Walleee Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 I'm 19 now and think that is a proper age to get into a serious relationship.And you're probably one of those people who'll get to 35 and think, "Yes, I'm 35 now, so I should be getting married."Age should have f**k all to do with it*.(*as long as it's all legal) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 What the f**k. She went off round to this other guys place after saying she still loves you.I was going to post this but I dont want to becombe a "f**k her man" person when it comes to girls, as i do belive that sometimes people need second chances. But running straight round another guys house and staying there so they can f**k each others brain out, (which she couldn't do while she was still with you) and then telling you blatently rubbing it in your face like, "look what you made me do, and then telling you she still loves you? f**k her man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Sorry I can't respond to the posts people made now, I will tomorrow..Going to pick her up from the station in 30min, so nervous. Have been crying non stop the last hour since her phone was off.Yea I'm a pussy. Wonder how it will all go, I'll note it here as soon as I canThanks for all the support. Sorry if you think this is the wrong thing, I just have to do this for myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Thanks for all the support. Sorry if you think this is the wrong thing, I just have to do this for myself.As mystic meg I will make a prediction. - You will have a nice talk- Sleep together- predend everythings alright while having crushing doubts- Try to make a go of it and inevitibly failSorry dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 I know "man up" is over used on here, but you honestly need to dude.You're 19, there's plenty of other girls out there and you shouldn't be so worried about settling down. If she wants this other guy, let her have him. Go out with your mates, sample some other girls and wait for the right one!There's no time limit on getting with someone that's right and you're causing yourself unneeded pain!As difficult as it is, you need to just ignore her calls and not contact her - make her realise what she's lost and move on with your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom_ Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 Yea man, about a year ago I got really really hung up on this girl. I look back now and think what a dick I was. It made my life pretty shit because I was dwelling on it so much (I blame hormones, I was 16 at the time) I have promised myself I wont let myself get like that again, Im currently having a really good time, just meeting new people and getting on with life. I know its hard (plenty of people told me this a year or 2 ago) but seriously I would recommend "manning up" and trying to get on with your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Towler Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 As mystic meg I will make a prediction. - You will have a nice talk- Sleep together- predend everythings alright while having crushing doubts- start thinking she is cheating on you with the guy she slept with... or others- Try to make a go of it and inevitibly failSorry dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tris Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 I do want to talk, but she is still at the guys house, even though she promised to come first thing this morning.Whenever she needed my help, I would be there if she would just snap her fingers. She sometimes called me at 4am, and I would just pick her up immediatly, even if I had school the next day.@has anyone seen my shoeAnd I know we´ve broken up, I actually was the one who made the decision. But even yesterday she texted me that she misses me and loves me, and I was still thinking of getting back with her, just needed some time as I've told her. And then the same day she sleeps with the first guy she hangs around with.There's alot of "why's" going around in my head, I just don't understand why she would do such a thing.Sitting at home the whole day just thinkin about it all and visualising my ex and the guy doing stuff, can't get it off my mind. No energy to do anything since I haven't slept all night, so I don't have anything to distract me from nasty thoughts.In my experience and my personal opinion about 80% of girls from the age of about 15-20 just want to get around a bit. It's like a confidence thing, self esteem. They do it so they can prove to themselves that they can. Eventually they'll grow out of it but in the mean time they'll just want a few dicks in them (not meant derogatively). It's only after this that they realise what they really want.....So man, don't get hung up on it. It's really not worth it, f**k em. They do it to us, just do it back. Just have a laugh until the women your age have grown up and realised lifes not a competition of how much dick you can get. Then meet someone you really care about and u'll be stylin' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 To be honest, anyone who claims they're happy to run around after their missus at the click of a finger, I think isn't really telling the truth.I've had girlfriends that I ran around for - they've probably never had this before and don't like it at first, but they soon get into the swing of it and then demand all sorts of stupid shit. Sometimes its just easier to say yes than standing your ground to argue it.How the hell do you expect her to respect someone who's a push over? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Right, I'm off work soon taking a bird out somewhere during the day (10am - whenever).Any ideas? Something warm, relaxing and enjoyable...I really am stuck here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa Manual Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Is this the one whose father is sending you angry text messages? I'd be f**ked for somewhere to take someone during the day. Can't really think of something warm, relaxing and enjoyable that doesn't involve a jacuzzi, piano music or champagne (or a combination of all at the same time) at some point or other.Argh my post barely makes any sense. I should lay off on the school nights . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Is this the one whose father is sending you angry text messages? I'd be f**ked for somewhere to take someone during the day...Can't really think of something warm, relaxing and enjoyable that doesn't involved a jacuzzi, piano music or champagne.To be honest, I haven't got a clue...I got the text but no one answers the call, and no name was left - so I don't know if it's regarding her or not. If I'm honest, I couldn't care less, lol.I'm really stuck on ideas, thats pretty much what I thought Jon - but its rather awkward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa Manual Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 I guess you could take her for a nice meal if you're feeling flush. Wine and dine usually works, but it's a bit conventional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damon W Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 (edited) Girls are more hassle than they are worth. FACT. FACT! live by these wordsYesterday she met up with this guy she knows from msn, he is toally horny for her (can't blame him though, but still). And I went to a female friend. Nothing happend between me and the girl as I let my ex know, even though she was very suspicious of me. Texted the ex and 2am and she was still at the guys house, turned out that she did alot of stuff with him.Thing is, she could see it as a meaningless bit of fun and on the rebound, kind of a self esteam builder, or a way to get at u?.. either way, i know what ide do, iv do the same as her, things SEEM to be going sour (that isnt meant harsh, just realistic) if i was you id jus be single for abit, do the same as her and get youre dick wet for abit, iv learnt from experience, atleast as far as im concernd, if something like that happens, youle ALWAYS hold it against them, and be unsure of youre future together, best of cutting all ties and nobbin a few, will get you back in the land of the merry few good nights out, back into a good social life and youre sorted The only fast cure is to get another hot GF... Or maybe disfigure the other guys face?worked for me irrisponsible yes, but, helps your own 'karma' Edited January 26, 2009 by Damon W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 How many of you would want to be with a girl who had slept with at least 18 other guys and she was only 21?And if that situation was reversed? I know lads that have cheated on their girlfriend every single weekend with some other slag they picked up in town....meaning most have shagged over 20 girls at the age of 21.If you just want to be genuinely happy* with someone**, get a fat chick, they'll appriciate what they have*** and you'll be in perfect sync**** and have a happy relationship*****.*-probably misrable, **-/something, ***-won't have a choice, ****-she won't push her f**king luck with you, *****-maybe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tris Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damon W Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 If you just want to be genuinely happy* with someone**, get a fat chick, they'll appriciate what they have*** and you'll be in perfect sync**** and have a happy relationship*****.couldnt be more true thing with gurls is, the nice lookin ones, KNOW there nice from the amount of male attention they get, wich imo goes to there hed (ALL OF THEM) so they think they can take libertys against youslightly *lower market* gurls appreicciate things more, which is what you want, no use being gorgeous if there jus a bitch now isiti had a similar thing with my ex, she was a bitch to me, we argued, split up (we was gna get back together) then she started turning into mrs slaggypants, so i f**ked her off and got back onto the slag market best thing i ever did to be honestcan still have all the benifits of having a gf, (seeing them, company, sex) but no body to answer toand no exclusivity to one person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaffacakes Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 I met this hottie at a club on thursday, terns out I gave her my number. I completely forgot about it, until she phoned me this morning The only thing is I dont know her name. Anyone got a good stratergy for finding out, without sounding like a dick? I get the feeling she deliberatly didnt say it on the phone earlier. I dont really want to wait until she comes around to mine and say "Oh yea, whats your name again?"...And if that situation was reversed? I know lads that have cheated on their girlfriend every single weekend with some other slag they picked up in town....meaning most have shagged over 20 girls at the age of 21.If you just want to be genuinely happy* with someone**, get a fat chick, they'll appriciate what they have*** and you'll be in perfect sync**** and have a happy relationship*****.*-probably misrable, **-/something, ***-won't have a choice, ****-she won't push her f**king luck with you, *****-maybe.I could never fuck a fat chick, its disgusting. Not even when im smashed. Lifting up rolls, to stick it in, getting crushed when shes on top, and fat chicks are usually sweaty and smelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damon W Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 I met this hottie at a club on thursday, terns out I gave her my number. I completely forgot about it, until she phoned me this morning The only thing is I dont know her name. Anyone got a good stratergy for finding out, without sounding like a dick? I get the feeling she deliberatly didnt say it on the phone earlier. I dont really want to wait until she comes around to mine and say "Oh yea, whats your name again?"...ask her her email address to add her on myspace/facebook all the info a man needs on there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben John-Hynes Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 ask her her email address to add her on myspace/facebook all the info a man needs on thereI get the feeling you've done this before... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Shucksmith Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Ask her what name you should save her number as on your phone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaffacakes Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 ask her her email address to add her on myspace/facebook all the info a man needs on thereHaha, thats not a bad plan. I'll have to phone her back in a few hours and ask, since she left it 3 days Ask her what name you should save her number as on your phone Thats all well and good when you first meet someone, but she'll just say something like "What do you you think?". Then I'll be f**ked Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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