You've completely and utterly lost me now.
in the first post of our debate, You were listing your commitments, music, freelancing etc and you were the first to mention a girlfriend. I echod your sentances by listing my commitments and I added girlfriend, you said you didn't understand why a girlfriend is a tie etc.
Hence why I quoted you and pursued that.
Of course a girlfriends a tie, but in the same way I'm a tie for my girlfriend. A relationship is a massive comprise between a couple, I don't do all the activities I'd like to in the same way she doesn't out of respect for eachother. If we both did exactly what we wanted all the time, shit wouldn't last long.