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Right ok... i just put the last nail in the coffin, found out she went round some other kids house she liked so sent her this....

"Hey i really like don't know what to say right now, you know that i like you but i feel like its all way too complicated. I mean, i know your round Joes now and to me that just feels wrong, knowing that you were cuddled up to me this time last night.

I'm not going to even try an force a "its him or me" cos' that just isn't my style at all. I mean if you want to be with him then i just really hope your happy and he treats you well. If you get me. but i don't really want to be being dragged along as a 3rd wheel.

I think maybe it might be easier if i give you and Joe some room for now. I don't really know you all that well right now and i don't want to propper fall for you when there isn't a chance of us being together.... Im sounding like a total drama queen but its just how i feel.

I mean, usually seeing a girl just doesn't make me feel like, how i feel everytime i see you. an i don't really want to think about what you an him are up to right now.

I know ive got way too carryed away with this whole "us" concept when really nothings happened. But. meh.

xXx"

Am i a total fag? Damm i think i am..... gonna regret that in the morning

Bah i know how you feel, i ditched seeing this girl about a month ago because this girl ive wanted for ages finally plucked up and said she wanted to start seeing me

Now ive been seeing her a few weeks, but it only seems to be like once a week when she picks me up after work and we go somewhere, i try and ask her out any other day of the week and its either "oh ive had a busy day" or "maybe some other time" or she will just change the subject and we only seem to either go out somewhere or go back to mine, never to hers

She then tells me that she is going to some kinda ball at the university this saturday with a 'friend', although she dont know anyone else there

So she's either seeing some other guy at the moment, even though she says that she isnt, but its just kinda odd that she never seems to want to go out, or just meet up for a bit, or maybe im just being paranoid

Yet when i do actually spend time with her shes amazing, i just dont get it, cant be dealing with this shit anyway, im usually one for not seeing a girl everysingle day of the week so i can go out with my mates, but i would like to see them more than once

What do you lot reckon?

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So i went on a date yesterday with the girl i picked up at the library.

Errrmmmm......it was OK, she seems a little shy, but has an AMAZING body, i got a hard on sitting next to her! BUT, her face is not so great - sort of an inconsistent pigmentation of the skin.....sounds a little harsh i know :(. I think she either has scars from spots of chicken pox or something.....but i'm not sure if make up covers it up, as it was kinda on show yesterday.

I don't know.......am i being really fussy?

She is spending the night tomo and seems to have emotionally attached herself to me, but i only have 1 week left at uni :S bad timing. But then again i'm not amazing with women so maybe i should give it a shot.

Neil

Its just the face thing to be honest.......but my ex had things i hated, but i still loved her for it you know what i mean? What would you guys do?

Get in, get off, get out? I'm not that sort of guy really.........

EDIT - just needed to get it off my chest you know.

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youve answered your own question already neil. your at uni for 1 more week so keep it going till then, if you cant bare the face you dont ever need to see her again.

but if you get emotionally attatched to her as she has to you its all good from there

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A bit like when i 1st met 1 of my best mates, he has this funny brain like thing behind his ear, which i was like eeeewwww, but i dont think iv'e ever actually realised it since... if you get me. But with a gf id imagine its different although it sounds VERY harsh your gf does reflect you.

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Ask your self the question if you was out with her and was a couple would you be trying to avoid mates or people because of her or would you go up showing her off and bragging, And that would answer your question as if your asking a forum about that sort of thing it sounds like you might be abit concious of being seen with her as you think its obvious and a nasty thing for her to have.

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neil you ugly b*****d, stop being so bloody mean! if shes a nice girl, turn the lights off. i doubt you'll complain then.

on a more serious note, i saw my gf for the first time in almost 3 months. she's been in hospital and a recovery centre with bulimia. so shes only been out for 2 weeks. we've been tlaking almost every day in that time and its been pretty up and down, understandbly. so shes competing at a horse trial over this weekend just down the road and we saw each other for the first time since everything, only for 15 minutes. it was ridiculously nervous, she almost seemed scared. i'm not expecting for everything to fall back into place as it was, but she was hiding under her fringe from me, so nervous and shy. was kinda un-nerving, the girl you love and who has been and still does profess to love you appears to almost be scared.

i feel like shes going to turn around and at any moment say shes doesnt want this and i'm gonna look a twat for waiting 4 months for something that was never going to work. i mean i dont know what to do. do i wait around and see? do i finish it before i get made a fool of? it just all seems so inevitable and i hate it. i mean i'm very insecure and always expect the worse; thats just me and my mental state. but am i ridiculous for waiting or have i dont he right thing? i love the girl so damn much its scary and she makes me stupidly happy, i just want to do the same for her..... and right now i dont know if she wants me to.

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neil you ugly b*****d, stop being so bloody mean! if shes a nice girl, turn the lights off. i doubt you'll complain then.

on a more serious note, i saw my gf for the first time in almost 3 months. she's been in hospital and a recovery centre with bulimia. so shes only been out for 2 weeks. we've been tlaking almost every day in that time and its been pretty up and down, understandbly. so shes competing at a horse trial over this weekend just down the road and we saw each other for the first time since everything, only for 15 minutes. it was ridiculously nervous, she almost seemed scared. i'm not expecting for everything to fall back into place as it was, but she was hiding under her fringe from me, so nervous and shy. was kinda un-nerving, the girl you love and who has been and still does profess to love you appears to almost be scared.

i feel like shes going to turn around and at any moment say shes doesnt want this and i'm gonna look a twat for waiting 4 months for something that was never going to work. i mean i dont know what to do. do i wait around and see? do i finish it before i get made a fool of? it just all seems so inevitable and i hate it. i mean i'm very insecure and always expect the worse; thats just me and my mental state. but am i ridiculous for waiting or have i dont he right thing? i love the girl so damn much its scary and she makes me stupidly happy, i just want to do the same for her..... and right now i dont know if she wants me to.

its all kinda irrelevant now, she finished with me. oh well. sucks cant even ride to take my mind off of it.

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Really wanted a girl for ages, but now I can have her it kinda puts me off. It's so selfish I know, but I just enjoy that feeling of meeting someone new and being a bit exciting. When you can have someone that feeling goes so you wanna move on again. I know it's wrong really but mehh, only one life 'n all...

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Woo I can actually post something relevant to this topic.

So I'm currently seeing a girl, okay to make things simpler, I'll refer to myself as "T" and the girl and "Girl 1"

Boy 1 really likes and wants to meet with Girl 1, but she can't/doesn't want to, and had already planned to see T.

Boy 2 then finds Girl 1 with T, and then goes on to tell Girl 2, so news then soon gets to Boy 1.

Umn, logical explanation why Girl 1 can see T as a mate, but not Boy 1?

Haha.

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Woo I can actually post something relevant to this topic.

So I'm currently seeing a girl, okay to make things simpler, I'll refer to myself as "T" and the girl and "Girl 1"

Boy 1 really likes and wants to meet with Girl 1, but she can't/doesn't want to, and had already planned to see T.

Boy 2 then finds Girl 1 with T, and then goes on to tell Girl 2, so news then soon gets to Boy 1.

Umn, logical explanation why Girl 1 can see T as a mate, but not Boy 1?

Haha.

I cant stop laughing at your avatar. :lol: :lol:

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My ex randomly emailed me asking me what she did wrong cos she thinks i cheated on her cos i got so close with another girl just after we split up

ne way, its stupid, she knows it was nothing to do with her im the reason we split up :S

nobody has to care about this but i felt the need to post somthing.

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urmmm well my girlfriend had a go at me cus she found out i spent like 100quid on a watch for her, she went balistic and told me basically because she feels like i spend to much money on her we shouldnt see each other. sigh.

i just left her to it ignored her for the rest of the day didnt talk to her or nothing and she came creaping back. i just dont know if i am doing the write thing by accepting her apologie for it all and accepting her again.

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Really wanted a girl for ages, but now I can have her it kinda puts me off. It's so selfish I know, but I just enjoy that feeling of meeting someone new and being a bit exciting. When you can have someone that feeling goes so you wanna move on again. I know it's wrong really but mehh, only one life 'n all...

I've been in that position before too

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