weirdoku Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Buy her some chocolates you goon. Chocolates is a stupid thing to give for a bday present! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Socks and underpants. Rings are expensive, if she's not giving a shit about you, you sure as hell give her the same back. Technically that means you get her f**k all, but it's her birthday, so special rules apply. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Socks and underpants. Rings are expensive, if she's not giving a shit about you, you sure as hell give her the same back. Technically that means you get her f**k all, but it's her birthday, so special rules apply. She's got enough of those! The ring isn't that expensive, I think anyway, not for a bday present. She isn't not giving a shit about me, she just wants to be alone for a bit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 HELLO I HEARD YOU WANT TO BE ALONE SO I GOT YOU A RING SO YOU CAN ALWAYS THINK OF ME AND THEN YOU WON'T BE ALO- 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Yeah, be stupid and buy something expensive for some hole you're losing with. Clever. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 And yet again I'm back chatting with my ex. Why is it that when I'm drunk I always text her? Only sent her a text sayiing happy new year but now we're chatting About stuff. Mehhh. I must be desperate. She is kinda hot though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 And yet again I'm back chatting with my ex. Why is it that when I'm drunk I always text her? Only sent her a text sayiing happy new year but now we're chatting About stuff. Mehhh. I must be desperate. She is kinda hot though. Your post reeks of "I don't want to be with this girl but I like the attention". Been there, done that. You split for a reason, and nothing about that split is going to change. You know that, and we know that. That's kind of why you're posting it on TF. You already know the answer to the question you haven't asked, so act on it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 I've been completely f**ked with. Will post later why. f**k sake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 I've been completely f**ked with. Will post later why. f**k sake. You bought her a ring and she told you to shove it and get the hints? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 You bought her a ring and she told you to shove it and get the hints? Nope, haven't even brought it yet. But we've been talking, though every time I tried to talk to her she says not now etc etc but I made her listen. Simply, we are finished. Partly my fault and she still loves her ex, so much that she wants to be with him again even though he has treated her like absolute shit, was violent towards her several times. She has been talking on the phone with him in the last two days and she says he's going through counselling and has stopped drinking/drugs and have changed. I always kinda knew she would go back to him if he had changed and now that he has, I'm certain that she will. They not together together, just started talking again but as far as I know she will. She also says she'll leave him if he ever touched any drugs again, I'm not so sure about that though. I just told her that if he really has changed then that's good, if being with him makes her happy then go ahead. I just can't hang on to her anymore, I've got my dissertation to get on with and I will fail my last year if I keep on hanging on. Obviously I still care about her a lot and she does for me too and we have agreed to just be good friends, like how we was before we was together. To be honest, it kinda worked better that way. I will miss the extra closeness that we had when we was together but at least we are still good friends, which I'm fine with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Thats the biggest lie any man has ever told, ever. Believe it or not, but I am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted January 1, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 LIES!! LIES AND PROPAGANDA!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Yeah JD you're probably right. Might delete her from my phonebook. Infact yeah, I'm going to now, new years resolution, not regretting my actions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted January 3, 2011 Report Share Posted January 3, 2011 So, my problem is a lot less crappy than most of yours, but I'd still appreciate some tipps.. So I've now been chatting with a girl, whom I fancy pretty much (If not more ) and I know that she actually also quite likes me. Any idiot proof questions to find out how much she cares for me, and if she's interessted in being together with me would please me very much! (obviously not too obvious ones) I mean, sure I could ask it straight forward etc. but I like her too much to make her pissed off or something (One never knows with those women i guess ) Just something that can give me a better idea of how she thinks about me. All I know is that we really get on quite well together. Which, basicly, is a good start. Now I know it's actually kinda a stupid, if not even childish, question to ask etc. -.-' Now don't flame on me or something, no one will wan't me with burnmarks Edit: I hope you can spot the question in there. Don't want to re-write everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 3, 2011 Report Share Posted January 3, 2011 So, my problem is a lot less crappy than most of yours, but I'd still appreciate some tipps.. So I've now been chatting with a girl, whom I fancy pretty much (If not more ) and I know that she actually also quite likes me. Any idiot proof questions to find out how much she cares for me, and if she's interessted in being together with me would please me very much! (obviously not too obvious ones) I mean, sure I could ask it straight forward etc. but I like her too much to make her pissed off or something (One never knows with those women i guess ) Just something that can give me a better idea of how she thinks about me. All I know is that we really get on quite well together. Which, basicly, is a good start. Now I know it's actually kinda a stupid, if not even childish, question to ask etc. -.-' Now don't flame on me or something, no one will wan't me with burnmarks Edit: I hope you can spot the question in there. Don't want to re-write everything. Just ask her if she'd like to go for a drink or would like to have a meal somewhere. Don't steam in there and say "Do you like me?" - go out for some drinks, then at the end of the night tell her you like her and ask if she wants to hook up again. She'll either say "Yeah that'd be great!" meaning game on, or she'll say "Well, yeah but I just want to be friends" which is still alright really, but means you'll not be getting any of that sweet poontang. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted January 4, 2011 Report Share Posted January 4, 2011 This thread continues to provide hours of entertainment! Thanks again everyone for all your contributions. I really can't wait for the Valentine's Day edition, and subsequent fall-out. Hell, you should all make a little video diary on that special day, and post them up! Best one wins a crate of painkillers and a bottle of scotch! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
club_card Posted January 5, 2011 Report Share Posted January 5, 2011 My morethanaf**kbudybutnotquiteagirlfriendyet is coming to see me this weekend but shes probably going to have her period, shower sex it is then. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 5, 2011 Report Share Posted January 5, 2011 My morethanaf**kbudybutnotquiteagirlfriendyet is coming to see me this weekend but shes probably going to have her period, shower sex it is then. That's not an Agony Aunt situation, that's a motherf**king opportunity. Dirt track. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted January 5, 2011 Report Share Posted January 5, 2011 I'm in a bind. My ex of two years ago whom I still love despite my best efforts to drop her from mind contacted me today over facebook. It's been over a year since we last spoke. Anyway, when she found out I'm in Swindon she asked me over for a cup of tea. I'm thinking I could either do that or I may have to explain that I can't handle interacting with her because of the thought that she has no romantic interest in me. I'm pretty sure that's the case but that part of me that stills feels for her wants to believe that she wants something more. I'm guessing she can't be with that guy anymore if she's asking me over when he would be at work. The story is though that she was f**king callus toward me. Dumping me for somebody she didn't know that well, initiating it by text and doing it two weeks before my 3 month meditation retreat that I had been looking forward to for about 3 years and couldn't go on because of how much I hurt. Although she was obviously upset to a degree her actions seemed exceedingly selfish and harsh. Yet she's the only one I've ever been with that I would say I loved. My relationship with her was very meaningful even though it was often strained. I often struggle to make connections with people because of my less conventional ways of thinking and being but this wasn't so with her. It was also in part my fault for her leaving me (not the style mind). These are faults I've worked on since then however. But then she also had things about her which caused our relationship problems. I think I will have to say no and disconnect from her again. I dunno though, it seems like it might worth pursuing. I'm in a daze at the moment to be honest. I think if I knew of a good likelihood I would find another female to connect with to that degree I would be fine just putting up with loving her and giving up but all my other relationships have fallen significantly short. Yeah they were nice to look at and poke but it gets boring when they don't really understand what you're going on about or you have hide certain views because you know they can't handle having theirs threatened. ARgh. Help? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 (edited) My ex of also two years did a very simiiar thing to me (though not quite as severe). She basically knew how I felt for her then left me to get with some twat. I was really really cut up about it and hated her for f**king ages. However, if she invited me round for ‘tea’ (which we all know stands for tits et ass anyway ) I'd say yes. I'd say yes just to be civil and at least speak to her, find out what she's been up to and just see what happens. Plus: Don't go: chances of getting some = 0% Do go: chances of getting some = 0 < 100% Edited January 6, 2011 by Bronz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 My ex of also two years did a very simiiar thing to me (though not quite as severe). She basically knew how I felt for her then left me to get with some twat. I was really really cut up about it and hated her for f**king ages. However, if she invited me round for ‘tea’ (which we all know stands for tits et ass anyway ) I'd say yes. I'd say yes just to be civil and at least speak to her, find out what she's been up to and just see what happens. Plus: Don't go: chances of getting some = 0% Do go: chances of getting some = 0 < 100% Excellent advice; thank you sir! I will indeed be going over. The mathematics has done it. And yeah, i also heard the chap she left me for was a knob that wears a suit to work when it's not required. Apparantly he's all about the $, drives a porsche, blah, blah, blah. I really hope when I go over I don't find out she's still with him Whatever though. Let's see what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 No worries dude. Best of luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Well that went badly and, if I'm honest with my self, I knew it was a bad idea. I think I posted that up on here to look for support in pursuing a girl whom I was fairly sure wasn't interested in me. It was awesome to see her and we got on really well but walking away knowing that we can only be friends hurts. Now I'm left with that empty feeling as though I've been dumped again by the only girl who's had a meaningful place in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Poor lad, but it was a bad idea, yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haydon_peter Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 I guess the good thing is at least you know for sure now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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