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P.S. The other guys are telling you to move on, and rightly so but you realise that you dont have to have a girlfriend dont you.

That isn't as stupid as it sounds. Up intill a few days ago i was like what if i loose Ellie for good, who will i go out with.

Then i realized wait i don't HAVE to have a gf after for a long time.

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ok i kinda like 2 girls atm, i got with girl 1 last friday (2 weekends ago) and got with girl 2 the saturday just been. i didnt go further than 2nd with both of them but neither of them were 'sneaky pull' sorta things, they were both lasting a few hours.

on monday girl 2 texted me saying she was sorry if she made it awkward on sunday morning ( i told her mate i thought it was awkward afterwards) and i text back basically saying 'dw, its just i really like you and it kinda felt like id ruined it, i just got a bit worried lol' and she said ''yeh really like you to, i didnt even realise it was awkward. you havent ruined anything dw'' so that was all good, would of propably asked her out last time i saw her.

butt then girl 1 came round my house on monday night, and we had sex. wasnt meant to happen it just did. and i feel REALLLY REALLLY bad on girl 2, because id just told her i like her and then went and got with someone else straight away?

thing is i reallly like both of them, the original plan was to decide in half term because i only thought one of them was going away but turns out both are so ill never be able to make my mind up.

So basicallllly, would it be better to made a rash (potentially rong) decision and avoid leading any one on anymore..or take longer but get accused of leading them both on/messing them around?

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So basicallllly, would it be better to made a rash (potentially rong) decision and avoid leading any one on anymore..or take longer but get accused of leading them both on/messing them around?

Kinda same thing here..... seeing 1 girl friday and monday..... then going away with another girl wednesday - friday.... and they both me loads to me... and know im seeing them both.... but i hate making decisions!!!!!

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Ahh man, shit's long :(

Theres a girl i've been on for a while, she came round mine a week an a half ago or summat when i had a little gathering, and i got with her that night. We've been texting and stuff ever since and i was kinda on the brink of asking her out.

But one of my best mates met her for the first time that night, an they chatted on myspace a bit. An recently just became real close ringing each other an stuff, i asked if he was on her and he said 'i would be but i know you are and your a good mate so won't do anything' kinda thing. But i'm afraid she likes him :( Shes a bit flirty around him an stuff an chats to him alot but i have no idea. I dunno what to think.

I'm not angry at him or anything at all, he's been good about it and has been a close mate for a long time, but just not sure what to do, how to make her know i like her etc.

She also goes away from tomorrow till next thursday.

Tempted to just ask her if she wants to go for a walk tonight (she lives close) and tell her what i think of her, but i dunno what she'll say and if its worth putting in more ground work first, but i'm scared if i leave it too long she'll just get with someone else (plenty of boys would).

Help me trials forum :( (LMAO!)

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Do it man, you got nothing to lose, obviously your mate isnt gonna do anything so thats all good, and if shes going away tomorrow youll have a week away from her to get over it if it all f**ks up.

DO IT.

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Do it man, you got nothing to lose, obviously your mate isnt gonna do anything so thats all good, and if shes going away tomorrow youll have a week away from her to get over it if it all f**ks up.

DO IT.

Just text her an she cant come out cos of hols tomorow :( Talking to her on MSN now, is tempting to say it there but would just rather do it in person.

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just found out that my girlfriend wasn't in love with me anymore since end august, awesome :unsure:

My feelings for her were going away aswell since I never see her again, but it still kind off hurts

My own fault for touching an other girls boobies... I feel so sorry because I really upset her with that :(

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just found out that my girlfriend wasn't in love with me anymore since end august, awesome :unsure:

My feelings for her were going away aswell since I never see her again, but it still kind off hurts

My own fault for touching an other girls boobies... I feel so sorry because I really upset her with that :(

:lol: nicely done

don't feel bad, sounds like it's all amicable and you got to touch another girl's boobies.

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:lol: nicely done

don't feel bad, sounds like it's all amicable and you got to touch another girl's boobies.

I do feel sorry, she would never hurt anyone like that :(

Sorry but i'm just a very soft emotional guy sometimes :unsure:

Never thought i'd say this, but I regret touching boobies

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f**k!!,,, right been getting close with this one girl (girl 1), she digs me everything is sweet, Pretty much over the ex so everything is cool, see the ex (ex) a couple of days ago brings back emotions so i text her a few thoughts and things thinking nothing of it, with girl 1 tonight she's on my phone looking through music and that, i go off to see my cousin over the road for about 10 mins when i get back to her she's off with me, straight away i know whats up, i finally get it out of her and she says she isnt bothered, but obliviously is. I really like her and wanna forget the ex, HOW HOW HOW! do i dig myself out of this one?

Adam

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f**k!!,,, right been getting close with this one girl (girl 1), she digs me everything is sweet, Pretty much over the ex so everything is cool, see the ex (ex) a couple of days ago brings back emotions so i text her a few thoughts and things thinking nothing of it, with girl 1 tonight she's on my phone looking through music and that, i go off to see my cousin over the road for about 10 mins when i get back to her she's off with me, straight away i know whats up, i finally get it out of her and she says she isnt bothered, but obliviously is. I really like her and wanna forget the ex, HOW HOW HOW! do i dig myself out of this one?

Adam

if i was in your position i'd either ...

1.delete your ex's phone number in front of girl 1 and say its over and i wanna be with u or summit along them lines

or

2.wait for poopipes surgestion and go with whatever he says

goodluck,steve

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Just say you were saying you still waned to be mates etc etc. Are you still mates with ur ex?.

Or do what steve and delete her number in front of her.

Being mates with your ex can have it bad points, I miss the little things we used to do. hug, cuddle, just be close to eachother watching a film. I felt myself infront of her. I cnt really say I'm over her 'cause in not. I just wana have someone to filll the void. Shes still my best mate, I can tell her anything. But she said something to me the other week which f**ked me up. I'll qoute her "I don't want you, But I dont want anyone else to have you"

Since we havent been going out for sometime, I've been "texting" a few lasses, and as soon as she find out about them she goes off on one.

I'd have her back, I stilll love her and that.

What do I do? leave her be? I no if i ask her back out she'll say no. Or should I say I dont want to be mates??

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Move on mate. She's interested but also seeing if she can do better with other lads. If that makes sense. Don't ruin your friendship, just like lower the tone down and slowly reduce the amount you talk to her.

It's a ball ache at the start but you'll find it a lot easier in the long run.

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