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i thought since i been feeling down lately for a while i would make a thread as im not angry or happy.

dont post saying ha ha gutted or nothign like that just give support

if this works then good if not then dnt matter ill just sulk.

but to start it off i split up with my gf was with her year n 4 months :( loved her to bits n now it so hard having to finish it because arguments constantly n just rather being with mates. speaking to her now on msn brings tears to my eyes knowing she there but i cant have her or her hugs or anything liek that :(

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I say it's a good idea :)

Just been downstairs....and mum is going off on one :(

"your a lazy little sod, what have you done all school holidays"?

Well Mum, i've been out with my mates, my girlfriend, pretty much what a kid does in his school holidays?

Looking after my sister every single day till at least 1 o' clock, which isn't nice :(

now all i can hear is her ranting off about me to my dad (N)

Sucks

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but to start it off i split up with my gf was with her year n 4 months :( loved her to bits n now it so hard having to finish it because arguments constantly n just rather being with mates. speaking to her now on msn brings tears to my eyes knowing she there but i cant have her or her hugs or anything liek that :(

much love from PaRtZ ({)(})

these things suck, just takes time :(

I think I should be feeling down, I don't have much going for me, but to be honest I don't care lol

WOOO FAILURE! :D

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A friend making topic :o:o

This may sound crap but if she left you, shes not worth the hustle. In most cases its the women which want to split up in the first place. IMO just don't argue with her. Trials (or any other passion if you have one) should keep your mind off it. It did in my case, whenever I was feeling down. Try some moves you couldn't do, prove to yourself that you are a good rider etc. Study more if you're still at school... Of course it's easy to say all these things but from past experience I know that this might work.

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i thought since i been feeling down lately for a while i would make a thread as im not angry or happy.

dont post saying ha ha gutted or nothign like that just give support

if this works then good if not then dnt matter ill just sulk.

but to start it off i split up with my gf was with her year n 4 months :( loved her to bits n now it so hard having to finish it because arguments constantly n just rather being with mates. speaking to her now on msn brings tears to my eyes knowing she there but i cant have her or her hugs or anything liek that :(

I know how you feel mate. I split up over a year ago now under same circumstances, and after a bit i wanted her back because I just couldnt deal with it. But she, being a fit bird, had other lads after her and didnt want it, so I HAD to deal with it. It's not a fast process, but i look back now, and am so happy that I got out of the relationship that wasn't working! :D

In other words mate, it'll all be ok!

Trust me, everyone's the same (Y)

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Good thread.

Ah well don't worry about it Mike, thing's usually tern out ok. Just think positive.

'Least you will have a new front disk a few days :)

St Ives is packed with people on holiday at the moment, you cant even get moved. The worst part is they thing they own the town, we were riding this wall and someone just came and sat on it then had the cheek to tell us off for riding it... I wasn't best pleased :P

Also when we ride our rocks by the beach we have a big group (50 or so people) just staring at us from the cliff.

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It's normal to be sad after a relationship breaks up and you'd be weird if it didn't happen and there ain't many ways of getting over it, except what someone said, work hard, ride hard, play music loud, will make you feel happy/happier. Just speak to her normal, or be abit harsh, then if she IS worth the hasstle, she'll come back, if she ain't then she'll slip away and you'll forget her but a memory. Good luck, hard times.

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Old people get me down.

Today me and my mate were riding in town, on the road. Suddenly this old lady just walks out right in front of him without looking and has the cheek to moan at him. Annoyed me no end.

Also in my grans flats the other day. Mum and my sister walked past a lady she said hi to both of them, completely ignored me.

Obviously not all old people are the same but they complain about us youths. Just gets me worked up. :angry:

This should probably go in the angry thread but here will do.

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I was in a relationship once :o haha but yeah after a while I felt I didn't want to be with her anymore and so I ended it. Still good mates with her and at times I think back and remember the good times and want to get back with her but then I remember why I ended it. But now I've met a new girl and she's nice and hopefully things will go well with her and develop.

On another note though... My Grandads on the verge of dying :( Been in a home the last two years and took a bad turn a few weeks back and we thought he was going to go then as the doctor said prepare yaself. The hardest thing for me was when mum got off the phone from my dad and he told her and she told me and my brother and she started crying and then so did my brother who's older than me (I'm the baby of the family) and that was hard as it was the first time I'd ever seen them cry. Then Grandad seemed to be getting better but taken a turn again and its only a matter of hours now. I came home from college today and sis said that my dad had cried and again first time I've ever heard of my dad crying so meh I dunno. Dunno how I'm going to feel when the time finally comes as its the first time I'd have lost someone close to me, Plus he is the only grandparent I've had as my two nans and other grandad died before I was born. :(

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i thought since i been feeling down lately for a while i would make a thread as im not angry or happy.

dont post saying ha ha gutted or nothign like that just give support

if this works then good if not then dnt matter ill just sulk.

but to start it off i split up with my gf was with her year n 4 months loved her to bits n now it so hard having to finish it because arguments constantly n just rather being with mates. speaking to her now on msn brings tears to my eyes knowing she there but i cant have her or her hugs or anything liek that

The same happened to me although my relationship lasted 2 months .I couldnt stop thinking about her kissing lads at a party (she ditched me so she could kiss with lads at a party she was going to,resulting in her losing friends :turned: )As you could imagine i wasnt really down as such because i was so annoyed that she would do such a thing,and doing it the same day as the party is just mean.We had a good night the night before too and she was saying how much she loved me,vise versa.You'll get over it,just get riding your bike and put some loud and fast music on and itll put a smile on your face,hopefully.Its worked for me.

much love from PaRtZ ({)(})

these things suck, just takes time

I think I should be feeling down, I don't have much going for me, but to be honest I don't care lol

WOOO FAILURE! :D

LMAO

I was in a relationship once :o haha but yeah after a while I felt I didn't want to be with her anymore and so I ended it. Still good mates with her and at times I think back and remember the good times and want to get back with her but then I remember why I ended it. But now I've met a new girl and she's nice and hopefully things will go well with her and develop.

On another note though... My Grandads on the verge of dying Been in a home the last two years and took a bad turn a few weeks back and we thought he was going to go then as the doctor said prepare yaself. The hardest thing for me was when mum got off the phone from my dad and he told her and she told me and my brother and she started crying and then so did my brother who's older than me (I'm the baby of the family) and that was hard as it was the first time I'd ever seen them cry. Then Grandad seemed to be getting better but taken a turn again and its only a matter of hours now. I came home from college today and sis said that my dad had cried and again first time I've ever heard of my dad crying so meh I dunno. Dunno how I'm going to feel when the time finally comes as its the first time I'd have lost someone close to me, Plus he is the only grandparent I've had as my two nans and other grandad died before I was born.

Yeah once my dad had a arguement with his girlfriend and she changed the locks on the house (what a stupid bitch,he did f*** all) so he couldnt get in.He didnt tell no-one and he just slept in his van outside my mums house.The next day he told me the whole of the story (in the garage) and he started crying : and id never seen him cry before which was sad and i was sort of laughing in tears(because id never seen him cry,well weird) Anyway he moved back in with me and my mum for a while and then his girlfriend asked him to move back in after she finished with her boyfriend (1 month relationship,go her!)And since then he must have been chucked out about 6 times and hes still living with her.Its all because he takes me on my motobikes over the weekend and doesnt go to the seaside or walking with her(really fun like :turned: )He plans to by a house of his own and i can live with him and have about 10 bikes in the kitchen lol (literally)there 4 in my mums kitchen :lol: ) So all is good now :)

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if this works then good if not then dnt matter ill just sulk.

but to start it off i split up with my gf was with her year n 4 months :( loved her to bits n now it so hard having to finish it because arguments constantly n just rather being with mates. speaking to her now on msn brings tears to my eyes knowing she there but i cant have her or her hugs or anything liek that :(

Aye. I'm in the same situation, and I have before because I was stupid enough to take her back, and I never learn my lesson. I don't know, If she offered to come back, I'd say yes...just because the thought of her with someone else would kill me, so if saying yes means I have her with me again its worth it.

Anyway, she gave me the 'lets be friends' bollocks, I don't mean to depress you mate, but It will make things worse, I tried that before and when you go to kiss her or something and then you just 'remember' and have to pull yourself away its the most difficult thing ever.

You're probably just better off without, go out with your mates, get hammered, pick up some girl. Have fun. At least now you can ride to your hearts content without being nagged out.

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LOL, i love this thread, we have all turned hippy-ish :ermm:

Spread the love.... :-

But yea, i had the same thing a while back, but my gf finished with me and strung me along for about 2 months saying that we would get back togther, and me being me believed her. After about 2 months, she said that i might aswell move on. So i tried and i tried but couldnt, all the time she was stringing me aloing and i fell for it, hook line and sinker.

But now i hate her, i dont want to risk trusting a girl again if she is just going to string me along...tis b*llocks..So im staying away from the relationship side of things, and just have random flings in church car parks....And if paul reads this, BRING ON ZACS PARTY!! WERE SO GETTING LAID! HAHA!

From Lee

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on a serious note dont forget, you always have your health which is a blessing. You don't have a disability which imo would make life so much more difficult, yet there are people who have disabilities who refuse to give up despite any challenges they face

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who refuse to give up despite any challenges they face

Do you work for Scope?

Its true though, grass isn't always greener on t'other side. I have to smile when I read on here that people are shitting themselves because they owed coursework from 2 years ago and they couldn't be bothered to do it.

It's just the tiniest, most insignificant peice of paper...yet it might alter your life if you fail/pass it. I've always wanted to do something to change my shitty day-to-day routine, something like never lie or say yes to everything...which I might start.

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I feel like shit. Work's rubbish, I don't enjoy it much or get paid enough, or can work enough hours.

Taken off the Mini insurance so I won't be driving a car for, um, ages.

Motorbike needs petrol and I've no money. At all.

I'm in £1700 debt, with not much of a way to pay it back.

I feel like shit.

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haha

I just about work for morrisons (Y)

lmao, shit hot. (Y)

"Scope...Why do they have to change the name and ruin it? Its like with The Consignia and scope - its the post office and the spastics society!" Quote Alan Partridge

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Duh?

Its like saying a thread called "Your latest car jacking thread... Where chavs unite". :unsure:

or the web designer thread - where us geeks can get together and talk about pocket protectors :geek:

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