That's a bit.. weird, yes.. My gf had a thing about getting very facinated about other guys. Not anyone, but a certain type. Doesn't mean it's gonna happend anything between them, lovevice. But it did my head in, in the long term... When she spoked to "them", I felt like I didn't exist at all. She could get so "obsessed" by a person, it was a bit scary. And I was a hell lot worried at times.. I don't want that in a girl, again, ever. And as the post above said. SHE may not mean anything, but the guy in the other end could have other thoughts..