Dont Worry about that! Its not what it is.. its how you wear it.. like.. the attitude you have towards it or think about it and what attitude people see come off you.. My uncle has his done, looks great! My mate had it done, acted al hard 'cos he did it himself, made him look like a chav and hes pretty much completely scene!? I really want my lip or tongue done, but am really afraid what the pains like compared to my nipple lol EDIT: If i had my lip done it would be like the pic above (the side ones, but start with 1, then 2)