I dont want to sound harsh because im sure you really do love her, but what you have to think about most is your future and what you really want to do, by the sounds of it (and i could be wrong so dont quote me on this) you dont really want to do this apprenticeship or whatever, but you have decided to because you will be able to see your gf alot and possibly get a flat together without worrying about you being away from home possibly at uni, just give it a real think, afterall it is upto you. My brother moved out when he was 24, he was a good selfemployed joiner, earning a fair amount of money and although it was a house he still found it difficult to manage his money and soforth. I wouldent move out at 18, unless i was having a bad home life and generally unhappy at home, if your not, dont do it. What makes you want to have your own place with her so young? Just interested to know. Andy.