tinytipper Posted February 13, 2013 Report Share Posted February 13, 2013 Said some stupid stuff in my media class about stuff i don't really do. Feel like complete tool haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 (edited) Man, totally forgot about Valentine's day but had assumed, anyway, that the girlfriend was like me and didn't subscribe to it - like it's been in every one of my other relationships. It turns out it was important to her. I didn't even know it was that day until I saw a post from her on my wall. I wonder if it relates to the broader problem of me being a bit of a crap boyfriend at the moment. Since the accident I've been quite reclusive and feeling pretty crazy at points and my finances are f**ked due to poor management and leaving university. But then she started a relationship with me after that had happened so I do feel as though I deserve some leeway. I think, perhaps, she doesn't believe me. I'm kind of paranoid about that with people because I look pretty normal now but, day to day, I can feel okay to very sketchy. I know I've tried my best in many respects and denied my social exhaustion to do things I know she'd like me to. In that sense, I don't think I'm going to feel guilty. I can't help the shit that's happened to me and I know I'm trying very hard in various ways to become better. None the less, I understand if she doesn't see that or is unwilling to endure me. I've got to be a bit tiring or lacking in an ideal sense. Anyway, I needed to vent. I've already felt like shit since I tried working on Saturday and this isn't an ideal addition to life right now. Edited February 14, 2013 by Ben Rowlands Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Had planned to get out on the bike today. Woke up with swelling of my left eye, never had it before. Totally random and look like i've been in a fight. Great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiamWood! Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Mates funeral tomorrow morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 (edited) First world problems. My girlfriend had this literally orgasmic smelling perfume over summer, so so nice and it just makes me think of her (weirdly enough I got a whiff of it on the back of her bra the other night which sent us on this hunt) but after spending about 1000 hours in perfume shops I can't find the source of it, she can't remember the name of it too. Sad dan Edited February 14, 2013 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Has she been in the shops too? The bottles are usually fairly easy to recognise. Maybe this is a chance for you to buy her the Rihanna purfume? smells good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 (edited) She had both "for her" Boss ones over Summer apparently and said the bottle is ripply and see through which made me think it was this one. I smelt it but it just didn't seem like the one which is pretty lame haha. The thing is she's already got quite a few but I wanted this one again as it just reminds me of when we met over summer. Soppy stuff haha. Bought the one I think might be right though. Edited February 14, 2013 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Getting slightly bored with the gf which doesn't make any sense at all. I'm grumpy, having to control myself constantly and force behaviours which were once natural. Thinking this might be due to a lot of work and a lot of things being on my mind recently. This phase must stop Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 I feel like that from time to time, it's natural dude. During times of massive stress I find I just direct a lot of my frustrations onto her.Try to deal with the shit, rather than taking it out on her. I know sometimes that's easier said than done, (I can't just sack off uni, for example, even though I hate it and consider it to be one of the worst decisions I ever made), but there are ways and means. Have you tried getting away for a weekend or just a day out? Try doing similar stuff to the kind of thing you did when you last felt all loved up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Cheers, glad to hear it's not too abnormal. I think another possible cause is that she's doing her second masters degree (takes 2 years over here) and as a result she's had very little time since early December up until just a few days ago. We didn't go out anywhere or do anything interesting for so long that I just lost interest after going through the frustration phase. She too thinks that doing this course was a massive mistake so you two have something in common We're planning a trip somewhere next weekend. Hope this will help, I feel so bad with this attitude. Cheers man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Sounds to me like it's just a compound thing, lots of life-stuff combining together to make for a very frustrated/negative atmosphere. Things in common though you say? Trip sounds good, I'd just try to go into it with the mindset of leaving the shit behind. Maybe try to work a surprise for her into it? Like a little "Thanks for putting up with me for being grumpy" thing? I find that sort of thing helps us both, might work for you? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Fitting internal doors is a f**king nightmare on elm street. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewEH1 Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 (edited) Fitting internal doors is a f**king nightmare on elm street. Use wedges. Edited February 15, 2013 by AndrewEH1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Wedges arn't my problem... Its the cutting to size / painting / measuring then chiselling in hinges / fitting / drilling the handle holes / attaching the handle / cutting in the bolt to the doorframe / fitting the bolt / fitting the striker plate / making door frame straight. And once all thats done making sure it actually opens and closes and functions like a door. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewEH1 Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Wedges arn't my problem... Its the cutting to size / painting / measuring then chiselling in hinges / fitting / drilling the handle holes / attaching the handle / cutting in the bolt to the doorframe / fitting the bolt / fitting the striker plate / making door frame straight. And once all thats done making sure it actually opens and closes and functions like a door. Sounds like fun! I love chiselling. There a loads of videos online for this sort of stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted February 15, 2013 Report Share Posted February 15, 2013 Yeah, I've already successfully fitted one door and thought I'd have overcome the problems I'd encounter fitting this one. But its thrown up a whole different set of problems haha. Oh well, will be a better job than paying for someone to do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 Had to really force myself to get out on the bike today, because I'm trying to ride every weekend now. Decided if I was going to do it, I might as well try something ridiculous. One very scratched bike, a lot of cuts and a puncture later and I can safely say I'm still very much lacking in talent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 Went to film, couldn't use the spot I wanted because it's still covered in ice. By the time I got to the next spot I didn't have much time and lost the best clips because I ran out of memory. Might try again tomorrow... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=543147169042268 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewEH1 Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=543147169042268 WTF...considering this is at my local park I can only apologise of behalf of Scottish people Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 That shit is... shit. YEAH BITCH, LOOK AT MY STUNTS, I CAN SLIDE ON MY ARSE, I CAN SLIDE ON MY FRONT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 What is going ooooon?!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FamilyBiker Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=543147169042268 i hope thats a parody. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 Nah, it's all legit. I mean, if I didn't have a passing interest in riding a skatepark at some point in the future I'd think it was pretty cool because it looks a lot more fun than just going to a gym, turning your brain off and smashing out some weights/a treadmill/other men in the anus. However, if it ends up being as popular as stuff like Zumba I can see skateparks getting pretty hectic. I hope they start doing it at some of the outdoor parks in more 'interesting' estates/locations and see how they get on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FamilyBiker Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 (edited) then it would be time for 360-to-pedestrian landings nah,concept is nice for normal people,but i think we dont need them in parks, parks are for weird people oh wait Edited February 17, 2013 by FamilyBiker Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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