Urm.... See this is what pisses me off about you online, we can have some awsome chats and you seem really sound then you just make yourself seem like a bit of a spanner.... Dont you still live at home? Women go to pubs if forced to by husbands / boyfriends... Women go to car shows if forced to by husbands / boyfriends... Variety, spice of life, do something where your gonna meet loads of new people. Boys and girls, like go to a dance class, or try yoga... or anything to get out and meet new skin. Mates of your mates clubbing or summink i dunno!