dann2707 Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 I'm not man enough to call! haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haydon_peter Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 Or just do it face to face? You pussy. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 From that reply though, it doesn't seem like a "date" as such does it? my mate says it seems more like a casual thing? To see if we get along? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 Well she didn't say anything that bad, "im pretty surprised as you've never really given any signals at all before. We could go somewhere and see how it goes, no pressure, that ok? xx" Thats pretty weirddd reply :/ You gotta do this in some sort of romantic way though. If you're just going to watch a film or grab a bite then it's no different to being just normal friends. My gf told me this after we was together (I was friend zoned for 4 months, but that's another story), that she was sure about the normal friend side of things but what she wasn't sure was the bf/gf side of things, the physical side of things if you get me But anyway, romantic but not overkill like start singing her love songs. I'm sure you know what you're doing though dan. I look forward to the outcome! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 You're analysing things way too much. Why don't you just go somewhere and see how it goes, there's no pressure... xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 Stop thinking you retard. She's accepted and has suggested you two go out some time, keeping things chilled to start out with - it'll all be good. Sounds to me just like she's got her head screwed on right as opposed to not being interested... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 (edited) You're all right, im quitting now and watchin the walking dead. I'm only like this because i'm f**k awful with women (can you tell?). Well i'm not really, but I don't really have solid experience with "dating" due to many reasons. Edited March 19, 2012 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 If all else fails result to the SkozeSombrero™ * *note method highly unlikely to work in any other circumstance than the intial technique in which it was executed by Skoze. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 i'm f**k awful with women Don't worry, I'm 10x worse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 If all else fails result to the SkozeSombrero™ * *note method highly unlikely to work in any other circumstance than the intial technique in which it was executed by Skoze. Bought that bitch a 4 foot wide sombrero. Bitches love 4 foot wide sombreros. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 You're all right, im quitting now and watchin the walking dead. I'm only like this because i'm f**k awful with women (can you tell?). Well i'm not really, but I don't really have solid experience with "dating" due to many reasons. I'd say suggest somewhere that is blindingly obviously a date if you're worried she won't notice it is one. Go to a restaurant instead of cinema or pub. Being in a restaurant all dressy and nice makes it obvious and makes you both feel kinda "special". It's a change from the norm, which might make the memory of you change/stand out a lot more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 That's a good point - wherever you go make sure it's somewhere you can properly chat, going purely to a cinema or something is total bullshit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 Never ever understood the cinema date thing - "Hey let's go somewhere where we won't be looking at each other, and can't talk to each other for a couple of hours?!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krisboats Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 I'd say suggest somewhere that is blindingly obviously a date if you're worried she won't notice it is one. Go to a restaurant instead of cinema or pub. Being in a restaurant all dressy and nice makes it obvious and makes you both feel kinda "special". It's a change from the norm, which might make the memory of you change/stand out a lot more. Fuuuuuck that. Obviously this is age dependant but as a rule an attractive girl will get a f**kload of invites to fancy dinners etc. There's nothing stand out'ish with that at all. What you want to do is something chilled out and comfortable or something incredibly fun/exciting. Preferably both. GO to a theme park, or the zoo. Look in the back of the local paper to see if theres any cool things on in nearby town like a fair or a circus. Even a motherf**king flower show if you have to. You want to win her over with your personaility, not showing off with a fancy meal that adds in a load of expectations and pressure. I mean lets face it, shes given you the biggest clue by telling you she wants to go out somewhere without any pressure. Thats her saying she wants to try you out in boyfriend mode, not all worked up and agitated first date mode. I'd be inclined to say a walk through the park (flowers are blooming this time of year and its free so double win) then stop off somewhere for a drink or a quick bite to eat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Swales Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 Go to a theme park, or the zoo. She's given you the biggest clue by telling you she wants to go out somewhere without any pressure. Thats her saying she wants to try you out in boyfriend mode, not all worked up and agitated first date mode. I'd be inclined to say a walk through the park (flowers are blooming this time of year and its free so double win) then stop off somewhere for a drink or a quick bite to eat. Edited down a bit, but Krisboats (and this girl, whoever she is) is speaking sense - don't over think things, you want to be able to be yourself, have fun and see how you get on, not pile on the pressure in a clichéd first date situation. When I lived in Kent, 20 minutes from Howlett's Zoo, that was a standard, and successful, date venue for me. It gives you something to do, but allows you to talk freely, not talk for a bit if you need to without it being an awkward silence, and even gives you something (like that baboon eating its own shit or sniffing another baboon's balls) to talk about if conversation's drying out, and takes loads of pressure off. You can even get something to eat or drink and sit and have a chat if you feel the need. Easy. Think of somtheing cool and fun to do that gives you plenty of options, rather than locking yourself into doing one thing that's going to make you feel nervous and intense. And no crying! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 Absolutely yeah, was going to reply and say Krisboats reply sounds pretty good but yours does too Benjamin. We do barely know each other in person (met 3 times in total, 2 of which were drunken) so yeah it only makes sense. Shame there's no zoo's around here though haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 Am I the only one who thinks the zoo on a first date is weird haha? All true what you said but the zoo! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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dann2707 Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 Holy shit theres temple newsam farm about 3 miles from where we live. She loves pigs. Winner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greg1040 Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 Thoughts on abusing an ex's little sister? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 Thoughts on abusing an ex's little sister? That could be interpreted a number of ways Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krisboats Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 Holy shit theres temple newsam farm about 3 miles from where we live. She loves pigs. Winner. See, all full of win. When i looked and i mean properly went to a tourist information place near me theres f**king loads of stuff. I never knew my town had a museum, which is actually quite cool to go around because theres always something to talk about right in front of you. I just dont get why people try and do the cinema or going out for a meal thing, if you take her somewhere new, you're winning on the originality front already. Quad biking, zoo, museum, discovery centres, local nature reserve, sea life centre, paintballing, arts and crafts place, local art/photography/anything exhibition (usually have free snacks too!). Unfortunately most guys go straight for the meal or cinema thing and even worse, they insist on paying. All that conveys to a girl is 'i'm not secure with myslef and now i'm trying to buy your affection with gifts. Stick around long enough and i'll keep trying to kiss your arse like this'. As an example, i met my girlfriend in a club, went home and played xbox with her and watched a movie before we fell asleep. Met up with her later in the week and just chilled out for the evening again. It was six weeks in before we went to the cinema together and i think the same night was our first food out too. A kfc of all things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 Thoughts on abusing an ex's little sister? Show her your backhand. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 That sounds pretty much how i'd like it to play out if i'm honest. When I think back, asking my gf to the cinema on a first date was a shocking idea haha. I picked her up (was the first time i'd even MET her), we talked loads in the car. Saw the film then took her home haha. How bleak! I was pretty damn nervous too. I miss her. dang, she was hot and came onto me - that never happens haha. Think i'll organise it with her tonight, I do like this whole no pressure thing though. Good call girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greg1040 Posted March 21, 2012 Report Share Posted March 21, 2012 I mean give her a good seeing to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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