i have won the bidding on a monty 1 pc suit on ebay, i have sent a message to the person, but he hasnt replyed back for 2 days, does the person who is selling (the one where i won the bidding) is he forced in to selling the suit, or can he back out now? i emailed him asking him to send his adress so i can post a cheque out, as i dont want to use pay pal thanks colly :S