Not all of it's bad parenting! I'm sure most people on here who smoke and drink etc did so before the legal age. Besides, a lot of people are getting served for age rated products without being ID'd these days. I've been served cigarettes and alcohol in your Somerfield before and I can get into most clubs and that no sweat these days. The parenting only really comes into play with the cliché examples in my opinion, and other than that I think parenting only really influences you a little bit. I know I was taught to be a good little Catholic girl and that didn't really happen.