ManxTrialSpaz Posted June 14, 2014 Report Share Posted June 14, 2014 I read your post before you removed it so thought I'd throw in anyway. I defiantly think it's something worth trying again, it can lead to a healthier relationship. And it's normal for it to hurt after the first time and cleanliness is very important, particularly for you. Maybe bring a bucket of warm soapy water next time to make sure it doesn't get that messy again. f**k sake, can't really remember what I wrote but after an hour of sitting there I sent the most retarded text message ever and definitely made things awkward. I'm such a twat. Don't drink and text kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*gentlydoesit Posted June 14, 2014 Report Share Posted June 14, 2014 Dam that sounded juicy gossip, can't believe I missed it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted June 14, 2014 Report Share Posted June 14, 2014 f**k sake, can't really remember what I wrote but after an hour of sitting there I sent the most retarded text message ever and definitely made things awkward. I'm such a twat. Don't drink and text kids. No idea what you wrote, completely joking 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManxTrialSpaz Posted June 15, 2014 Report Share Posted June 15, 2014 No idea what you wrote, completely joking Didn't think it sounded quite right, but I put that down to the fact I wasn't quite sober 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamKidney Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 (edited) Getting the feeling my girlfriends not really as bothered about me as she was. Am I wrong to be annoyed about her and her mates being driven round in other lads cars? Or to be suspicious of her new "best mate" Zak, of whom she spent most of her time with at the last party we were at. Hate sitting here stressing about it, but as soon as I even mention doubting some areas of what she does, she goes on the defensive and won't even hear me out. Edited June 17, 2014 by SamKidney Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 Heard this a million times before. If a girl gets defensive over something, she's normally doing something wrong. You'll be blamed as having no trust, but the fact of the matter is that she shouldn't be doing that. In the same way that as a guy, you shouldn't go round a girls house to watch a film. It has nothing to do with trust issues, it's just not the done thing. I have female friends, but I'm well aware that going driving with them or whatever is a bad idea. I don't know the situation, but I'd be preparing for the worst if it was me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 Totally depends what she was like at the party mate, flirty or just chilling with him? From what I can see though mate, you've been pretty down about it for a while now? From facebook posts and on here. As soon as you start to get doubts like that it's destined to go absolutely nowhere. If it was me i'd save the heartache and "what ifs" and probably just leave it if it's getting you down. You/we're too f**king young to be sat wondering stuff that might be happening. Totally been there and regret it all when you could be out meeting girls who would look up to you. You're an awesome guy too and it's a shame she shrugs it off when you try talking to her about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamKidney Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 (edited) I just feel like there's a lack of respect from her to me. I've deliberately put off parties, events etc.. that girls I know host because it doesn't come across well to her. In all fairness, when I mentioned the car thing she stopped, and zaks a good friend of mine but its odd how all of a sudden she spends as much time with him as she does. Shes an odd one, I don't want to think the worst but u know it's always a possibility. Think I'll see if I can have a talk when she's home, need to make sense of it all. Dan at the party it did seem in a matey/chilled way, I guess I just feel a bit threatened by it. She means a lot to me and while I don't want to risk blowing it all I do want to know Edited June 17, 2014 by SamKidney Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiamWood! Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 I just feel like there's a lack of respect from her to me. I've deliberately put off parties, events etc.. that girls I know host because it doesn't come across well to her. In all fairness, when I mentioned the car thing she stopped, and zaks a good friend of mine but its odd how all of a sudden she spends as much time with him as she does. Shes an odd one, I don't want to think the worst but u know it's always a possibility. Think I'll see if I can have a talk when she's home, need to make sense of it all. Dan at the party it did seem in a matey/chilled way, I guess I just feel a bit threatened by it. She means a lot to me and while I don't want to risk blowing it all I do want to know She was out last night with that idiot Nathan is that pile of shit corsa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 f**k em both off and be happy. Lifes to short to get dragged down. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 Start shagging 'Nathan'. She how she likes them apples! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 If she's spending that much time with him and not you definitely say something, you'll probably have a massive argument but oh well then if things don't change deffo long her off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 Forgot to add she'd be pissed if you saw one of her mates like that wouldnt she, so you arent in the wrong! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrialsIsHard Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 If she's spending that much time with him and not you definitely say something, you'll probably have a massive argument but oh well then if things don't change deffo long her off Deffo this, if you don't say something then she might begin to think 'I'm spending all this time with Nathan/Zak/whatever and my boyfriend hasn't said anything..' Which implies that you don't care rather than you don't want to seem controlling and un-trusting. As we all know b*tches be crazy and she could react in a manner of different ways, but in the end you'll feel like a penis if you don't approach it and she mugs you off x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 f**k her off, start having fun. You are too young to be tied down. Go forth and shag like a rabbit, ride a bike, do good stuff with no woman to give you grief Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 So glad I'm single when I read this thread. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 So glad I'm not in a horrendously high maintenance relationship anymore when I read this thread. Seriously though, cool and calm is definitely the way to be I think. Few texts a day, so good. Can do whatever I want with friends and don't feel the need to reply as soon as I get a text, simply read it and reply when I'm not busy or whatever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamKidney Posted June 17, 2014 Report Share Posted June 17, 2014 (edited) Just finished speaking to her Things seeeeem to be okay. She stopped and listened to what I had to say and seems to have actually taken it on board. Told her I'd felt like she was maybe taking the piss a little and that it was bothering me, and she said now she actually thinks about it from my point of view she completely understands why I'd be suspicious/pissed off by it. Complete turn around from what I expected. Shes said she's got a nice weekend planned for me when I see her as a means to starting to making amends. Edited June 17, 2014 by SamKidney 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Good man. Talking, its all you need... /thread, lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Ah Sam that's real good to hear, just make sure she knows how you're feeling. If she gets angry you're jealous about something say it's only because you love her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Ha, gaaaayyyy! 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Jake. Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 So if you're in a relationship and don't love them, doesn't that defeat the purpose of a relationship? You lot are retarded haha. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 So if you're in a relationship and don't love them, doesn't that defeat the purpose of a relationship? You lot are retarded haha. You're retarded if you can't see how gay your reply was. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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