecking herself on various drugs and getting totally wasted at any opportunity, i did what you did and after lots of nagging and long chats and persuading i helped get her off it. A little while later we went to a party and we were all over each other all night, it was great! Then for the next three weeks she wouldnt even talk to me, getting properly stressed if i even went near anyone else.. my head was such a mess!After this it was her 16th birthday and she proceeded to try and have sex with whoever showed even the slightest bit of interest in her. More long chats and persuading and she's sorted her life out but has completely forgotten about me, how i helped her and how i went completely out of my way her, she barely speaks to me if i ever i see her. it screwed my head up but i decided to leave well alone after that, if she needs any help again, its only in my nature to help out.For me, leaving her alone after helping her through lots of crap was hard, especially getting no recognition for it or even a thank you, but its so much better without her! of course i miss her and still think about her, but theres so many more girls out there, getting so hooked up in someone that treats you so badly is no good for you!No matter what you do, im sure youll make the right choices, you can always come on here , speak to everyone, get some advice and let the weight off your shoulders. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 (edited) Don't worry mate, it can only get better!I had the same problem, met a really nice girl, she was absolutely amazing! then she decided to go and start wrecking herself on various drugs and getting totally wasted at any opportunity, i did what you did and after lots of nagging and long chats and persuading i helped get her off it. A little while later we went to a party and we were all over each other all night, it was great! Then for the next three weeks she wouldnt even talk to me, getting properly stressed if i even went near anyone else.. my head was such a mess!After this it was her 16th birthday and she proceeded to try and have sex with whoever showed even the slightest bit of interest in her. More long chats and persuading and she's sorted her life out but has completely forgotten about me, how i helped her and how i went completely out of my way her, she barely speaks to me if i ever i see her. it screwed my head up but i decided to leave well alone after that, if she needs any help again, its only in my nature to help out.For me, leaving her alone after helping her through lots of crap was hard, especially getting no recognition for it or even a thank you, but its so much better without her! of course i miss her and still think about her, but theres so many more girls out there, getting so hooked up in someone that treats you so badly is no good for you!No matter what you do, im sure youll make the right choices, you can always come on here , speak to everyone, get some advice and let the weight off your shoulders.Thanks alot for taking the effort to write thatI can recognize myself alot in the storyStill not sure about forgetting her at this point, still see a little spark of for her somewhere.I will be meeting up with some other girls these hollidays to get her off my mind a bit though And getting stuff of my shoulders does feel good, I like it how the people here don't even know eachother, but still try to help eachother out.Great community Edit: Just spoke to her on msn, she said that she was going to some event all alone and didn't know anyone to take with her. Should I ask her if I could come... or should I focuss on forgetting her Edited December 22, 2007 by Meteor~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Don't go. It'll just f**k your head up even more!You'll be going in circles with her, seriously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Jennings Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 I've been shagging my mates' ex ex the past few days, but he split up with her months ago. (that make sense?) Anyway, he dumped her and really lost interest in her way back, we spoke alot about how much he was fed up with her an was trying to think of ways of dumping her. He's been at Uni for the past few months and just got back last night, even though I've only had sex with her like twice I really think he needs to know. I feel bang out of order otherwise, he's had another long term girlfriend since being at Uni an dumped her a few days ago, again he lost interest in that one. So I'm pretty shitting myself, but whatever he decides I'll appreciate, and if he smacks me then I guess I deserve. The only problem though, how the bloody hell am I gona approach a subject like that? Over coffee, 'yeah look mate, I've been shaggin girl1, do you mind?'Thats a hard one man. Personally i'd probably wuss out and call him and tell him. If he gets angry at least you can prepare for a smack.Surely if he lost intrest in her it wouldnt matter?If he was dumped by her its a different story.Maybe you could you go for the 'I never knew you went out with her' Or is he a good mate? does he know you know (know what i mean )WE HAVE A SITUATION!The story goes:Gone to some meal with my parents which was something to do with work and stuff. Met my mum's* work colleague and her husband, and gorgeous daughter.Got on with her daughter who lives in Wakie, who is absolutely stunning. Drop dead gorgeous, single and pretty in to me from what I gathered. Thing is, I know her name and could probs find her last name out if I asked, but she's only 16 and I doubt it she has facebook. Searching on myspace is going to be pretty hard isn't it?I don't want to get my mum to ask her mum for her number 'cos thats just sad but I really want to get to know her, even if its just for a bit of texting and stuff, I'm not that fussed. We really got on so.... ideas?Can you get the dads number? Ask for the girl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam F Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 (edited) Sorry =/ wrong topic. Edited December 22, 2007 by i like eggs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 (edited) 'Listen to me for f**ks sake. You and me will never happen. The feelings just arent there on my part. We make much better friends than we would ever make as a couple. It's not going to happen so please give up on me. Youre wasting your time. Find someone else x x'yay. Edited December 22, 2007 by Fat Pants™ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Who? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Gemma. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Dickhead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 f**king fanny.Probably not gonna speak to her now. After i spent 35 f**king quid on her yesterday out of my own f**king money the fanny. And she stole my f**king max bashing mag, if she comes into halfords i'm gonna f**king lay the bitch out.I'm more angry than upset, f**king bint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basher Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Is this the same one you was mad about ages ago and everyone was telling you to just leave it and stuff? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Nah that was Hayley. Seriously, you need to listen to me more. Don't speak to her at all. Don't go back to her. Seriously man listen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Right,I'm pretty torn in half at the moment.Two girls, hate each other, both like me, I like them both.One is an ex, the other is a bit of a head case to be honest. Molly (the ex) ended it because she was a virgin and we rushed into shit and it scared her like how quickly we rushed into things, but then got with a lad I hate with a passion. Last night I went to a party and she said she hasn't stopped thinking about me. I stayed at hers last night after the party and we just lay there kissed n shit and talked about random shiz.Now the other girl, Kirstie, is a bit hmmmmmmm. I like her, and everything, but she's the type of girl that wants attention 24/7. She takes everything the wrong way and generally pisses me off about it all. But I still like her. Now I've been thinking about it for a bit, and my minds saying Molly, but I don't know if all my trust will be there.What would you do in my shoes? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grant Hundley Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Right,I'm pretty torn in half at the moment.Two girls, hate each other, both like me, I like them both.One is an ex, the other is a bit of a head case to be honest. Molly (the ex) ended it because she was a virgin and we rushed into shit and it scared her like how quickly we rushed into things, but then got with a lad I hate with a passion. Last night I went to a party and she said she hasn't stopped thinking about me. I stayed at hers last night after the party and we just lay there kissed n shit and talked about random shiz.Now the other girl, Kirstie, is a bit hmmmmmmm. I like her, and everything, but she's the type of girl that wants attention 24/7. She takes everything the wrong way and generally pisses me off about it all. But I still like her. Now I've been thinking about it for a bit, and my minds saying Molly, but I don't know if all my trust will be there.What would you do in my shoes?so its either go with a girl your more likely to get on with, or go with someone whos guna do your head in cus your not paying enough attention to her.. i'd say go with molly cus your more likely to have a decent relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Joe, Molly, HappyJoe, Not Molly, Idiot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCircus Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 If someone tells you that they don't love who they are with and would rather it was you they were with would you not do the same thing?Not if I was, as you say, 'REALLY FRIENDLY' with her boyfriend. The reason you look like a dickhead is because you just betrayed someone who was your friend to get with some batshit insane whore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grant Hundley Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 how so??Give me some f**king info here lads this is balls not just some teenagers kissing.She is still with him now but im getting messages every five minutes asking to clarify what happened and because she hasnt been entirley truthful with him, im looking like a dickhead.When she told me she wanted me I told her I wasn't the person who was going to help her cheat on him, and she managed to convince me that it wouldn't be a f**k up. If someone tells you that they don't love who they are with and would rather it was you they were with would you not do the same thing?We have both agreed that this was bound to happen at some stage, so clearly there is an attraction between the two of us, and she admits that she has serious problems in that she can't be honest with herself.I know it'll all kick off again as soon as he get's back after xmas so need to know should I risk her being pissed at me and tell him everything I know/remember or just let him give me shit and dirty looks for a while, bearing in mind that it's likely he will be coming round to MY flat to see her when we are back at uni?surely if she didnt love who she was with she would have left him for you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 fish. molly. if kirstys anything like her sister(which she sounds just like) then she aint really gunna be that much fun for anything other than a couple of days of hiding the sausage.not to mention mollys fit. and kirstys not all that and a bag of foam fruits. (no offence to her like) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 Molly ***... Hopefully.I will update tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tipus Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 (edited) christmastime without the gf... ended 2 weeks ago.sure ain't easy.. =/ Edited December 23, 2007 by tipus Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 christmastime without the gf... ended 2 weeks ago.sure ain't easy.. =/One less present to buy... ...Sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tipus Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 (edited) I had bought the stuff already.. So I decided to give it to her anyway. At the time she hadn't bought anything for me, so I'm not getting anything.I feel like I should of have gotten something from her, but nooo. oh well (After a year together) Edited December 23, 2007 by tipus Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryan. Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 gfs sat on the phone to another guy for 2 hoursf**king great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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