Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[nc7r]

She is legal though, so i can't give you much stick. (You are like 20 right?)

I dunno what you should do really, i probably don't have sufficient permissions to say either.

I'm just 19 in November. And no you don't

you can search by name on myspace.so get her last name, and type it in with uk only, probably only hit up a few results,

That's a pretty good idea. I might try that. She seems like such a cracking girl, I think it might be one of those things where its not love a first sight, but I get on with her so well I'd really hate myself if I didn't know her - you get me?

Pretty shit that a uni all the girls are my age or older. My age girls are shit. 16-18's are where it's at. Roll on the freshers next year I say! Any more suggestions apart from hunt her last name on the sly from the parents and then myspace? Don't really know what else I could do.

[JonMack]

That's a pretty good idea. I might try that. She seems like such a cracking girl, I think it might be one of those things where its not love a first sight, but I get on with her so well I'd really hate myself if I didn't know her - you get me?

Pretty shit that a uni all the girls are my age or older. My age girls are shit. 16-18's are where it's at. Roll on the freshers next year I say! Any more suggestions apart from hunt her last name on the sly from the parents and then myspace? Don't really know what else I could do.

Any way you can find it on the sly? Cos like you said otherwise it might be a bit weird. After all... like you said on msn, she is just doin her GCSEs! Not that thats a bad thing. But yeah younger girls are defo better, from experience

[munkee]

if i could be arsed to even type whats been happening the last few weeks... fast bullet form style summary

with gf all going well

find out ive spent over £2k in a month

caught speeding

parents call gf slut/whore/gold digger

dog dies

feelings for gf felt like they had changed

university work piling up

parents threaten to cut me off

too scared to come home to face the music

feeling still unsure for gf

crying like a girl cos im an emotional wreck

Today

Edited December 17, 2007 by Spacemunkee

[Fish-Finger-er]

if i could be arsed to even type whats been happening the last few weeks... fast bullet form style summary

with gf all going well

find out ive spent over £2k in a month

caught speeding

parents call gf slut/whore/gold digger

dog dies

feelings for gf felt like they had changed

university work piling up

parents threaten to cut me off

too scared to come home to face the music

feeling still unsure for gf

crying like a girl cos im an emotional wreck

Today

dont want to sound patronising, but... peaks and troughs, check out my post in the angry thread from this morning at 5am to see what i mean about the crap i been through this year, but itll get better, its got too.

also look what youve still got/are getting.

your still alive.

youve still got a girlfriend, but then if you dont want one, your still plenty young enough to be single for a while till you want one.

youve still got a driving license, and a decent car.

youre going to have a uni degree(unless your drop out).

then theres probably plenty of other positives youve got in your life, but im not gunna make assumptions(friends, your wealth to start with, etc)

[nc7r]

dont want to sound patronising, but... peaks and troughs, check out my post in the angry thread from this morning at 5am to see what i mean about the crap i been through this year, but itll get better, its got too.

also look what youve still got/are getting.

I absolutely agree with that. To be honest, whatever I'm going through at the moment is probably nothing compared to some people in the world. At least I'm alive and still here to experience the whole thing.

Like Kev says, you have loads of good stuff in your life. Just try to face the music, talk it through with your parents and tell them how you're feeling. When you get some kind of plan going you'll feel much better.

[Dr. Nick Riviera]

never let the problems of others diminish your own, just because they have it worse, doesn't mean you don't have it bad.

but chris is ginger....

[JonMack]

I've been flirting with a few girls this evening and it's fun.

I'm bad

[Onza Kieron]

I'm going out with the lass at work who's on the till downstairs and I love her, lots

Theres another hot lass now working on the till and I like the look of her although I don't know her yet really, just sort of.

I find attractive girls attractive and I fear i'm going to cheat on GF but I don't want to, I love her and spending time with her, anyone got any solutions..other than just going for it with others too haha.

[poopipe]

slam your dick in the fridge door everytime you think about it - it's called aversion therapy

[Haz]

slam your dick in the fridge door everytime you think about it - it's called aversion therapy

I was told to do it by licking your hand, wiping it on your bellend, and holding 9v battery to them. Does the sae job by all accounts...

[JoeM]

Liking one of your best friends sucks, I really like my friend abby, but she's one of my closest mates and has a boyfriend. I've had opportunity's to make a move but I've never had the bulls to do it. Anyone had the same problem?

Joe

[JonMack]

Yeah... I didnt do anything until her and her bf split up, but we both previously liked each other, anyway we just hung out like at gigs and stuff then just one day she was on her own with me just chatting and i just grabber her and kissed her... now its 2 months later and im still shagging her

[Broomer]

Liking one of your best friends sucks, I really like my friend abby, but she's one of my closest mates and has a boyfriend. I've had opportunity's to make a move but I've never had the bulls to do it. Anyone had the same problem?

Joe

whats the bf like, of course the right thing would be to avoid hitting on her, but if shes up for it and her boyfriends a jerk, ide go for it.

[Ryan.]

really angry atm...

girlfriend asks me to call her....then when she picks up she says shes on msn, i say o ok il speak to u on that, so she hangs up on me

talks to me on msn for about 10 mins and moans that when i call her i always seem like i want to go, which is utter bullshit.now she wont talk to me on msn or answer the phone.

shes now saying that im not commited enough...wtf!! i drive an hour there and back to see here every other....i mean wtf...

rant over

[Mike W]

really angry atm...

girlfriend asks me to call her....then when she picks up she says shes on msn, i say o ok il speak to u on that, so she hangs up on me

talks to me on msn for about 10 mins and moans that when i call her i always seem like i want to go, which is utter bullshit.now she wont talk to me on msn or answer the phone.

shes now saying that im not commited enough...wtf!! i drive an hour there and back to see here every other....i mean wtf...

rant over

No explanation for that other than. Mentalist.

[matt rushton]

No explanation for that other than. Mentalist.

Haha,

But seriously, just tell her what you just said on here. Does she ever make the effort to come and see you??

[JoeM]

whats the bf like, of course the right thing would be to avoid hitting on her, but if shes up for it and her boyfriends a jerk, ide go for it.

Boyfriends a nob, none of her friends like him.. But then again that doesn't matter in her eyes. I suppose i'll just wait a bit, she said to me "kill my boyfriend" the other day because he was having a go at her.. so i dought that will last much longer. But meh, i don't know if she'd be up for anything.. I'm taking her to the prom so might wait till then

Joe

[matt rushton]

Boyfriends a nob, none of her friends like him.. But then again that doesn't matter in her eyes. I suppose i'll just wait a bit, she said to me "kill my boyfriend" the other day because he was having a go at her.. so i dought that will last much longer. But meh, i don't know if she'd be up for anything.. I'm taking her to the prom so might wait till then

Joe

Everyone will get pissed up at prom so try it when she's pissed, then your on it.

[Smo™]

She's pissing me off.

[Walleee]

Edited June 11 by Walleee

[TheCircus]

I've pretty much gone and done the worst thing you could do in my situation.

First night back home from uni, spent the night with my flatmate, who has a boyfriend who I am REALLY friendly with. She tells me that she is not in love with him and is only with him because he would do anything for her. Then proceeds to spend an hour getting it on with me, before we go back to her house and keep going. (we are at home now- flatmates at uni)

We wake up today and don't mention a thing about it, then I get a phone call saying she want's to tell her b/f what happened. To add to this I have been 'seeing' her mate.

why do girls f**k me about so much?

Because you are crazy stupid.

[omgnoseat]

Ok it's been a while

Some people might remember my whole thing with "Stephanie"

If you don't remember it, then just stop reading here

her name is actually Denise btw, thought she wouldn't like it to have her name mentioned somewhere on some forum, but that doesn't matter anymore now

I went to a party where she was aswell, and Denise wasn't paying any attention to me AT ALL. Now I have social phobia and she knows that. So i had trouble speaking with her with all those people around.

At the end of the evening when everyone went to sleep she went to an other room than me.

So that was just my comfirmation that she didn't want anything to do with me.

So i was quite sad about the whole day and was just feeling utterly crap.

While I was laying on the couch trying to sleep I was shaking abit, and one of stephanie's friends came and comfort me with a hug.

Then another hug, more intense. Well that led to some kissing and some more stuff.

We were kinda busy the whole night with that stuff, it was my first time for alot of things [there was no sex btw] so I did enjoy it at that moment. But when I went home I started to feel sooooooooooooo guilty

A friend who came with me kept reminding me how I ruined it all with Denise. The guy was sleeping next to me and the girl but it seemed like he was wide awake the whole evening and watched everything...

Got home, went to get some sleep first because it was 10am in the morning and I had just traveled 3 hours from the place of the party to my home.

Called up Denise but she didn't awnser, turned out later that a friend already told her.

Went on MSN and she was really sad.

But she didn't want to give up with me, I was very supirsed that still wanted to give it a try, but meh I was happy

2 days after the party I suprised her and waited by her school, another 3 hour travel to go there, but oh well..I wanted to tell her that I messed up and felt crappy.

Had quite a nice day there, but nothing special.

A week later I heard that she had been kissing with EVERYONE in the room she slept with [yes including the girls there].

So that kind off explained why she wasn't so angry. I felt kinda pissed because she just kept this a secret from me.

Now 3 weeks later she suddenly started acting very strange towards me. She is being very slutty atm aswell, visiting party's and just try to get as far with every boy she sees as she can.

Woah bit of a long story here . But I'm very confused atm about her. I really don't like the person in whom she is turing into. She is just completly changing into a slut and is acting very uhm "hately"[do'nt know the english word] against me.

Spend so many sleepless nights thinking about her, and did so much effort to help her with all the troubles she had.

And now she is just forgetting all of it.

So confused..

Some friends are suggesting that I should forget her, but this really isn't an option for me. I like her way too much.

Anyway, just wanted to put this somewhere, I like writing my thought up somewhere

[Max Quinn]

Probleemmss

Ok i no this is what everyone will say and it seems stupid but you WILL get over her. Believe me. It may not seem like it now but with it being your first kinda girlfriend (i think you said that?) its kinda normal to get clingy an stuff, just look at fatpants He was saying all the same stuff about that Hayley bird but now seems to be ovber her, other girls come along.

If shes getting with everyone in a room and then acting at all angry at you for getting with someone i don't think you wanna be with her, it will just end in tears. It sounds harsh but she seems like shes just playing you and likes the attention, sorry man .

[Dan6061]

Basically, if she does want to actually be with you, she'd have spent time with you at that party, and not gone slagging off with everything with a pulse.

I didn't understand your post really, seemed a bit all over the place? One minute you're saying she doesn't want you, then you got with her mate, then you felt bad, and she got pissy with you?

If that's right, the wtf?

Sounds like she's messing you about. Ask her why she's going off with everyone else, and blanking you out? Even before you got with her mate, you hadn't done anything wrong...?

[omgnoseat]

Basically, if she does want to actually be with you, she'd have spent time with you at that party, and not gone slagging off with everything with a pulse.

I didn't understand your post really, seemed a bit all over the place? One minute you're saying she doesn't want you, then you got with her mate, then you felt bad, and she got pissy with you?

If that's right, the wtf?

Sounds like she's messing you about. Ask her why she's going off with everyone else, and blanking you out? Even before you got with her mate, you hadn't done anything wrong...?

The post was a bit messy indeed, my writing sucks abit

I was always kind off complaining how she was going the wrong way with smoking and alchol.

That always kind of pissed her off, while the only reason for the complaing was my fear of losing her due to her changing.

Which has now happend

So she always was a bit angry about the complaining.

I don't understand the rest of it aswell, the one time she acts like she doesn't likes me at all, and the other time she does.

But this time it's kind of obvious that she wants to forget me.

Just over the weekends, boom she totally changed her opinion about me, don't get it at all.

I'm tired of having this on my mind 24/7, I want to forget it but it's hard =/

@max quinn

I'm not sure about it all, I've been trying to forget her. But the harder I try, the more I seem to have her on my mind.

Meh girls can totally f**k you up, study is going bad and I go to bed at 5 o clock during schooldays

Sigh