andyroo Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 (edited) You've never been married :- ← Im not the one who is cynical about marriage ( (N) ) EDIT: Cheers plainlazy and trialsboy Edited January 22, 2005 by andyroo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomm Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Im not the one who is cynical about marriage ( (N) ) ← That's true... But I don't see how that's important. Neither of us know what married life is gonna be like, so whether I'm cynical or not isn't gonna affect how your marriage is. I'm cynical, you're more optimistic. Only time will tell who was right in this case. Besides, you'd be pretty stupid if you took the advice of random people (mostly 15 :D ) on an internet forum like this. Obviously you are the best person to judge on something like this, so if you're sure, then go for it. Good luck! :- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil_anderer Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 And to answer that personal question, i am a virgin and the wedding night is the first. And anyone who says that they would get bored of shagging the same person should find someone who they find more attractive! I have found lots of people who I have had sex with very attractive. But with me (not saying it is the same with you) sex with the same person can just end up slipping into a rut, and sex with someone new and exciting is always a massive thrill. Will it be her first as well? I have recently been with a few girls that I've met at churches, who have been of the opinion that sex should only be during a marriage, and never really quite got my head around it. These girls were all desperate for sex, but denying themselves the pleasure, and when questioned I got very few real answers. What would you answer? A 21 year old friend of mine from work just got married to the woman he has been in love with since he was 13. The two of them have only ever slept with each other, and are so in love it makes me sick, and a little (a lot) jealous, they never even look at anyone else! It most defintely can work, they are living proof, how long have you known her by the way? Joel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomm Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 I have recently been with a few girls that I've met at churches, who have been of the opinion that sex should only be during a marriage, and never really quite got my head around it. These girls were all desperate for sex, but denying themselves the pleasure, and when questioned I got very few real answers. What would you answer? Think how f**king good your wedding night would be though! And you try to pull in churches? That's weird, alright? (N) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil_anderer Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 And you try to pull in churches? That's weird, alright? Is it bob!? You have to compete with an awful lot of other men in a club, and all the girls know what you are after, and they like playing the game as much as you. You are drunk, and not at your most witty, charming or intelligent, and it is too loud to show that side of you anyway. In a church, there are very few elligible young men, the ones there are usually not very social or exciting, and a surprising amount of young and intelligent ladies. You are sober(ish usually,) you are witty and charming, if you do your research you can rinse it down with the bible quotes and religious know how. You are also a little more worldy than most of the sheltered ladies there, so you have a sophisticated edge. Hey presto, you have won a young ladies heart, maybe even the vicars wife. Does a church sound like a better place to meet a lady than a club? Joel PS - hititfaster will disagree, he has been to one of the churchy people parties and didn't enjoy the bibley speak. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hititfaster Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Yeah, sure girls are evil, but they're just like my car: you give it petrol (affection and attention) and you've got the potential for a running motor (relationship or at least some good lovin'), but you need other crap like oil and water (meals out, alcohol, cheesy messages), then as long as you know where the right switches are you can turn it on ( :P ) but you have to watch out from time to time because there's a strange crack somewhere that leaks for days at a time and for some reason makes it behave very oddly :D Nah, I don't know about this one. I've met sincerely nice girls and ones who are more of Satans bitches, but it depends on the individual. You won't get with every girl you meet by being nice the ideal bloke because they seem to lie being messed around a bit, but do you really want to be with someone like that? Well maybe one night then :D And you try to pull in churches? That's weird, alright? :- I don't see a problem with it personally, it's just that I can't memorise enough biblical stuff to pull it off like Joel can, aaaaaaand: churchy people parties You see, those words go together like, well, they just don't (N) Young and intelligent these girls might be, but unless you have a genuine knowledge of, and interest in religion (or are prepared to blag big-style, ala Joel) they are duller than particularly dull dishwater. That's how I found them anyway. If you can get them off the topic of God, they can be ok, but given five minutes they're back to the same old... which just makes you want to get up, get another very large drink and go speak to some randoms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Papasnap Maher Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Hey presto, you have won a young ladies heart, maybe even the vicars wife. ← LMAO HAHAHAH i pissed myself when i read that :"> I spose joel has a point, :-" Bye bye, for now, going to evening mass (N) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil_anderer Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Yeah, sure girls are evil, but they're just like my car: you give it petrol (affection and attention) and you've got the potential for a running motor (relationship or at least some good lovin'), but you need other crap like oil and water (meals out, alcohol, cheesy messages), then as long as you know where the right switches are you can turn it on And if they are anything like your car (and women;)) they will cut out randomly just when you think you are getting somewhere.(N) You are right though with the car simile, women are like cars. You have fast, racy ones that are good for nothing apart from looking good with you, and solid and reliable workhorses who will always be there for you, but you are ashamed to bring them out in public. Besides, you can run a car/woman without oil and water or meals out and alcohol, the object will just not run smoothly for too long. Just depends what length of service you desire. You won't get with every girl you meet by being nice the ideal bloke because they seem to lie being messed around a bit, but do you really want to be with someone like that? Is that a trick question? (or are prepared to blag big-style, ala Joel I'm deeply hurt. Me? Blag? Joel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomm Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 In a church, there are very few elligible young men, the ones there are usually not very social or exciting, and a surprising amount of young and intelligent ladies. You are sober(ish usually,) you are witty and charming, if you do your research you can rinse it down with the bible quotes and religious know how. You are also a little more worldy than most of the sheltered ladies there, so you have a sophisticated edge. Hey presto, you have won a young ladies heart, maybe even the vicars wife. ← I can't decide if that's really low, or really clever... Funny either way though. But if they won't have sex with you, isn't it wasted time, from your point of veiw? Or is that the challenge? (N) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haydon_peter Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 In a church, there are very few elligible young men, the ones there are usually not very social or exciting, and a surprising amount of young and intelligent ladies. You are sober(ish usually,) you are witty and charming, if you do your research you can rinse it down with the bible quotes and religious know how. You are also a little more worldy than most of the sheltered ladies there, so you have a sophisticated edge. Hey presto, you have won a young ladies heart, maybe even the vicars wife. ← I can't decide if that's really low, or really clever... Funny either way though. But if they won't have sex with you, isn't it wasted time, from your point of veiw? Or is that the challenge? >_< ← Its just like American Pie when one of the guys joins the choir... B) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plainlazy84 Posted January 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 You are right though with the car simile, women are like cars. You have fast, racy ones that are good for nothing apart from looking good with you, and solid and reliable workhorses who will always be there for you, but you are ashamed to bring them out in public. Joel ← oh my god you sound like Swiss Toni. Starting a car is very much like making love to a beautiful woman. haha u cheesy bastard Joel >_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil_anderer Posted January 23, 2005 Report Share Posted January 23, 2005 can't decide if that's really low, or really clever... Funny either way though. But if they won't have sex with you, isn't it wasted time, from your point of veiw? Or is that the challenge? I would say it is probably both, but it is a whole lot more fun than going to clubs to find women. There are varying degrees of Christian. I have been with a couple who are absolutely firm on their stance, 'nothing apart from kissing,' but for them kissing is like sex, so it is still fun trying to break their barriers down. Then there are others who's faith is a little more flexible. It is mostly the Catholic girls who are more flexible as they feel after giving pennace their sins are cleansed, but there are CofE/Evangelical/Pentecostals who also think this way. It is ok to do what you want, as long as you feel guilty come your judgement. For some who feel that lust is an unforgivable sin that they cannot commit, just remind them that they have already thought these things, and a tiny crime thought about is exactly the same as a massive crime committed in the eyes of God. - 'No man is without sin,' if you claim you are without sin, you are claiming to be perfect, which would mean you claim to be as God or his son on earth, which would make you guilty of pride - the most deadly sin; and way more deadly sin than simple lust. B) ' He that loveth not, knoweth not God - for God is love.' John 4:8 'O my dove, that art in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places of the stairs, let me see thy countenance, let me hear thy voice; for sweet is thy voice, and thy countenance is comely.' Song of Solomon. Though there is a bit later in that same song, which probably covers me. >_< 'Take from us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes.' I would never ever try it on hard with someone who really believed though, because I respect that level of faith immensely, I know that I could never manage it, so I don't make it any harder for them, but it is fun to be with a different kind of person, regardless of whether you plan to have sex with them or not. Joel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomm Posted January 23, 2005 Report Share Posted January 23, 2005 It is fun to be with a different kind of person, regardless of whether you plan to have sex with them or not. ← I thought that was always your plan, haha >_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil_anderer Posted January 23, 2005 Report Share Posted January 23, 2005 Nah, I'm just a good person with a bad reputation. It's a true sob story. Joel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dai the Socket Posted January 23, 2005 Report Share Posted January 23, 2005 What should i do: My girlfriends a bitch like 70% of the time i'm with her or txt/tlk to her, but gorgeous and I still fancy her loads. (Y) She makes my life hell GRRRR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bendee Posted January 23, 2005 Report Share Posted January 23, 2005 What should i do: She makes my life hell GRRRR ← Kinda obvious really, sack her off. Tarty (on Bens PC) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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