Still no reply , But i have spoke to my girlfriends father who runs his own business quite a large one, and he's spoken to his mate/legal adviser and has been told that i am able to involve the police as this is classed as theft as he's agreed to sell an item taken the money but not sent an item . This is my last resort i,m not working for MY money so some theiving tw@t can take it If anyone knows or lives near the lad just let him know i,m involving the police if he does not reply.