Papa Manual Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Saw this polled on another forum and I wondered what you lot thought. It seems the majority of lawyers have cheated and would stay with their partners if cheated on! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 I couldn't take it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max-t Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Who's to say they won't keep doing it? Who's to say they won't pick up herpes and give it to you? Bit extreme I know, but it could happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Hard to say without it happening I reckon. Also depends on circumstance in my eyes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam-Griffin Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 However much i hate to admit it, I think I'd stay. I love my Girlfriend too much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Depends on the circumstances again. If it was with some lad when they were drunk on holiday, say in turkey, and it was a cheeky kiss or whatever then yeah thatd be ok I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Be aware people: Your girlfriend is more likely to be reading this than you realise. If you say you'd stay you're letting her think - at least subconsciously - that she could get away with it. That said, I believe there are mitigating circumstances to some cheating situations. I've cheated and been forgiven by previous girlfriends, so I would find it hard to go all holier than thou on someone. If I become bad enough at my boyfriend duties (and she could prove that) to let the idea of playing away turn from a thought to an action by her then I'd have to blame myself as well as her, leading to the possibility of forgiveness. Possibility, not certainty Leanne, if you're reading this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 (edited) Nah that's bullshit I definitely don't think I would, I'd never do that to someone else so expect the same. Not to mention I think I might just get too jealous of every single boy she spoke to from then on and not be able to deal with it. But then again I've never actually been in a properly serious relationship so I have nooooo idea to be honest. Edited September 15, 2010 by Max Quinn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 No. I might be lacking in several things, but self respect I am not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oldskooltrials Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 I'm married,got a 4 year old son and maybe another one on the way. If i found out that she cheated on me i'd be out the door so fast it'd make her head spin! I've devoted the last 9 years of my life to her so a bit of loyalty is the least i expect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si-man Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Id get rid of her. If I caught her cheating, then id probably reshape the guys head with my boots. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trialsbikenut Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Cought my ex cheating on me at a party she went to, went to surprise her as said I wasnt goin to find her sat on some lads knee gettin off with him, pulled her off smashed the guys face in a week later sorted it out with her and all was sound for 2 weeks then she done the exact same thing again had been wid her for 2 years at this point once a cheat always a cheat !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Hard to say without it happening I reckon. Also depends on circumstance in my eyes. +1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Scarlet Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 I'm sure it's probably hard for someone who is in the situation, and I can't say whether my opinion would change in that situation as I have never encountered it. But as someone (can't remember who) previously said on this forum; Once a cheater always a cheater. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krisboats Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 I'm actually surprised by the forum for once, in a very positive way. I was expecting loads of people to post up saying they'd drop them straight away and find the other guy and smash his head in as the average age on here is quite young. I'm happy to be mistaken in that a lot of people accept it's largely circumstantial. I wouldn't really know how to answer unless i ever find myself in that situation. I think it's somewhat engrained in us nowadays that it's best to leave if your partner cheats, out of self respect. Although i'd be inclined to say that i think sticking with them and getting through it can command just as much respect as doing "the right thing". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 (edited) I was cheated on and at the time I would have taken her back by virtue of how I felt for her. This is despite the fairly brutal way in which cheated on/dropped me. This wouldn't always be the case, I'm sure, but I'd never connected with another female to that extent before or since then for that matter. However, at this point, despite a part of me still missing and wanting to be with her it doesn't seem like a very sensible option in the hypothetical sense; it's certainly never going be a real option. Are you sure the motivation for this thread doesn't relate to yourself, Jon? Other forum, eh? Edited September 15, 2010 by Ben Rowlands Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa Manual Posted September 15, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Certainly wouldn't be using Trials-Forum to decide the future of my relationship! I was just kind of curious how the answers would differ from a load of (mostly middle aged) lawyers to younger members of society. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Do they have a version of the sidehop thread where instead of talking about how much tuck they got they talk about how much they fleece people for? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa Manual Posted September 15, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 There is a lot of legal dick size comparison. It's good for shits and giggles as they are great examples of exactly what I want to avoid becoming. I wouldn't really know how to answer unless i ever find myself in that situation. I think it's somewhat engrained in us nowadays that it's best to leave if your partner cheats, out of self respect. Although i'd be inclined to say that i think sticking with them and getting through it can command just as much respect as doing "the right thing". That's kind of my thinking to be honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Id get rid of her. If I caught her cheating, then id probably reshape the guys head with my boots. Cought my ex cheating on me at a party she went to, went to surprise her as said I wasnt goin to find her sat on some lads knee gettin off with him, pulled her off smashed the guys face in a week later sorted it out with her and all was sound for 2 weeks then she done the exact same thing again had been wid her for 2 years at this point once a cheat always a cheat !!! Why would you punch the guy who was with your girl. He might not even know she had a BF? I've always said, if someone cheats on me and I find out about it, I'm done. If they tell me about it, I'd consider staying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Why would you punch the guy who was with your girl. He might not even know she had a BF? I don't think logical reasoning through the issue really comes into play here to be honest, you either just hit him out of instinct or don't, spur of the moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 No way would I stay with someone like that. I'd make it as painful for them as possible too. Cheaters, liars and thieves are my 3 biggest hates. If you're bored of someone, end the relationship - don't cheat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Cheaters, liars and thieves are my 3 biggest hates. Likewise but until you're in the situation you can't say what you'd do. Far too many factors to come into play for it to be so black and white. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Likewise but until you're in the situation you can't say what you'd do. Far too many factors to come into play for it to be so black and white. I don't really think so... explain a situation. If she doesn't consent to it, it's not cheating. If she consents, she can f**k off as far as I'm concerned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si-man Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Why would you punch the guy who was with your girl. He might not even know she had a BF? I've always said, if someone cheats on me and I find out about it, I'm done. If they tell me about it, I'd consider staying. Kinda one of those spur of the moment things, plus, anger kinda builds up pretty quick in me. I think if you came home to someone with your wife you'd get the shotgun and the shovel out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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