Go on 'My controls' and avatar settings, picture changing can be done there. Answering the validation question, read the following : Tips to get validated quicker * Use the Spell Checker, it doesnt take long! * Dnt use txt tlk * Use descriptive topic titles, try not to use topic titles such as 'help!', 'Problem with....', 'where', and instead try and put as much information in as possible * Try and put as much information into your posts as possible, don't leave people guessing what you mean (this is not MSN!) * Do not spam/post irrelevant messages * Dont get involved in arguments, use the report button. If you are argumentative you seriously reduce your chances of getting validated