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Bahhhh !

I got really drunk the other week and told my mate that I shagged a bird who I didn't (N)

Silly thing to do but she's found out I said it and now she's not talking to me, it wouldn't really bother me but she's a really nice girl and I used to meet up with her quite allot.

I explained to her on MSN and stuff and tried to phone her up the other week and said I was sorry and stuff. But she hung up then blocked me on MSN, turns out her boyfriend (I didn't know she was taken!) goes to college with the guy I blagged it too and they had a bit of a falling out about it all.

She's not spoken to me for ages and I sent her a text today saying, "hope your alright, sorry for being a willy, I hope theres no hard feeling between us ? I've come clean to all the guys and said I was blagging it and I really didn't mean to offend you, I was just drunk :( I'd really appreciate it if you'd drop me a line to let me know your OK ? - J"

She just flashed up on MSN so I opened a box and said, "Hey ! Did you get my message ?" I saw the box change across to "is typing" and then she went offline :(

Now, what can I do to get her talking to me again ? I've done everything I can think of, and I don't want to look like a freak ! But she's been a great friend and I feel so great when I'm out and about with her, and I hate to loose that friendship. Because I'm a funny fanny I don't have a massive list of "friends" but I've got a couple of very good friends, and I'd like to class her as one. As apposed to counting my Christmas card list on one hand !

So what can I do guys ?

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I got really drunk the other week and told my mate that I shagged a bird who I didn't (N)

Serves you f**king right, best leaving it bud - youv'e royally f**ked things up with her and affected other friends arround you because you thought it would be funny to go, "yea *haha* I f**ked her" just to get some cheap high fives... nice

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You should make a future note to self..

When anyone asks you how many girls youv'e slept with only give the number for the girls you have actually slept with, and you would happily say it to her face. If not don't even bother counting it on your little pinkies.

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Bahhhh !

I got really drunk the other week and told my mate that I shagged a bird who I didn't (N)

Silly thing to do but she's found out I said it and now she's not talking to me, it wouldn't really bother me but she's a really nice girl and I used to meet up with her quite allot.

I explained to her on MSN and stuff and tried to phone her up the other week and said I was sorry and stuff. But she hung up then blocked me on MSN, turns out her boyfriend (I didn't know she was taken!) goes to college with the guy I blagged it too and they had a bit of a falling out about it all.

She's not spoken to me for ages and I sent her a text today saying, "hope your alright, sorry for being a willy, I hope theres no hard feeling between us ? I've come clean to all the guys and said I was blagging it and I really didn't mean to offend you, I was just drunk :( I'd really appreciate it if you'd drop me a line to let me know your OK ? - J"

She just flashed up on MSN so I opened a box and said, "Hey ! Did you get my message ?" I saw the box change across to "is typing" and then she went offline :(

Now, what can I do to get her talking to me again ? I've done everything I can think of, and I don't want to look like a freak ! But she's been a great friend and I feel so great when I'm out and about with her, and I hate to loose that friendship. Because I'm a funny fanny I don't have a massive list of "friends" but I've got a couple of very good friends, and I'd like to class her as one. As apposed to counting my Christmas card list on one hand !

So what can I do guys ?

Id give it time, Like 'adamtrials' said time should heal it.

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;)

Thing is, she's really nice. I've done well by her and she'd never do me a wrong turn, but I've f**ked shit up major style and I really need to sort things out with her. My dad thinks i'm fanny 101 because of it and he'll really give it the beans if I don't sort it with her. Also I do genuinely feel bad, when was the last time somebody told you they'd lied about shagging someone ? It's not the done thing, even if you didn't do it you don't admit to lying about it ! But I need to sort this now, I might go round her gaff tomorrow and see if theres anything I can say. Unless you geezrs' have got some advice.

And cheers for being diplomatic Simps (Y):)

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And cheers for being diplomatic Simps (Y):)

Not being funny but I really dislike people like you. What posessed you to say it in the first place?

There is no reasonable comeback, nothing you can do to make it up. Unless you find a way of actually f**king her, thus making you not a lying b*****d, but i think that this option is unlikley.

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Not being funny but I really dislike people like you. What posessed you to say it in the first place?

There is no reasonable comeback, nothing you can do to make it up. Unless you find a way of actually f**king her, thus making you not a lying b*****d, but i think that this option is unlikley.

I know, it's nearly the stupidest thing i've ever done. It just seemed "cool" at the time, but literally the second I said it I started the back peddling but unfortunately I said it within earshot of the wrong people. The guy I said it to knew there was no way I could have f**ked her because she's got a BF and she's straight as a dye, but the shit digging cocks from college were hanging about as well and escalated it. I could have easily said they were lying about it and that I didn't say anything, but two wrongs don't make a right and all :(

I can't believe I let a a few cool points f**k up a really good friendship (N)

So no advice on what I can do to start sorting it out ?

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So no advice on what I can do to start sorting it out ?

Yea as others have said just let it slide and leave it alone. It might go pretty far having a word with the bf though, you will either get a punch, or an acceptance of your apology, most blokes find that once somethings been out in the open after that they can get over it. Like my mate telling me that my ex gf had given him head at a party, but for me that was cool because it showed he was more of a mate that he had the courage to stand in front of me and say, look mate, and explained it all... so for the bloke your best off doing that, which will ease some of the tension between you and the girl.

Just leave her, women won't get over that type of disrespect, because she will see it as "He's trying to make me out to be a massive slag when I haven't done anything wrong, and I don't care if he was drunk or not" so you can't really make that up anyhow.

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