Synergy Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 ok here story i never used to drink much still do, gf always used to drink and whenever i go out drinking with her im sick after one and i feel sick / shite ebfore even leave house.i dont know why it is but we were meant to be at a wedding party but i got out car half way and walked home because i felt sick and she is up there with squadies.its totally pissing me of because i wanna be there but reason i want your help is maybe people on outside could see why im feeling like this and maybe it might help if i understand.ttly serious and thanks for your help and no stupid posts please Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hobnobs Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Nerves? Don't know why you may be nervous, but when i get nervous about anything, even small things i feel reeeeeally sick and crappy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synergy Posted March 31, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 cheers but i already thought that then i wondered why would i be nervouse and i still dont know. im great drinking with mates or that just dunno why not with her at parties. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biketrialler Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 dont drink if you cant handle it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomm Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 You're scared of doing something stupid? It's probably a valid fear, I do stupid stuff when I'm drunk and there are certain people that I wouldn't like to see me in that state... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinky Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 dont drink if you cant handle it?ping ping ping Otherwise some dickhead squaddie is gonna get his nob wet in your missus Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synergy Posted March 31, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 (edited) ping ping ping Otherwise some dickhead squaddie is gonna get his nob wet in your missuseh no i trust her and she wouldnt and i can handle drink justfeel shit when i go out with her before i even get their. Edited March 31, 2006 by Synergy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomturd Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 eh no i trust her and she wouldnt and i can handle drink just not when im with her.So if you know that something must have happened before... i'm guessing whatever it is is related to that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biketrialler Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Have you ever pulled anyone else (cheated) when youre drunk? Has she? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fruitbat Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 You are eating a proper meal before you go out with ur missus aint you.Also a tip i also found worked for me is have a glass of milk before you go out, it lines the inside of your stomach, reducing the chance of sickness.Best thing is go out with a laid back attitude and dont worry, when ur with m8's u aint thinking about the drink, your thinking about having a good time and relaxing, you need to do the same with your missus and her matesOr possibly the most sensible idea is stick to coke, yeah you will get some stick for it but just find an excuse or be honest, you aint in a drinking mood, chances are the people who rip into you will be flat out comotosed with liquor by the end of night......speaks for itself really.I used to be a fair heavy drinker and could handle plenty. Still drink a bit but not as much. Its the same with me, whenever im with a new crowd, ie work mates or g/f's family i tend to not to drink as much as i feel it hitting me quicker. might be cos im pacing myself and letting it hit me.P.S. none of her m8's are drugging you or date raping you are they. Only kidding Frooty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synergy Posted March 31, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 You are eating a proper meal before you go out with ur missus aint you.Also a tip i also found worked for me is have a glass of milk before you go out, it lines the inside of your stomach, reducing the chance of sickness.Best thing is go out with a laid back attitude and dont worry, when ur with m8's u aint thinking about the drink, your thinking about having a good time and relaxing, you need to do the same with your missus and her matesOr possibly the most sensible idea is stick to coke, yeah you will get some stick for it but just find an excuse or be honest, you aint in a drinking mood, chances are the people who rip into you will be flat out comotosed with liquor by the end of night......speaks for itself really.I used to be a fair heavy drinker and could handle plenty. Still drink a bit but not as much. Its the same with me, whenever im with a new crowd, ie work mates or g/f's family i tend to not to drink as much as i feel it hitting me quicker. might be cos im pacing myself and letting it hit me.P.S. none of her m8's are drugging you or date raping you are they. Only kidding Frootycheers think you might have nearlyu got it if not got it but mroe ideas would be good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomturd Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Also a tip i also found worked for me is have a glass of milk before you go out, it lines the inside of your stomach, reducing the chance of sickness.Not sure about the old milk thing? Stomach acid is pretty hardcore.. probably no match for a bit of milk. Plus the idea of a nice milky lining on the inside of your stomach just seems a bit far fetched to me cheers think you might have nearlyu got it if not got it but mroe ideas would be good.So if you know that something must have happened before... i'm guessing whatever it is is related to that?Have you ever pulled anyone else (cheated) when youre drunk? Has she? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synergy Posted March 31, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 nothings reall yhappened like that and no i havent cheated on her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trials_pimp Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Try a differnt drink perhapps??I know after 6/7 pints of beer I feel bloated and sometimes quite sick.So I usually have about 4 pints, then move on to Wiskey.Try having something else and see if it helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roozor Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 I've got IBS and cancer, i get the same kind of thing man. When i get nervous i need to crap lots, and occasionally when drinking i get like how you're describing. Maybe you're just getting nervous and it's being made worse by your head? psychosamatic i think.Just go to the docs and tell them, they'll sort you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onza Kieron Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Nerves? Don't know why you may be nervous, but when i get nervous about anything, even small things i feel reeeeeally sick and crappy.I strongly back this up right now as my GF is at a party that i couldnt be bothered to go to cos i needed to ride Im off to the angry thread... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The enchanted broomstick Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 It is a possibility that you could be embarrassed of being out with your girlfriend? Although you may not see any reason for that it could well be possible, for whatever reason i wouldnt know. It may be a good idea to plan a similar situation out again and take it step by step and see when this feeling starts occuring then you can trace back to what made it build up and hopefully nail the problem.Try writing a mini log book of the events on the build up, during and after? Analyse, replay it through your head and find out what's going on.stu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Cable Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 I think it could possibly be nerves. I once done something at a 6th form party that I regret to this day. Now i daren't drink.Its simply down to the fact that i dont want to look that silly infront of girls that I may be *aheming* with later on. At the 6th form party I got so bladdered that i fell down the stairs and had to be taken to hospital with alcohol poisoning. I also kissed a few girls that i hadn't planned on kissing earlier in the night, not that i was complaining though! Now I just go out, have a relaxing bath/shower before you I go out. Have a decent meal. I always get stick for only drinking coke. But I remember everything that happens in a night, whereas my friends dont. So i enjoy it more.Hope this helps you mate From Lee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ogre Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 I can't get drunk, i usually get light headed when i drink the same as my mates and there all well out of it. spose it's good in a way (fun memories of new year with me doing 180's on a kiddies bike) when i can remember everything he told me blackmail is fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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