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Jolfa

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  1. Oh heavens, that's an awful lot like mine an my girlfriends first kiss, fortunately she took the lead after the awkward f**kup and made it a proper kiss No real advice to give here, I can just relate to it, and cringed a bit just reading it
  2. If you're a trader anything you sell comes with a 6 month mandatory warranty by law. If you're a private individual you can basically tell him to f*ck right off Click! Just happened to have the link open in another window having researched the matter due to a car my mum recently bought (from a trader)
  3. I get it what you're saying, but it sounds like your sister will be the excuse to continue contact. In the same way as people who try to quit smoking in stages where they're only allowed a fag under certain circumstances (with a drink for example), they start engineering those cirumstances (drinking more often) so that they can have a fag... As Luke said, the only times you seem to come on here to discuss the matter is when you've been talking her, so it obviously causes you pain to do so, even if it wasn't intended to do so by either party. If you just didn't talk to her (or kept it to a bare minimum - for example when she's with your sister and you happen to be there at the same time) then the pain would be somewhat reduced. The way you still talk about her would suggest you do want her back, even if that's some way off in the future, you don't want to stop talking to her, and you don't want to stop loving her, and all despite the obvious associated heartache. As a result it sounds as though she's resorting to hurt tactics to create some distance between you.
  4. Doesn't mean you have to have any involvement with her at all, stop making excuses, stop talking, stop hurting yourself. Explain this to her in your own little desperate way if you must, but leave it at that and stick to it.
  5. So stop pretending, cut all contact and get the f*ck on with your life instead of kidding yourself that someday everything will work out rosey and you can be together in some kind of fantasy world at the end of the rainbow. As long as you know what's going on in her life, and she has the means to contact you and hurt you (which she will, regardless of any prior arangement) and you can contact her and pour your heart out whenever you're feeling low, then you'll never get over her and drive yourself nuts. There's no polite way of saying it, you're being a twat about it fooling yourself and you're just hurting yourself letting her play any sort of role in your life whatsoever. It's not easy cutting all ties and burning all bridges, but it's literally the only thing you can do if you want to keep your mind and get on with life. And I'm also sick of reading about it because it's just like reading about myself a few years ago, and how much of a mug I was at the time, truely cringeworthy.
  6. You're analysing things way too much. Why don't you just go somewhere and see how it goes, there's no pressure... xx
  7. Basically (and I've been there) you're trying much too hard to cling onto something that will never happen because she's an arsehole, you're making yourself look a twat and it is amusing to everyone but you. Most notably her. It's cringeworthy and I'm sure you're aware of it. The living in the next room (not somewhere I've been) is going to kill you, I don't know what to suggest there, but for goodness sake stop being a soppy b*****d, you may aswell start writing yourself letters telling yourself what a worthless gimp you are. As for the lad who was on drugs (which are bad m'kay), he is more fun than you, regardless of her opinion of drugs or how much of a tosser he is. All I can advise is to move the f*ck on because you're just going to continue hurting yourself. If it helps, read the above with a thick sugar coating
  8. There are pictures online you can print off yes, but there's nothing on the Kony2012 site linking to anything of the sort...
  9. Wow, shocking viewing! Will be very interested to see the outcome in April! Might have to coincide with a visit to see the girlfriend in London... The sceptic in me thinks the $30 for the action kit might not see the front line of the problem, there should just be a printable version of the poster if the idea is to raise awareness.
  10. Still working, just bought myself a well wikkid sunstrip yo! £0
  11. Can you give me the jist, or some kind of clue what it's about before I commit myself for half an hour?
  12. Just like continue to like take it as it comes like.
  13. See now there's being cut up about a bad breakup, and being a plain old gay mug. You are the latter, sort it out
  14. Love comments like that, almost as much as I love the people who delete their accounts then sign up again a week later
  15. Have words, don't sugar coat it, give her an ultimatum - she either stops being a twat or you're over, This will initially make the situation 100x worse, until she calms down and either 1) Becomes a rational human being or 2) Cheats on you to maintain making you miserable because she is a plain old bitch
  16. Usually just really moody, my ex was the worst when she had the implant too, she was impossible! A mate said his girlfriend was really off with him when she started taking a certain pill but didn't want to talk about it because there was no problem (you know the kind of conversation ). Different pills have different effects it seems, might be worth her trying a different one? My gf has tried alsorts of pills to find one she's happy with, some gave her erratic periods and such too, she seems to be alright with the one she's on atm
  17. You've got a mate who reads Sickipedia and texts you the contents of it too? There's always one
  18. Jolfa

    Math Help

    I couldn't even begin to make sense of any of the numbers in this thread
  19. But of course Got some Turbine LP cranks to go on with a Filthy Ard Gard, Azonic bars, XTR front brake and I'm building up a new front wheel (Sunset Mavic with an old Hope hub with the optional disc adaptor which I'll be building snowflaked), I'm also after a purple or red rear Ti-Glide/Bulb hub with the disc option again and yellow Magura lever Love the Giant, but the Norco is so much nicer to get about on, and since I don't ride trials anymore anyway, it's pretty much just a fashion accessory
  20. Damn right, back in the days when the only place you were going to see footage of other riders was on VHS, Evolve and Contact sold the Norco to me, and Tricks & Stunts (& Bi-King) made me want the Giant. Only bought the Giant a couple of years back mind, because I had one back in the day and absolutely loved it... Mainly because it was, and still is the only frame I've ever had, that was built with trials in mind So I had to have another And since all the old stuff I always wanted is now pretty much worthless, I can build it to dream spec too I should've always gone for the white Norco too, and I found a few places I could've got one at the time, not entirely sure why I opted for the red model
  21. Just wanted to show off what I've spent the day doing Borrowed a few bits off my Hawzee rep (which I will be replacing with upgrades, in keeping with Hawzees spec on his version cause I'm sad like that!) To build up My pub commuter. The Norco used to be my trials bike, but even back then the geometry was appalling, worst waste of £500 ever! That's how it used to look
  22. Must be both a huge relief and a massive kick in the balls at the same time, not sure whether to give you an internet pat on the back or my virtual condolences
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