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Sorry for the silly post, but i'm feeling very down, about 8 months ago i went out with this girl and she left me for my best mate, and then after that i forgave her for it because i really loved her, and me and her have been on and off with our relationship for a while now, and just as i thought we were going to get back together again, she told me she don't love me no more and shes trying to get one of my other mates! tried to take overdose but changed my mined, so i've drank some salt water, and i'm hoping for the best!

Thanks

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nick,you are 14 and you think you were in love with her,make your mind up,one minute your in love with one girl and then your in love with another. and you said you had a over doce last time, 2 day's later you looked perfectly normal to me.

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I understand you might feel devastated, but there is no point in doing damage to yourself as it just makes things worse (Y) Im sure if you see it through then you will be happy agin. Life is full of highs and lows, it may not seem like it but this may just be anothet low, and a high is around the corner :)

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He is right though! It IS a Trials Forum after all Not a "I'm sad, i've just fallen out with my lover" Forum.  (Y)

We had exactly the same type of thread in our members Chit-Chat section, no one bitched about it there, and in new members chat its all forum sections put into one so this thread is fine IMO.

But (Y) at this thread lol, if you are only 14 and youve only been with a girl for 8 months and feel like killing yourself then :) haha.

Im sorry its harsh but its true, now when youve been with someone for a good few years then something like that happens and youre closest friend youve been with for years and spent all your time with for years leaves you then fair enough theres good reason to be really upset.

Theres plenty more people out there, im sure you will get over it.

Also isnt it a proven fact people trying to kil themselves dont actually want to kill themselves they just want attention which is why they never do it, or never do it properly.

theres more to life than girls, they are a part of life but theres other fun stuff to do ;)

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As the other guy said, You are only like 14 you don't know what real love is.

In time you will see what me and the other guy means, If you love one girl then randomly like another girl thats just a little crush.

Hope this helped.

Try and leave your personal life to yourself thou not a forum.

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Dis iz a stoopid fred.

Erm, it doesn't matter that this is a trials forum as such, but you'd get much better replies if you post this in a teen problems chat room.

No one on here (other than Tomm!) is a doctor.

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just leave him alone he probably just wants to get it off his chest. The chances are he wasn't in love but some people do fall in love at 14 . . . .you do sometimes hear about old couples that have been together for about 300 years so you never know (slight exaduration(sp)) so just leave him alone we have all felt like it. I can understand you might think he is being stupid but as was said another post was just like this is chit chat so just leave the poor geezer alone!

Lil D

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Sorry for the silly post, but i'm feeling very down, about 8 months ago i went out with this girl and she left me for my best mate, and then after that i forgave her for it because i really loved her, and me and her have been on and off with our relationship for a while now, and just as i thought we were going to get back together again, she told me she don't love me no more and shes trying to get one of my other mates! tried to take overdose but changed my mined, so i've drank some salt water, and i'm hoping for the best!

Thanks

hay.. dont be that harsh on him everyone.. you know how you get when you get dumped .. you feel like your whole worlds fading away infront of you..

that was abit harsh too how she just said she didn't love you.. and also i would'nt of forgiven her for getting off with your mate.. thats just not on.. to me she sounds abit of a slag.. no offence

just wait till you find someone who you trust 100% both feel the same. and have lots of things in common and one more vital thing.. lots of comuntication..

take my adivce.. it's coming from a female.. lol (Y)

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Dude STOP right there.

Talking is they way of sorting thing out but you don't wana do it here okay. Why well read on

1 Aint the palce

2 you have the ... ripped out

Try talking to someone your end. A mate or a mate of hers...fokes even.

If you can't then try some help forums on the related topic.

Love's a harsh thing man. It can happen there and then or it can devlope over time. Wether you with her or not you'll always lover her okay. We all have loved someone each totaly differnt feelings of love and amoutn to one anouthr okay.

We all loved DJ okay, yet next sat it's a year to when he was taken away form us. We love him now just as much as we did then even though his not with us. Okay it's a differnt thing the loss of an amazing dude and trials rider, frriend, brother, fionce and so much more when compeared to your loss of you girlfriend. But you will always hold a place for her okay in you heart of hearts. In time wether it's days to years you'll get on with life. We kinda have er. I still get really shit days, i know others that do let alone more important people close to home okay.

Basicly you need to find a bit of music okay or something you can't nail (ridding term) and balst out to it or keep going at it. Use that hate or hurt, loss what ever to get that back wheel of yours up on that lege thats xx'' up that you haven't done before. Or just listen to the tarck and go with it..nothing to dark but enough to blow out, cool off. Or run, okay bit of forest gump moment but get it out of you system.

If you mates are mates then they will ether check on you to see how you are or if it's cool they have anything pyshical to do with you ex.

To me she's just out to inflict pain. many of us er know how you feel but OD'ing aint the way forward.

Speak to any pro rider and they will say they use what goes on aorund to make them better.

I know manny of us have said that the loss of Deej played like crazy on are minds but we used that to get better and bigger.

So do me a favor and the rest on er. Go make you self sick, let someone konw other than us local what you done and happened, drink plenty of water and tommorrow or when ever get you bike and ride like hell or run.

If all end fails then i'm sorry man, 8 months is long but try years and years and when kid's are involved.

RIP Dj xx

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You gotta live with it. I felt like it a couple of months ago but the only thing you can do is live through it. Don't worry mate, all will be gravy soon :).

Jay (Y)

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Sorry for the silly post, but i'm feeling very down, about 8 months ago i went out with this girl and she left me for my best mate, and then after that i forgave her for it because i really loved her, and me and her have been on and off with our relationship for a while now, and just as i thought we were going to get back together again, she told me she don't love me no more and shes trying to get one of my other mates! tried to take overdose but changed my mined, so i've drank some salt water, and i'm hoping for the best!

Thanks

This bird seems to be a big of a whore, going out with your mates.

1: get some new mates....if they are doing that to you, they aint your friends.

2: when your at the legal age, bone her mates, or her sister, mum, aunt.... just to get back youll feel much better.

Dont be a tard and take her back. Shell be using you like most women do.

and last but not least:

3: dont bother taking your life. A hell of alot of people would love the chance to still be alive, make the most of it while you still have it.

3a: just in case dont use life-taking as an attention getter...it dont work

(Y)

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This bird seems to be a big of a whore, going out with your mates.

1: get some new mates....if they are doing that to you, they aint your friends.

2: when your at the legal age, bone her mates, or her sister, mum, aunt.... just to get back youll feel much better.

Dont be a tard and take her back. Shell be using you like most women do.

and last but not least:

3: dont bother taking your life. A hell of alot of people would love the chance to still be alive, make the most of it while you still have it.

3a: just in case dont use life-taking as an attention getter...it dont work

:)

Not an attention grabber, i have seriously done it, im regreting it! (Y)

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