dann2707 Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 3 if she's with friends leave drink behind bar or get the bar person to go give it to her, you'll need to tip the bar man. But again the confidence part goes out the window This sounds like an episode of Friends or something jeeesus. So cheesy who even does that 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 Just generally introduce yourself and then ask if the want to grab a drink.. Doesn't mean you have to buy one for her. Could let her grab you one if you're feeling nice though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shercofray Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 Doesn't mean you have to buy one for her. Could let her grab you one if you're feeling nice though I've had that before. Forgot I'd ran out of money, had no card and she honestly didn't mind. It was great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 You're from Harrogate I thought you'd at least have a £50 note tucked neatly in your sock or something Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 alright I get it Where do I live or where did I born? I checked plenty of fish... dude, that was scary! I mean, no way I will do anything there. no. noooo. lets say I am not a fan of dating sites. If a lady cannot get a boyfriend IRL then she has problems probably.... Stix, well, I have no photos of myself (there were some on my FB, now its deleted) but I ask my sisters helps at clothing, as they would know what looks cool, better than me for sure. What's wrong with plenty of fish? I met my girlfriend on there, and now we live together. I can honestly say I've had some of the best times in my life with her, and if it wasn't for plenty of fish we wouldn't have met. So don't dismiss it that easily, it does have its upsides. Maybe women go on there so they can check out the fella first, and decide wether he is a cock by what he writes on his profile? I know loads of girls that do it this way because in real life as you put it, men act like dicks when they are around their mates and women don't like that kind of thing. They like truth and honesty, not bullshit and ego. Give it a try, go on a few dates. Worked for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 (edited) Bing you've changed so much from a few years back when we went to Blackpool, I like it. Although blackpool was probably one of the funniest weekends of my life. Seeing neil do that slide on his knees as his final dance move when we had that dance off hahahaha Edited January 25, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 25, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 bing, honestly you are the very first person who had successfully found a girlfriend on a dating site. I might give it a go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 That was seriously funny. That coloured bird would not be beaten would she. It was such a class weekend that, need another one. So drunk it was unrealbing, honestly you are the very first person who had successfully found a girlfriend on a dating site. I might give it a go I've been out with loads of girls off plenty of fish, but my g/f now is the only one I've settled down with. Most of them were just a few dates/drinks out, and a shag. Nothing more. Its easy to go and get your end away, settling down and doing stuff right is the hard bit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss-Higgy Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 (edited) This sounds like an episode of Friends or something jeeesus. So cheesy who even does that I can't think how to say this in a forum full of guys that will instantly take it the wrong way! A small amount of cheese is acceptable, as romance in general if you look at it is cheesy. HIPPY: I know loads of people who have really good and strong relationships that met via dating sites, whats to loose by trying? Edited January 25, 2014 by Miss-Higgy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 25, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 My problem was I did not, but dammit, I give it a go I might go out on Tuesday as well, just to get familiar with the place more, but on Thursday ill be there for a long time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 bing, honestly you are the very first person who had successfully found a girlfriend on a dating site. I might give it a go My cousin is getting married to a pretty nice lad whom she met on a dating site. They're both pretty decent looking too if I may admit, with university qualifications etc so don't assume everyone on a dating site is fat, ugly, bad social life etc. I also have a mate who met a girl on a dating site and they've been together a year now I think, been living together for half a year or so too. Again, they're both not the stereotypical image of what people on a dating site would be. Most people are probably on there to find people who are similar to them by reading bio, you can't exactly go up to everyone in a club and say "do you like rock music, do you like going outdoors, do you like sex, do you like drugs, do you like travelling" etcetera... I'm happy with being single at the mo and quite like having the time to myself especially with the fact I go out a fair bit I'd genuinely be a pain in the arse of a boyfriend who'd have no free time. But if I had a full time job and wanted someone to relax and spend evenings with I'd probably sign up to a dating site without much thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 If you're going to use dating sites, go on one where you have to pay. Otherwise your nice, genuine messages will just be one amongst the many pictures of cocks that girls on the free sites get from horny twats. The ones on the paid sites are obviously more serious about finding something. The couple that me and Hayley consider our best mates met on eHarmony a fair few years ago, and are getting married this year a month before us. If I was single I don't think I'd hesitate to try the same route. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 25, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 I will give it a go, maybe I am thinking badly about it or I did not digged myself deep enough in the site Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 I met my partner on Plenty Of Fish. We live together and have done for 3 years. The whole "Online dating is for weirdos" thing is out dated bullshit. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Zulu Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 +1 for dating sites. My mother and stepfather met on eHarmony eight years ago and there was a fair but of distance between them. But because they knew their interests were the same the time they spent together they always knew what to talk about and clicked instantly. Soon they were spending more and more time together until eventually they moved in together and swapped jobs to sort the problem of distance out. They've now been married for seven years and I've never seen my mum happier, and it's all thanks to Internet dating. Sign up for it, what's the worst that could happen? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 I've got an idea. Write a note on a paper plane. Throw it at her from across the bar. ?????? Success I'm starting to think that might just work. If I ever do this and it works I'll PM you some saucy pics as a thank you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevinfor Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 I've got an idea. Write a note on a paper plane. Throw it at her from across the bar. ?????? Success If nothing else you can always escort her to the ambulance when she has to go get a new eye 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 If nothing else you can always escort her to the ambulance when she has to go get a new eye Put a condom on the end of it. Clearest message ever? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevinfor Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 Put a condom on the end of it. Clearest message ever? Hah checkmate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 30, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Well this is the night Goals: get a friend Secondary: enjoy myself Bonus: talk to a girl Wish me luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Swap 1 and 2, the others will follow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Zulu Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 ^this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 30, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Secondary so far down Just bit my lip Guessno girl tgen lol But a double vodka yeah At least the bamds are great Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Lagged? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 30, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Lag? How do you mean that? I am on mobile net that is hspda+ Don't laugh no 4g yet here Itslatency us aleight like for foruming Its should be between 250ms and i am a nerd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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