Your moaning at people to not stretch there ears but mine looks nothing like yours, when i take mine out hardly anyone can see it, it shrinks down to barely anything and ive got 22mm in it everyday, it took me about 4 months to stretch to 22mm which people think is too fast but my ear looks nothing like yours, maybe youve had infections because youve pushed yourself too much, my ear didnt hurt when i stretched mine, maybe your just an idiot?