harmertrials Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 (edited) What was it? Basically a few of our shared mates knew something the other day and I asked them to mention it to her, not a massive deal but she's blown it well out of proportion and won't even contact me. Edited January 29, 2014 by harmertrials Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 Women. Nuff said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted January 29, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 :l Shit happens I guess. You don't learn how to do stuff right without doing it wrong 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 You don't know where you're going, until you know where you've been Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 I always seem to be f**king up with her, yet I try so hard to do everything right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 feckin stupid trends, anyone else seeing #neknomination YOU! YOU liked it haha I always seem to be f**king up with her, yet I try so hard to do everything right. Is she on any medication? Anything at allllll. I don't mean drugs lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 Is she on any medication? Anything at allllll. I don't mean drugs lol Nope. She's definitely very controlling, likes trying to keep me in my place. Which feels weird to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 Give some examples! Like to do with what? fb chat if too personal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 Give some examples! Like to do with what? fb chat if too personal She is very up and down. One day she can be texting non stop, and tell me how much she misses me blah blah blah. Make plans for a certain day and get all excited. Then the next she will be quite blunt, take forever to reply etc and often cancel plans. I do believe that she likes me, I'm just sick of games. It's as if she's doing it to keep me interested. But I just want to settle into the relationship properly now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 I think for stuff like that, the only way to get around it is to simply tell her. Not always the easiest option but then you both know where you both stand sort of? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 I think for stuff like that, the only way to get around it is to simply tell her. Not always the easiest option but then you both know where you both stand sort of? I tried today but that's when stuff got stupid. Anyway, enough of this need to just watch some tv and forget about it as much as possible. Cheers x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted January 29, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 Yeah that doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong harmy x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 29, 2014 Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 Yeah that doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong harmy x In fact do either of you fancy a chat about it on fb? It's doing my head in. Will involve a mountain of screenshots from earlier though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted January 29, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2014 I'm always here to talk babes x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsiain Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Haha Dan you caught me, nah but he necked it so quickly . The ones that annoy me are when people try and do something funny and fail and it just ends up cringy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) You probably know already, I'm here if you want a chat Jack. Archie doesn't seem the sort that would make things worse for you and her so she clearly must have taken whatever it was in the wrong. Or at least had a different mindset/view about it which women always seem to have in general. Guessing Archie was at least involved, don't know the others too well. They seem like a reet bunch anyway. Edited January 30, 2014 by Jake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Haha Dan you caught me, nah but he necked it so quickly . The ones that annoy me are when people try and do something funny and fail and it just ends up cringy Bro in law showed me a lad he knows doing one on Tuesday, necks 2 pints (pretty slowly) then dropped about 12ft off a bridge into a river and almost got carried away by the current. Safe to say he could have pretty easily died! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsiain Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Bro in law showed me a lad he knows doing one on Tuesday, necks 2 pints (pretty slowly) then dropped about 12ft off a bridge into a river and almost got carried away by the current. Safe to say he could have pretty easily died! yep seen something like it but the guy I seen necked a pint then jumped off a bridge in the f**king dark and in flood. I'm sure a few people have died jumping off it too, when it isn't flooded. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 She's definitely very controlling, likes trying to keep me in my place. Which feels weird to me. Talk to her about this before becomes an issue! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Talk to her about this before becomes an issue! I have a feeling I wont need to in a week or so. She works a lot and doesn't actually have that much spare time, so when she does she's always with mates or seeing me. I've had a tonne of spare time over the last couple of months, all I really have planned on a daily basis is jobhunting. However I think that may be coming to a head now, as well as moving in with my mate tomorrow. I know I'll have a lot more going on so wont be there waiting for her to be free if that makes any sense. Basically I think me being busier will make things better all round. I hate having nothing to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 That makes sense. Feeling like she's controlling you is not good though - hopefully it'll turn around as you said 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Yoshi Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 Funerals are so much work. Having to talk to the police and council to sort parking/road closures. Sorting out buses/Mini-bus to get people from the car park to the grave yard and the markee. Clearing an area for the 4000 square foot markee and finding/ robbing 500 chairs from the 3 local villages halls.ha Having to sand and varnish the coffin bearer. All in all a hectic week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 In the brief time I've actually been on here today, I've read a worryingly large amount of replies where the level of writing/spelling is so bad it makes it impossible to actually understand what's being said. If only we knew when it was all kicking off about whether text speak was allowed or not how much worse was to come... Seeing Americanisms like spelling definitely "defiantly" and omitting the "n't" from words like couldn't/shouldn't/wouldn't gaining more ground here sucks. To anyone who defiantly could care less about there spelling: f**k you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmertrials Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 (edited) To anyone who defiantly could care less about there spelling: f**k you. That was intentional right? I'm actually embarrassed at what I missed there. Oh my. Edited January 31, 2014 by harmertrials 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*gentlydoesit Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 forgive mobile users spelling? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.