Truth from Mack there. If the lass expects EVERYTHING to be payed for then she aint worth shit. With my current girlfriend we share paying for stuff, like if we go to the cinema I'll pay for tickets and she pays for drinks etc. I offer to pay for bit's an bob's but she gets annoyed when I pay for everything. That's how it should be in my eye's.... Yeah, take a pizza round and a good film or something, your both only 14, so a full on dinner out just seems abit to foward.