Doing so would be unlikely to improve his situation . This appears to be a critical point in Beau's life , where an sensible or poor decision may have profound effects upon his future . Your advice would lead to further estranging his family and possibly facing criminal charges - NOT helpful to anyone . By the tone of your post , I presume you know him ? Then show him guidance and support , and impress upon him that by refraining from retalliatory violence he will be actively demonstrating his father's weakness . Best of luck , Beau - be smart . :king: